What's your greatest regret in life? And how do you deal with it?

  1. msalyyy profile image78
    msalyyyposted 5 years ago

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    Mine will be begging for someone to stay in my life. But as years went by, I realized that you don't have to beg for someone. Coz clearly if they want you to be in their lives, they'll never leave you in the first place. But maybe, they just meant to be passerby in my life. Not permanently, just a fleeting moment of happiness and pain.

    1. dashingscorpio profile image71
      dashingscorpioposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      "Coz clearly if they want you to be in their lives, they'll never leave you in the first place." Maybe they realized (you) aren't "the one" for them.

      I agree it's pointless to beg someone to stay with you. Forgive yourself.
      Your future lies ahead of  you and not behind you!

      "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
      - Oscar Wilde

      In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: Next!

      In order for your (ex) to have been "the one" he/she would have had to see (you) as being "the one'. At the very least a "soulmate" is someone who actually wants to be with you! (And vice versa)

      "Some people come into our life as blessings. Some come in your life as lessons." - Mother Teresa

      My biggest regret was choosing to marry my first wife.
      Human beings make mistakes in all areas of life including mate selection.

      When it comes to love and relationships most of us (fail our way) to success. Very few people hit a homerun their 1st, 2nd, 3rd, or 4th time up at bat. If this were not the case we would all be married to our high school sweethearts!

      "A bend in the road is not the end of the road unless you fail to make the turn." - Helen Keller

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  2. msalyyy profile image78
    msalyyyposted 5 years ago

    "Some people come into our life as blessings. Some come in your life as lessons." - Mother Teresa

    I absolutely agree with this. And maybe, we are that 'some people' in someone else's life. And I know when the time is right, we're gonna be that blessing in their lives. And them in ours.

 
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