Love & Marriage: Make it last a lifetime... a truley unique experience!

Are you planning your wedding and wondering if you are making the right decision? This is a question everybody wants to know. How long will it last? Will I be happy? Is this the right person for me? Nobody knows except you...

Marriage can be a wonderful, meaningful relationship. It takes time and patients to get past the "everyday" obstacles that can sabotage a marriage before it even has a chance to develope. So, keep in mind, the first year is going to be great. Then the next few years can be very trying and if you can get past that, it will be much, much better! Most marriages today don't make it past the third year because couples realize they are not the perfect match, or simply because they stop trying. Stay with it! You will be rewarded... on the second level.. more love, romance, understanding for each other, easier to talk to, know what to expect and what is expected of you.

Always be truthful and patient. Be committed to your marriage. Discuss everything in a normal tone of voice, do not argue or shout. Don't over discuss things, just listen and give your point of view. This will give time for both of you to think and come up with the best solution. The best is yet to come... Create happy memories, they are all we have when we think about the past.

Romance, and more romance, never say no. After many years of marriage, you must keep the flame going. You are now in the third level...and there's no turning back. You are with the person you love and care for deeply. Why not try something new, as long as it is within good taste. You'll be surprised how far a marriage can be developed even further at this stage.

• He/she always greets me with a smile and a kiss ♥
• my wife/husband goes out of their way to prepare my favorite meal ♥
• I have plenty of romance, and rarely hear "I'm too tired" ♥
• I get to "be myself" and still considered adorable ♥
• I can talk openly about most things and he/she listens to me ♥

Those who voted in this poll were married at least 8 years. There was a tie of 22% for marriages 8-23 years, and over 30 years. 11% were married over 24 years but less than 30. Thanks to all who voted!