Take the nerd and shape him into the life of the party! Seriously, take the one who give you what you want and need. Take the one who treats you right - with respect and treats you like a lady. Seems if you have outgrown the "life of the party.....you are changing, and as you change and mature, your needs change. Go for the one that accepts you for the wonderful person you are! Hope this helps! Thanks for the q.
all depends on what your looking for in a relationship. I'm a nerd and can be the life of the party. I look for someone who has the same interest's in some of the same things as I am, but at the same time i want some thing different so we have something to talk about. When it comes to being the life of the party... we all like to have a good time right. i don't want the person taking their clothes off and making out the everyone at the party.