What would you do if you were a guy....
You saw a nice lady with her front blouse open, forgot to button up. Obviously you could see her bra or breast. Would you tell her the blunder or ignore it, pretend that you didn't see it. If you were a guy....
I think it depends on a few things. Where are we? Do I know her? and What is the demeanor/attitude or vibe she gives off?
If I did say anything it would be a quick casual statement; "Looks like you missed a button." as I continued on my way. However if I didn't know the woman odds are I would ignore it and go about my business. Some women might be offended that a man's eyes were looking at her cleavage and had the nerve to make a comment. In other instances it may be a woman's personal style or a fashion statement. I would not make assumptions.
Well, I kind of have an "out" - no pun initially intended. I am gay, but not flamboyant in the stereotyped ways. BUT, for this task, I might pour it on a bit, peering faux-"discreet from experience" over the top of my glasses and say "Hon, unless you are overheating, I think you're showing more than you mean to, then drop a lightning-quick and knowing glance toward the exposed area as I then flair off as if I'm late for my facial or manicure!
She'd be too shocked or busy laughing at my ostenatiousness to be all that embarrassed - precisely as I would hope. Deliver the message, and protect her dignity at the same time!
These days it can be hard to tell if something like that is on purpose or by accident. If it clearly wasn't intended, I'd have no problem mentioning something. "Miss your shirts open," and move along. No reason to make it all dramatic. Just seems like basic courtesy to me. It's reasonable to assume that eventually she'll find out. The one time embarrassment seems better than her wondering how long it was like that and how many people had seen (and why no one had the decency to say something).
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