there is so much more to sex than just penatration, anyone can have sex, a roll in the sack, a one night stand, but when it comes to the art.......and i say ART, of making love, you find yourself on a higher level, a level that is undescribable.
Education is the key to unlocking lifes journey, so enjoy, as you explore yourself and your partner. Learn what they like, love and what makes them hit the roof.
RULE OF THUMB: NEVER FAKE IT TO MAKE IT
Faking it is cheating yourself, mind you I think all us women have done it at some point or another LMAO.
Faking it is sometimes a lot easier than trying to give a man directions. We know how notoriously they disdain those. lol
Seriously, I know it's wrong to fake it, and even that I'm the one missing out...but some guys just take it so badly. As though you castrated them or something.
when the guy is no good, I got bored easily, so I used to fake it, just to dump him fast ! Lol!!
Now, just like you said. I know how to get what I want,even if the guy is a fool !
I love how it's always the men who are "no good." It's so easy to be condescending if you are in possession of a vagina, the singular piece of biological hardware capable of causing orgasms on contact. It may not always work like that, but the simple fact that it can, and frequently does, goes to prove the total lack of biological parity. Technically speaking, a woman only has to show up to be "good" as her plumbing and natural lubricity will handle all the "skill" parts on her behalf. Which is fine, but hardly merits too much horn blowing.
The skill part of an average man hardly merits much horn blowing as well,then.
that's why there are a lot of women sex toys in the market !
No. A lot of men don't know what that is !
Or they don't care
This is why I love having lesbian friends! Who better to talk to about this stuff than ladies that push their own buttons all the time.
I always try to get my girlfriend (when I have one) to come once by stimulation before I even try to part the pink sea. Takes the pressure off me then!
Yeah ! and takes the fun off the girl.
When you're ready, she's just not in mood. Unless you wait about half an hour before beginning your performance.
Oh I take my time, I wait till she's ready again. Women can have multiple orgasms easier than men. What, you don't like coming more than once?
Believe it or not, if they are not use to it, then they get worn out too quickly and after while become dead weight.
Apparently you didn't understand what I said. But, that's okay.
you said women are not used to multiple orgasms. there you're wrong. If the girls you have been with get all worn out quickly, you haven't done anything right !
Who said I don't ? Where did I say that ?
Anyway, is non of your business !
a lot of times, when a woman isn't pleased, it is because she is the one who is not doing her duty in the bed.
there are a lot of girls that think like men, that if they ride it hard and make loud noises I'm supposed to magically be aroused. Unnecessary roughness, and then there are men who deal with it simply because the act of "getting pussy" is enough to satisfy them when they know that shit hurts and don't even feel good. I been there, and I learned. Now I blow the whistle, stop the game, lay the penalty and give instructions. This is usually for women 29 and under, thinking they're doing something special. Older women play less games and are team players! Watch and learn, young ladies!
there are also a lot of women who feel a sense of entitlement, like having a pussy is automatically permission to just lay there and expect fireworks. listen ladies, you are special but your pussy is not. and half of you have no clue what you are doing and get a huge head when it is really quite easy to make a man shoot out. shit, we got magazines that can do that, what the hell are you contributing? you better get to work!
and i simply can't stand men who put it on a pedestal. Worshipping the pussy like it's some sort of secret garden, forbidden cave or some silly shit. it's nothing but a hole attached to a person. that mess is not even one bit special, until I marry it of course.
it takes two to tango...ladies?
(obviously, I just got finished watching some Paul Mooney. Infectious!)
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