why do LOVE hurts

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   PTAYLOR9366posted 16 years ago

   why do LOVE hurts
   can someone answer this for me
   i know it LOVE for your family
   that don't hurts as much
   i know it LOVE for your pets
   that don't hurts as much
   i know it LOVE for your kids
   that don't hurts as much
   i know it LOVE for spouse,boyfriend,or girlfriend
   that LOVE hurts ways to much
   that LOVE bring you way down
   i don't like that feeling
   please someone tell me
   why so LOVE hurts

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      yolanda yvetteposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      It's just a part of life, really.
      
      A risk in love is getting hurt.  But we can't go around withholding love because we're afraid of possibly being hurt. 
      
      The thing is sometimes we tolerate too much of it and put up with it for far too long from people who aren't even good enough for us.

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   micadeoluposted 14 years ago

   Love hurts because what people call love is not really love but "LUST" and that hurts really bad!

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      fucsiaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I agree with you.
      It can also be fear, possession, insecurity. All things that are not love.
      ( it is just my thought: I do not have the presumption to know what is love for others, but I know very well what is love for me!)

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   veronica_olsonposted 14 years ago

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   fucsiaposted 14 years ago

   I think that the true love make us always happy, just becouse we feel love. Perhaps the love that you appoint, is not love.
   (I just wrote a Hub where I explain my thought about this lovely topic).

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   couturepopcafeposted 14 years ago

   We allow hurt into our lives.  When we 'fall in love', there is the expectation that our effort will be returned equally.  Expectation is where we have a problem.  Do not become attached to the outcome you have created in your mind.  Remain open to all possibilities, even lies.  Recognize them as being part of the giver not the receiver.

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   Richieb799posted 14 years ago

   Some interesting explanations here, makes sense then when you refer to the phrase 'If you love someone, let them go'

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      couturepopcafeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Richieb - you look like a young Matt Damon.  Totally unrelated to the OP (but I do love Jason Bourne).

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