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   curoshmaposted 16 years ago

   Why do you have parents that won't address incest among  siblings?

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      I guess I never thought of incest as an issue. Most children I know won't even hug their siblings, and this continues right into the young adult years. By the time they reach the age where they don't view their siblings as "icky," they already know about incest.
      
      But... perhaps it is an issue in different parts of the world?

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      tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      the natural thing is to see your siblings not as a sexual partner.
      It seldom happens. But if it does, I'm sure parents will notice and take care about the issue.

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   Faybe Bayposted 16 years ago

   we would never think our children would do that to each other. You are right it should be addressed, but how? Perhaps you could write a hub about how to approach these subjects with our children.
   We think of them as innocent, and maybe do not want to give them ideas on how not to be. Maybe unsure how to prepare them for harsh realities.

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   skyfireposted 16 years ago

   Incest relations are not good cause it results into deformed babies AFAIK. In some Asian countries, marriage between cousins is quite normal as it have no issue of deformed babies.

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   lynnechandlerposted 16 years ago

   And at what age would you bring this up? We start teaching our children about stranger danger very young, but what about sexual predators in the home or not so distant relatives or in the case of the dysfunctional family where mom or dad have started dating, what would be the appropriate age to clue them in on what is right and wrong?

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      Isn't part of the Stranger Danger lessons also Good Touch, Bad Touch? They taught my niece in school about Good Touch, Bad Touch. They also started teaching my nephew this year. They are 5 and 6 years old. So perhaps this is enough to warn them against sexual predators and molestation?

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   Faybe Bayposted 16 years ago

   I have checked him out he's new and had no hubs. that is why I told him to write a hub.

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      You know, it's odd. I always become wary of hubbers without a photograph or without hubs who come into the forum and make strange topics. But I didn't think to look at his profile. Now I've got the heeby jeebies about him.

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         tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

         Maybe he's in love with his sister

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            Mamelodyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

            You know I thought that too!! I mean why else would you start such a topic when you have no pictures, hubs, or anything?

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               tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

               EXACTLY !

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   Alotaposted 16 years ago

   Billions of people on this planet believe that we all derive from Adam and Eve....therefore we all all incestuous....

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   lynnechandlerposted 16 years ago

   Prob a sock puppet but it does bring up an interesting topic or two that someone could follow up on.
   
   @Pani, yes it is part of the topic of Stranger Danger and yes they are starting them out at 5 and 6. We had to unfortunately go through this with the my step boys. At the age of 3 and 4 they had been exposed to so much sex in their mothers house that they were starting to experiment on each other. So, even though you might think that children in the bedroom with you is ok up until a certain age you might be surprised by what they are gleaning from it.

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      I'm sorry to hear that, lynnechandler. I hope you didn't think I was being insensitive to children who have been sexually molested or lived in an environment like that. I, too, have had some experiences with sexual abuse. I guess I was stating my opinion from most of the norms I've seen and not thinking about the more severe cases where children don't live in a "normal" home. Honestly, I didn't think most parents would have sex with their children in the room, even when they are very young, but sometimes I forget people's opinions differ from mine.

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         lynnechandlerposted 16 years agoin reply to this

         Pani, I took no offense. I never would have thought about it either. I mean, I know my own mother kept me in a bassinet by their bed up until I was about six months old, then moved me into the room with my sister. I didn't grow up thinking about these things and when presented with them for the first time it took me some adjusting in my thinking on how to handle things.
         
         I mean my own children took baths together I think up until my daughter was like six and her brother was 4 it was just a conservation on time. However, now I wouldn't think of it knowing what I know.
         
         You just have to be really aware of what they are seeing and hearing etc because they retain so much at such a young age and then it might just go out of their minds but if it continues or they continue to see such acts, ok rambling I will stop now.

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   Alotaposted 16 years ago

   85% of all sexual crime against children happens at the hands of a family member.....I think the stranger danger is not so stranger....

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   Alotaposted 16 years ago

   perhaps he is a dwarf with a large pencil

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      tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      For drawing ?  Attention ?

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    Alotaposted 16 years ago

    Tantrum you are on fire, yes for drawing attention, as we speak he is probably at his computer sharpening his pencil

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       tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       
       
       Maybe he will draw us !

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    Alotaposted 16 years ago

    I just hope he does not stick it in his eye, he could be blinded

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       tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       I've never seen a guy sticking it in his eye !. they're always trying to aim at something else

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    Alotaposted 16 years ago

    Yes and usually in the wrong place...I told you about my boyfriend...sore but nice

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       tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       
       tell me who he is, I wouldn't like to meet him !

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    Alotaposted 16 years ago

    he is not a dwarf and his pencil is well sharpened

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       tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Everybody's like that ! more or less

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    Alotaposted 16 years ago

    I suppose what I meant to say is that he is big and he gets it sharpened three times per day...last time one hour ago in the kitchen....

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       tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       He must be in his 20s !
       Or is from other planet.
       I never heard a boyfriend has sex  with his girl more than once a week. He's busy with his lovers the other days !

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    Alotaposted 16 years ago

    Honestly if he dosnt deliver then I go to his friend Big Guss...rugby player......I love his test tickles.....get me every time

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       tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Do you score high in that tests ?

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          Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          I do!   

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             tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             
             I don't believe you !

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                Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                

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                   tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                   

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                      Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                      If only you knew.....   

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                         tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                         

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    Alotaposted 16 years ago

    I like it when he test tickles from behind

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    lyricsingrayposted 16 years ago

    

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       Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Now your on top!!   

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          lyricsingrayposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          my turn

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             Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             Roll over!!!!   

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    Alotaposted 16 years ago

    Sandwich

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    Alotaposted 16 years ago

    I have to go he has got the KY Jelly out again....Ok Im coming Elton

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       tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       John ?
       
       
       Are you a drag ?

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          Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Hmmmm........  Very Interesting!!!   

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       tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       OK alota. So... are you or not
       
       Hmmmm????
       

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          Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Hey tantrum. Is silence confirmation?   

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             tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             I love drags !!
             hope she is !!

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                Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                I wanna see that tatoo little better 

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                   tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                   Meaning ?

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                      Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                      Um...  I like tattoos?

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                         tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                         If you want to see it closer ,you can come all the way to Argentina. I'm sure I'll find some time for you in my agenda !

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                            Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                            Don't cry for me Argentina...........
                            
                                         

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    tantrumposted 16 years ago

    ha ha !

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    Hokeyposted 16 years ago

    Le haré parecer al viento caliente en la piel mojada

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       tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Sounds weird ! It must be the bloody translator. LOL
       But I get the picture !

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          Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Yup! translator..   It's the thought that counts 

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             tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             Think in English !

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    Hokeyposted 16 years ago

    If you were a new sandwich at Mcdonalds, you'de be called the McGorgeous.

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       tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       OH !!!!Sweet !
       

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          Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          There you are. Now how am I supposed to properly stalk you if you keep disappearing? Lucky for you I am psychic! 

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             tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             
             don't scare me !
             
             

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                Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                Surprise increases the blood flow stimulating the brain promoting hyper stimulation to the erogenous zones.
                
                
                         

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                   tantrumposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                   Oh !
                   Well take care ! I might give you a surprise !
                   
                   

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                      Hokeyposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                      One can only dream
                      
                      
                      
                      Don't cry for me Argentina!!!   

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    tantrumposted 16 years ago

    
    Wait & see

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    blondepoetposted 16 years ago

    Oh you two you are corrupting me!!!!

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       earnestshubposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Too late!

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          blondepoetposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Hahaha Earnest how true that is. You did it to me a year ago.

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             earnestshubposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             That is the trouble with getting old... I forgot. Can we go through it one more time?

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    sneakorocksolidposted 16 years ago

    Just say no to incest! Quit fooling around with your relatives and that means you in Oklahoma, Arkansas, Tennesse and Ireland!

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       i_am_Legendposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       LOL HaaaahAAA

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