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what do you think about this.

  1. currentevent profile image53
    currenteventposted 8 years ago

    I AM SUPPOSED TO BE ENGAGED BUT I DON'T FEEL LIKE IT , He hasn't pruposed like he is supposed to but i understand because we are going through a hard financial time he doesn't have the money to buy me the ring right now. we have talked about geting married about six month after we met but it already has been three years. now  we have a one year old daughter i think he feels like he doesn't have to buy me a ring to make it official. He definetly works hard to keep our bill paid and i am a stay at home mom at this time. one thing that bugs me the most i think he feels like he has got me completly and i am not going anywhere, i don't want him to think that way. i wanna make it official but how do i get him to make it happen because i don't wanna push him either?

  2. ecogirl333 profile image56
    ecogirl333posted 8 years ago

    Tell him?

    Surely you can negotiate a less flashy ring or to set the date for a quiet (cheap) wedding.  So its official but not necessarily a financial worry.

    If you can't tell him is it the right move anyway?

    Good luck!

  3. dave272727 profile image61
    dave272727posted 8 years ago

    How about talking to him.  Maybe suggest a Justice of the Peace wedding for right now.  It is legal and official.  Then when the financial crisis is over, then have the big wedding that you dreamed of.

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    lyricsingrayposted 8 years ago

    Maybe hub this.

  5. Dame Scribe profile image60
    Dame Scribeposted 8 years ago

    Sounds like you are disappointed sad sorry to hear. Unless you fear him, I don't see why you don't ask when you're getting married. Dave has a good idea. Simple JP marriage then celebrate with a big wedding for a anniversary. smile good luck!

  6. Weeping Willow profile image52
    Weeping Willowposted 8 years ago

    I would defiantly talk to him about it. I mean, Make your feelings known.
    Weddings and ceremonies don't have to be big and fancy.. Sometimes a woman Just needs to know That her man is committed.

    Be honest, and tell him what your feeling. I'm sure He will understand.

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      mtsi1098posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      i agree...well said smile