It depends on the man and the couple.
Some guys are fine with being nothing more than a "prop" on the wedding day. All they require is a location and time to show up.
Their future wife would have it no other way!
However if the (bride to be) wants input from the man he should actively help her with selecting the reception venue, the menu, photographer, and so on. Without help or showing any interest on his part some women can become resentful or feel as though it's not "important enough" for him to care.
I'm a "team approach" guy who could never marry a "Bridezilla". :)