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I like a girl but she hates me? how to convince her?

  1. moneycop profile image78
    moneycopposted 6 years ago

    I like a girl but she hates me? how to convince her?

    Just after seeing her I started liking her...i feel in love with her and after many watch I proposed her she denied and I am trying to convince her, she behaves sweetly but strange thing is she denies every time.


  2. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    The real question is, "Why would you want to be with someone who does not want to be with you?
    There are almost 7 Billion people on the planet.
    The odds are in your favor that there is more than one person who would love and accept you.

    You never know once you stop pursuing her she may come after you. Stranger things have happened.
    Life is too short to be wasting your time on someone who is not interested in you.
    You deserve better!

    There comes a point after a couple of rejections if a man continues to pursue a woman it becomes “stalking” or “sexual harassment”. If you have to sell a woman on the idea that you are “the one” then it means she is not “the one” for you. 
    “The one” will naturally recognize you as being their one!
    Best of luck!

  3. moneycop profile image78
    moneycopposted 6 years ago

    to search other is not a problem but in any girl i see her only..this the problem.

  4. Aphrodite Venus profile image56
    Aphrodite Venusposted 6 years ago


    I think the problem here is that you allowed your emotions to take over. Correct me if I'm wrong, but you started seeing this girl and then started developing feelings, nothing wrong with that and then you proposed as in marriage proposal? I am going to be straight up with you. If a guy came across like that to me in such a short time, I would probably run, forest run! She is probably overwhelmed because you came on too strong. You should have kept those feelings to yourself and taken the time to get to know her without showing her too much interest, no demands, not calling her up too much or waiting by the phone for her calls. Women respond a lot better to guys who are not too available and know how to play the game. So I don't think it has anything to do with your personally. You might still have a chance with this woman, but you do have to create an emotional space and like commentor below me said just wait and see if she does come around once she sees that you no longer pursue her. Best of luck

    1. Danish Lalkhani profile image61
      Danish Lalkhaniposted 18 months agoin reply to this

      Thankyou so much mam smile

  5. Ashu Rainen profile image59
    Ashu Rainenposted 5 years ago

    leave her.. thats the best way for both because wasting time for nothing makes no sense.
    if she told u in gentle way then it doesn't mean she likes you its just her sympathy
    so go on life has end over here.

    and in my way leave past
    it will teach u many things and u ll definitely going to have better girl than her.