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how could i overcome my emotional numbness?

  1. VoluptouosLady34 profile image55
    VoluptouosLady34posted 7 years ago

    how could i overcome my emotional numbness?

    Its soo hurting...I’m tired of lies!!! A chill has settled on my emotions, and the more time that passes, the more the numb consumes me. I'm having a hard time letting men get close to me. The more they try to affect me, the colder I feel. When it comes to the reality of love, I go back to being numb. What should I do???

  2. jdomingo profile image61
    jdomingoposted 7 years ago

    I was in the same situation...except with women of course but what worked for me is learning to appreciate yourself first. 

    Learning that you are resilient and will overcome anything that crosses your path was the first step and it took me 3 years to figure that out. 

    Do yourself a favor and don't let it take that long.  Love yourself first and foremost and don't depend on others for happiness and that is a good first step in the right direction I think.

  3. VoluptouosLady34 profile image55
    VoluptouosLady34posted 7 years ago

    im a girl who wanted to be love...I’m giving my heart for someone but why they just rip it all away??? They say that when you give a guy all he wants he quickly gets bored. And I know that’s the truth…although I told myself that I’ll never be tricked by love. I fall in love and my hearts torn again…so sad!

  4. TheZen ofWriting profile image60
    TheZen ofWritingposted 7 years ago

    Look inside of your mind.  When did you first start feeling this way?  Why?  What caused you to start feeling this way?  Where were you when you first started feeling this way?

 
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