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“Letters to YOU” Re: Where is my dream partner?!

Updated on November 16, 2010

Dear YOU,

……… your dream partner is just around the corner.

Yes, I know you might find it funny/silly/obvious/etc. But let me ask you this:

What is a dream partner?

What is YOUR dream partner?

I bet you’ve already named a 100 qualities your dream partner should NOT have. That’s why you’re still asking “Where is my dream partner?!”…because you have no idea who it is! How will you know when you two meet if you don’t even know who it is that you are wanting to find?!

Now, a very easy and yet powerful exercise for YOU —> make a list of all possible qualities (both physical and personal ) that you desire your partner to posses. Put them down on paper (yes, on paper, it can handle anything! ). Read what you wrote and adjust/add/cross out points you’ve mentioned. Now you are ready to visualise this person you’ve created in your mind…think of a scenario where you two can possibly meet, include as many details as possible (e.g. time of year, venue, possible date/time, noises/smells around etc) . Activate your imagination and continue doing this exercise on a daily basis until you meet this person.

So many clients of mine have created their perfect relationships, dream partners and other staff that I’m ready to share some tips with you:

- be optimistic, realistic and believe in the power of exercise

- be serious about finding the “right” partner for yourself, after all, relationship is a major part of life

- be honest with yourself when listing down the qualities

- be brave and always maintain positive attitude

- be grateful to your previous partners and remember the good things you’ve learnt from them

- enjoy the journey!

And of course…..

Be healthy, happy and wealthy….& remember: “Ask, believe, receive”

Always by your side,



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    • Tati Irodova profile imageAUTHOR

      Tatiana Irodova 

      8 years ago from London, UK

      Hello! Thanks for the comment and for the fun mail :) xx

    • richtwf profile image


      8 years ago

      Like many other goals in our life, if we don't know what we truly want then how are we supposed to obtain that thing which will make us happy. We have to ask ourselves questions about what we want, in this case, our dream partner, and then visualise and also begin to create the circumstances where we're more likely to meet that person in our lives. Knowing what we want and then knowing how to obtain it are two important keys in the process of achieving our goals ... dream life partner or whatever it is that we want in our lives.

      Thanks for sharing these thoughts. Great hub - excellent message.


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