How does one find a friend? This is uncharted territory for me and I'm looking for jendifficult..please help...she doesn't know my name on this site.... :)

If she is a writer on this site, then you may want to start reading. Read articles, poetry, etc. or whatever for a few days, and i am almost sure you will find the person. You know what that person likes, so use those things and find the articles related to those things.

Of course you can always "make a request" and you just never know when they will see it.