I have to disagree with you on this one cosette, I would hope that instinctively and naturally anyone who bears a child would behave this way. It is your duty to......unfortunately there are many people who bring children into this world and walk around as though they did their children a favor by "producing" them. Very ignorant, very brain dead behavior. They are not responsible for their welfare, neither their upbringing and basically doom their children before they have a chance to see and experience life in a better light! The great thing about Loving another person outside of family this way is that you are able to experience a growth in yourself that is magical, sort of like a transformation. To Love unconditionally has so much power behind it and when you can get the same love back, it makes it all the better. It doesn't always work out this way, but at least you experienced something other never do in their life time. Alot of people "Luv" so that they in return can receive "Luv" it doesn't work out this way---
Vonda G. Nelson