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Good ways to get out of bad choices.

Updated on September 29, 2008

Personally, I do not believe that bad choises can exist. Whenever I start to think that I might have done mistake, or bad choice, I remember the perfection and endlessnes of the whole universe. Everything is in balance, everything is in perfect order, everything is exactly where is supposed to be. The same is with the nature: whole life is so perfect and intelligent, that there can be no mistake in it.

We are just part of this global perfection: how could be possible, looking from that perspective, that we make any mistake, or any bad choice?

Every choice is just lesson to learn, or new focus which our soul wants to live and try to experience. When we want to get out of the choice we do not want any more, we have always right to choose something else, what is better for us.

The best way is to change attitude towards present conditions. To see what we learned, to be gratefull for challenge we created, to wish the highest good for everyone included in the story, to get read of our negative emotions (forgiving is very usefull )...After we change the attitude, we just know which next step is appropriate one for us - what we are supposed to do.

Trust in your intuition and deep inner wisdom, and believe that the worst choice can become the most precious one, just with little changing the attitude. Help of the strongest force in the universe - the unconditional love which created us and always supports us, is everywhere around you.

Wish you a lot of luck!

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    • Tatjana-Mihaela profile imageAUTHOR

      Tatjana-Mihaela 

      9 years ago from Zadar, CROATIA

      Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha,,,,I have already one big baby....that is the reason I do not miss children, all men behave like kids.

      I completely agree with Van Dyke. Thanks for your message. Love and Hugs

    • Mr Nice profile image

      Mr Nice 

      9 years ago from North America

      Hi Mama Tatjana,

      If you have strong motherly feelings then you should adopt me. A grown up man not a baby to worry about feeding, diaper change, toilet training & much more.

      Think about it seriously since you are not yet a mama. At least then you can say I am a mama of a big man........hahaha

      Here is some thing to let you laugh more......

      Women will never be as successful as men because they have no wives to advise them. -- Dick Van Dyke

    • Tatjana-Mihaela profile imageAUTHOR

      Tatjana-Mihaela 

      9 years ago from Zadar, CROATIA

      Ha, ha, ha, why did you change your avatar? Maybe you will put one day new photo of you? I still somehow have mother-feelings, while looking at you as a child???

      I just published my Hub, if you take look, you will see that Neanderthals DO NOT LOOK exactly as your previous avatar....

      Thanks for your message, it made me laugh,,,,and I adore laughing.

      See you later, just need some rest, after finishing my Hub: shower at first. A lots of love.....till the end of time

    • Mr Nice profile image

      Mr Nice 

      9 years ago from North America

      Nice to hear from you again Tatjana. I changed my avatar at the same time you have the thoughts of making a hub about your ancestors. You still don't know that I already have a direct connection with you.

      My image you always see is the 105% real one & I am not using a photo of an American model or an actor.......hahaha. Therefore you don't have to use a photo of a Croatian model or an actress. For me photo or looks is not important it's the friendship that matters. My thoughts & prayers are always there for you.

      Love & happiness for you & your Bf forever.....

    • Tatjana-Mihaela profile imageAUTHOR

      Tatjana-Mihaela 

      9 years ago from Zadar, CROATIA

      Thanks Tony, I am just writting a new Hub about Neanderthals, so I thought that you resonated with my Hub, and that you wanted to connect with our even older (alegedly) human cousins, he, he, he....Cute avatar...maybe one day worlld will see your true photo...he, he, he....

      Enjoy yourself. Thanks on good wishes.

      Joy, love, wealth and abundance to you.

    • Mr Nice profile image

      Mr Nice 

      9 years ago from North America

      Doro sam Kako si ti Tatjana?

      New avatar to make direct connection with you........you know what I mean......hahaha.

      I am very happy for you although a little bit jealous......haha just kidding not at all. I want you to be happy not confused........

      Love & happiness for you & your Bf forever.....

    • Tatjana-Mihaela profile imageAUTHOR

      Tatjana-Mihaela 

      9 years ago from Zadar, CROATIA

      Dear Tony, I really just have found your message. Your karma, maybe??

      He, he, he new avatar, I see...connected with the roots of humanity or???

      I really think a lot. My brain adore that.

      Well it was not first romantic weekend, but after a long time...whole weekend was great.

      How are you? A lot of love.....

    • Mr Nice profile image

      Mr Nice 

      9 years ago from North America

      Eto mene ponovno,

      I already received the telepathic message. You know you cannot hide things from me because I know every thing......hahaha. But now a days you always find my comments late & no reply to email messages. I believe you are confused because you think too much.

      Good news I am happy your Bf & you had romance. Looks like it was your first romantic weekend...........hahaha. I don't know just guessing. Good for you & your Bf that you are trying to work out this relationship. 

      Love and Hugs...........

    • Tatjana-Mihaela profile imageAUTHOR

      Tatjana-Mihaela 

      9 years ago from Zadar, CROATIA

      Thanks TOny, I have just found your comment. Learning is great. I like it. My boyfriend and me have romance this weekend. Love and Hugs.

    • Mr Nice profile image

      Mr Nice 

      9 years ago from North America

      Dobro sam kako si ti,

      You are very welcome as long as it doesn't cost me any money........hahaha. I am fine & I hope you are doing great too. This weekend I learned lots of new stuff. Mostly doing some research & lots of reading. I will share with you if I find it interesting. Have a wonderful evening.

      Lots of Love.............

    • Tatjana-Mihaela profile imageAUTHOR

      Tatjana-Mihaela 

      9 years ago from Zadar, CROATIA

      Thanks Tony, how are you? How is your weekend going on?

      Love and Hugs

    • Mr Nice profile image

      Mr Nice 

      9 years ago from North America

      Kako si Tatjana,

      Another great hub well explained, keep up the good work.

      Love and Light, thumbs up.... ads.clicked........

    • Tatjana-Mihaela profile imageAUTHOR

      Tatjana-Mihaela 

      9 years ago from Zadar, CROATIA

      This was my second Hub...he, he.

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      Shannon 

      9 years ago from New York

      Contageous isn't the word I use... I would use INSPIRED! Love your work Tatjana. Even your short ones! :)

    • Tatjana-Mihaela profile imageAUTHOR

      Tatjana-Mihaela 

      9 years ago from Zadar, CROATIA

      Thanks Denny, I appreciate your comment, just use my Hub....Love & Light

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      Denny Lyon 

      9 years ago from Baton Rouge, Louisiana, USA

      Wonderful well-stated hub with interesting artwork too! Will blog this to my Healing Waters blog. Thank you! Love your positive attitude; it's contagious!

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