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Evn if I knw dat my bst frnd (gal) is nt in luv wid me..Can a gr8 romantic propo

  1. rishworld profile image77
    rishworldposted 7 years ago

    Evn if I knw dat my bst frnd (gal) is nt in luv wid me..Can a gr8 romantic proposal, chnge her mind?

    She likes me a lot, n I hav told her abt my feelngs...bt she gav some excuse dat she wont b allowed by her parents to marry me due to some orthodox reasons.... But I think if she will fall in love with me, she will not care about anything else..
    so can a beautiful romantic proposal work...?
    if not then what?
    after a month i've to leave this place..
    i cant lose her..
    i want to commit to her before leaving..

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    reeltaulkposted 7 years ago

    Just remember as you mentioned that she has given you an "excuse".  Be not dismayed do not allow what she has said to confuse or deter you!  Follow your heart as though the dreams that it dreams are destined to come alive.  Do exactly what you desire to do and propose to her, but prepare yourself to accept what she says and does!  Do not deceive yourself by making excuses for her to make yourself feel better even if you believe that she really wants what you want.  You can love from a distance it may be hard but life must go on!  It is serves no purpose standing still when you've been given the gift of LiFe.  Best of Wishes Rish Ciao

    Vonda G. Nelson

  3. curiousx profile image60
    curiousxposted 7 years ago

    I'm trying to keep it simple..

    Yes, it can change her mind.

    But, as this decision to love you will be taken only in minutes(or even less), a decision to reverse it also takes the same amount of time. Keep this in mind. If you have a great romantic proposal in mind, go ahead and do it with all your heart. If you don't have one, plan it and do it.

    The point I was trying to make is that it is not only a proposal that she needs from you. Do the proposal with all your might and then work towards what she really needs from you. I can help you with that later - first, plan on the proposal.

    There was this girl who likes me a lot, and she didn't accept my love due to caste and parents(similar lines as yours). In a prolonged talk, she told me that she could have accepted if I have properly proposed her(Why I didn't propose is a completely different story!!)

  4. duffsmom profile image59
    duffsmomposted 7 years ago

    Please write real words and not text language.  Writers need to use the entire word.

    Give her time and back away and give her some space.

  5. edhan profile image60
    edhanposted 7 years ago

    I believe in sincerity will win her heart. If you are serious about this relationship and sincere about it, I do believe your success can be true.

  6. Felixedet2000 profile image56
    Felixedet2000posted 7 years ago

    Anything and everything is possible in romantic world, experience individuals will tell you yes, while the newbies will say no, all the same you can and you cannot based on your approach, manner, temperament, timing, location and so many other factors combined.

  7. nightwork4 profile image60
    nightwork4posted 7 years ago

    you do realise that this isn't a site for kids who have a need to butcher the english language don't you. what the heck is "dat". and to think people complain about my spelling . wow.

  8. ravenlt04 profile image64
    ravenlt04posted 7 years ago

    Oh!!  So sweet!  Initially, I thought you were asking if you can make her love you if she doesn't, then I was going to say no!  But if she loves you, a proposal could potentially work.  Have you tried talking to her parents?  To know they are okay with it would really ease her mind.

  9. rishworld profile image77
    rishworldposted 7 years ago

    THIS IS FOR NIGHTWORK4 and DUFFSMOM........
    Come on.....please behave some more realistic, if i wrote those in short...it doesnt change the meaning........
    and for your kind information i wrote those to adjust in 100 characters....u can see that at bottom i have not written in short......... you should change your perspective some more.............disgusting....!!!

 
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