Is it possible that both male and female can agree in what love is???

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   .mely.posted 14 years ago

   Love ... well love is confusing yet not to be confused with obsession ,how is it two completely different people or in this case genders can come to such an agreement... With my personal experiences i dont think all men even have the slightest idea in what love is... or even how to show love for their so called loved one...

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      Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Hi Mely. I notice you have written no hubs yet and just joined a short time ago. Welcome to HubPages.

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         .mely.posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         well i finally got ahub up... so check it out...

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      Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      The likelihood of them agreeing is slim.

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         Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         true... But brianzen knows why, does that help?

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            Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            I'm not the one looking for answers. So, no it doesn't help me in any way.

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      pisean282311posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      well if you ask 10 different males and 10 different females about how they define love , you might end up getting different definition..talking about possibility...ofcourse it is possible...why not?...

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      deanjc1970posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      As a man I think I have worked it out. I have been married twice and have 5 daughters from 17 to 3 and to me love is unconditional affection and care no matter whether things are going your way or not. I get everything I need as long as my women are getting what they need.

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      Dog On A Missionposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Yes.
      
      My girlfriend and I agree that love is something you work at.
      
      It is not "unconditional".
      
      It is not the same thing as sex.
      
      Its all the "small things" added together.

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   Rochelle Frankposted 14 years ago

   I don't know. The Bible says God is love, and that God is neither male or female (or is both, according to interpretation.) I'm not a biblical scholar- that's just the first thing that popped into my head.
   
   Since you have only been here a few minutes you might be thinking of writing a hub on your thoughts. Welcome to HubPages.

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      brianzenposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Hello, Rum and Chocalate?

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         Faybe Bayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         icorrigable you are.

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         blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         If it is strawberries and chocolate you have me!!!
         
         

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   jdbrown426posted 14 years ago

   It is very possible for both male and female to agree on what love is. In order to know what love is, we have to go back to where love originates. God is love, and He created us out of love, so love is already in our essence. The bible says that love is
   Longsuffering
   Kind
   Does not envy
   Is not selfish
   Is not rude
   Thinks no evil
   Is not easily provoked
   Rejoices in truth
   Bears all things
   Endures all things
   Hopes all things
   Never fails
   It keeps no record of wrongs
   If both the male and female love God and serve God, then both can agree on love because God tells us what it is and it dwells in us. Treat your husband with respect. Love your wife as yourself.

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   sequoiablessedposted 14 years ago

   Hi .mely, Love is a wonderful topic! My experience is what you give you receive. It really does not matter if a person is male or female, what matters is if you are being yourself.  Why?  Because Love is our nature!  We are loving beings, with loads of compassion, and Love to share with whom ever we choose!!  I send Love to you my dear ;-)
   
   SequoiaBlessed

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   Dog On A Missionposted 14 years ago

   Love? You have to work at it if you want to hang on to it.

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   sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

   Love is buying your wife a rotissrie chicken maker! She loves making us happy so my son and I love chicken! It's a win win love affair!

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   earnestshubposted 14 years ago

   Yes! Love is a doing thing.
   I wrote a hub about love ... how children can learn love mostly!

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