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curoshmaposted 8 years ago
Why do you have parents that won't address incest among siblings?
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  I guess I never thought of incest as an issue. Most children I know won't even hug their siblings, and this continues right into the young adult years. By the time they reach the age where they don't view their siblings as "icky," they already know about incest.
  
  But... perhaps it is an issue in different parts of the world?
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  the natural thing is to see your siblings not as a sexual partner.
  It seldom happens. But if it does, I'm sure parents will notice and take care about the issue.
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Faybe Bayposted 8 years ago
we would never think our children would do that to each other. You are right it should be addressed, but how? Perhaps you could write a hub about how to approach these subjects with our children.
We think of them as innocent, and maybe do not want to give them ideas on how not to be. Maybe unsure how to prepare them for harsh realities.
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skyfireposted 8 years ago
Incest relations are not good cause it results into deformed babies AFAIK. In some Asian countries, marriage between cousins is quite normal as it have no issue of deformed babies.
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lynnechandlerposted 8 years ago
And at what age would you bring this up? We start teaching our children about stranger danger very young, but what about sexual predators in the home or not so distant relatives or in the case of the dysfunctional family where mom or dad have started dating, what would be the appropriate age to clue them in on what is right and wrong?
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Isn't part of the Stranger Danger lessons also Good Touch, Bad Touch? They taught my niece in school about Good Touch, Bad Touch. They also started teaching my nephew this year. They are 5 and 6 years old. So perhaps this is enough to warn them against sexual predators and molestation?
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Faybe Bayposted 8 years ago
I have checked him out he's new and had no hubs. that is why I told him to write a hub.
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  You know, it's odd. I always become wary of hubbers without a photograph or without hubs who come into the forum and make strange topics. But I didn't think to look at his profile. Now I've got the heeby jeebies about him.
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Maybe he's in love with his sister
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  Mamelodyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  You know I thought that too!! I mean why else would you start such a topic when you have no pictures, hubs, or anything?
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  EXACTLY !
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
Billions of people on this planet believe that we all derive from Adam and Eve....therefore we all all incestuous....
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lynnechandlerposted 8 years ago
Prob a sock puppet but it does bring up an interesting topic or two that someone could follow up on.

@Pani, yes it is part of the topic of Stranger Danger and yes they are starting them out at 5 and 6. We had to unfortunately go through this with the my step boys. At the age of 3 and 4 they had been exposed to so much sex in their mothers house that they were starting to experiment on each other. So, even though you might think that children in the bedroom with you is ok up until a certain age you might be surprised by what they are gleaning from it.
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  Pani Midnyte Odinposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  I'm sorry to hear that, lynnechandler. I hope you didn't think I was being insensitive to children who have been sexually molested or lived in an environment like that. I, too, have had some experiences with sexual abuse. I guess I was stating my opinion from most of the norms I've seen and not thinking about the more severe cases where children don't live in a "normal" home. Honestly, I didn't think most parents would have sex with their children in the room, even when they are very young, but sometimes I forget people's opinions differ from mine.
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  lynnechandlerposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Pani, I took no offense. I never would have thought about it either. I mean, I know my own mother kept me in a bassinet by their bed up until I was about six months old, then moved me into the room with my sister. I didn't grow up thinking about these things and when presented with them for the first time it took me some adjusting in my thinking on how to handle things.
  
  I mean my own children took baths together I think up until my daughter was like six and her brother was 4 it was just a conservation on time. However, now I wouldn't think of it knowing what I know.
  
  You just have to be really aware of what they are seeing and hearing etc because they retain so much at such a young age and then it might just go out of their minds but if it continues or they continue to see such acts, ok rambling I will stop now.
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
85% of all sexual crime against children happens at the hands of a family member.....I think the stranger danger is not so stranger....
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
perhaps he is a dwarf with a large pencil
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  For drawing ? Attention ?
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
Tantrum you are on fire, yes for drawing attention, as we speak he is probably at his computer sharpening his pencil
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  
  Maybe he will draw us !
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
I just hope he does not stick it in his eye, he could be blinded
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  I've never seen a guy sticking it in his eye !. they're always trying to aim at something else
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
Yes and usually in the wrong place...I told you about my boyfriend...sore but nice
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  
  tell me who he is, I wouldn't like to meet him !
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
he is not a dwarf and his pencil is well sharpened
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Everybody's like that ! more or less
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
I suppose what I meant to say is that he is big and he gets it sharpened three times per day...last time one hour ago in the kitchen....
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  He must be in his 20s !
  Or is from other planet.
  I never heard a boyfriend has sex with his girl more than once a week. He's busy with his lovers the other days !
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
Honestly if he dosnt deliver then I go to his friend Big Guss...rugby player......I love his test tickles.....get me every time
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Do you score high in that tests ?
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  I do!
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  
  I don't believe you !
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  If only you knew.....
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
I like it when he test tickles from behind
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lyricsingrayposted 8 years ago
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Now your on top!!
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  lyricsingrayposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  my turn
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Roll over!!!!
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
Sandwich
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Alotaposted 8 years ago
I have to go he has got the KY Jelly out again....Ok Im coming Elton
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  John ?
  
  Are you a drag ?
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Hmmmm........ Very Interesting!!!
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  OK alota. So... are you or not
  
  Hmmmm????
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Hey tantrum. Is silence confirmation?
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  I love drags !!
  hope she is !!
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  I wanna see that tatoo little better
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Meaning ?
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Um... I like tattoos?
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  If you want to see it closer ,you can come all the way to Argentina. I'm sure I'll find some time for you in my agenda !
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Don't cry for me Argentina...........
  
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tantrumposted 8 years ago
ha ha !
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Hokeyposted 8 years ago
Le haré parecer al viento caliente en la piel mojada
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Sounds weird ! It must be the bloody translator. LOL
  But I get the picture !
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Yup! translator.. It's the thought that counts
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Think in English !
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Hokeyposted 8 years ago
If you were a new sandwich at Mcdonalds, you'de be called the McGorgeous.
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  OH !!!!Sweet !
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  There you are. Now how am I supposed to properly stalk you if you keep disappearing? Lucky for you I am psychic!
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  
  don't scare me !
  
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Surprise increases the blood flow stimulating the brain promoting hyper stimulation to the erogenous zones.
  
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  tantrumposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Oh !
  Well take care ! I might give you a surprise !
  
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  Hokeyposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  One can only dream
  
  Don't cry for me Argentina!!!
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tantrumposted 8 years ago

Wait & see
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blondepoetposted 8 years ago
Oh you two you are corrupting me!!!!
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  earnestshubposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Too late!
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  blondepoetposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  Hahaha Earnest how true that is. You did it to me a year ago.
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  earnestshubposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  That is the trouble with getting old... I forgot. Can we go through it one more time?
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sneakorocksolidposted 8 years ago
Just say no to incest! Quit fooling around with your relatives and that means you in Oklahoma, Arkansas, Tennesse and Ireland!
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  i_am_Legendposted 8 years agoin reply to this
  LOL HaaaahAAA
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