He Knows the Plans He Has For Us—Roadblocks and Pitfalls
Introduction
God does indeed have a determined, thoughtful will and unique plan for each one of us.
It can be exhilarating to discover that plan, especially if we have spent years wandering aimlessly in the wilderness of merely existing. Sometimes this enthusiasm leads us to attempt to make our discovery the mission and goal of our life and force it to happen in our own ways, leaving God out of the process. It is here that our motives for acquiring the plan are revealed.
Sometimes we begin our search for our dream in life to gain a sense of significance or success. We all need and want to feel that our life has purpose and meaning. And we all want to be known and seen as unique, talented, or gifted. But if this becomes our goal, things can quickly unravel, and we might find our sense of purpose shipwrecked and fragmented, or we might even feel that we have missed the boat altogether and determine there really was no purpose.
Sarah is an excellent example of this. When promised a son, she lost patience in waiting for God's fulfillment of the plan and purpose. She arranges to have a child through her maidservant Hagar. This side step really did create quite a mess in the story. Even so, God still has a plan.
James reveals that when we ask for these things from God, and we don't receive them, it's because our motives aren't pure.
Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.
— John 4:3
There is so much more to lust than sensuality. Lusts are internal cravings of any kind that drives us to satisfy ourselves in ways that really don't satisfy. In fact, they leave us more hungry. We can lust for notoriety, fame, power, status, and the applause of man.
In his book "Celebrating Jesus in the Biblical feasts," Dr. Richard Booker writes about the problem of our priorities:
"Many believers never enter God's rest because they seek things from Jesus rather than Jesus Himself. They seek blessings rather than the one who blesses. Jesus doesn't give us blessings; He Himself is our blessing. He is all that we could ever need, want, or hope, for in His person."
So it is with our attempts to be satisfied through our accomplishments. When we seek the dream and what it can give us rather than God Himself. We are lost at sea.
We cannot seek a purpose as a way to convince ourselves or prove to others that our life has a valid purpose and meaning. This method is a common temptation when we have felt so little and useless for so long.
Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and all these things will be added unto you.
— Matthew 6:33
Whoever seeks to save his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life will preserve it.
— Luke 17:33
We must die to our fleshly reasons to become somebody through a dream or purpose.

Proper Focus is Everything
Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring it to pass.
— Psalm 37:4
The above verses indicate that the focus that precedes our dreams is the Lord. When we delight ourselves in Him, then He will give us the desires of our heart, and He will make it happen. We so often wear ourselves out trying to make something happen because, a lot of the time, our esteem is depending upon it.
The main ingredient of any goal or vision is to please Him.
The above verse tells us that when we delight ourselves in Him, it is our natural desire to please Him in return, and it is then that He can position us to receive His passion and plan for us as our motives are purified.
The Goal of our dream is to glorify God and not ourselves. If this is not at the core of all our plans and dreams, things won't amount to much from an eternal perspective.
Commit your works to the LORD, And your thoughts (God's well thought out plans—machshavah) will be established.
— Proverbs 16:3
When we commit to Him, he will begin to establish our thoughts to the God-given plans and purposes He ordained for us since before the world began.
. . . who has saved us and called us with a holy calling, not according to our works, but according to His own purpose and grace which was given to us in Christ Jesus before time began.
— II Timothy 1:9
Our calling is "holy." Holy means to set apart for His plan alone. It is not to serve our private agendas.
The Joseph narrative showcases this principle. In the Hebrew word for plan "machshavah" pictograph, the letter "sheen" indicates that in a God-given dream, there includes the idea of tearing down and putting back together. We will see how the purifying of our motives many times requires tearing down and putting back together.
A Look at the Life of Joseph
Genesis 37-47 tells the story of young Joseph, who had a dream about sheaves of grain, and on another occasion, the sun, the moon, and stars bowing down to him. He tells his brothers about the dreams, and all of them understood that Joseph was implying that they would one day bow down to him according to the dreams.
I have often wondered why Joseph chose to tell his brothers about these dreams. I can't imagine that he didn't know that they already disliked him being the favored son.
It probably was a pretty exciting dream and a prospect for Joseph to be a ruler over his family. It possibly sounded important, noble, prestigious, and powerful. Who could keep that to themselves?
Shortly after this event, Jacob sent Joseph on a mission to go check up on his brothers. Could it be considered that maybe Joseph might have felt like this was the beginning of God's plan for him coming to pass? He was about to rule over his brothers, and checking up on them was just the beginning.
As we all know, things turned out quite contrary to the vision God had given him. Instead of ruling over them, his brothers threw him into a pit, and he was sold as a slave. A slave is the antithesis of a master or lord, which he thought himself to be.
For many years Joseph serves in jail and in the Egyptian palace, being wrongfully accused of things he didn't do and imprisoned for them. The Bible doesn't tell us if Joseph ever wondered about the dream and how that would happen when circumstances must have looked so contrary. How would he be a ruler over his family if he might not ever see them again? I think this is how we sometimes feel when life seems so contrary to God's plans, promises, and purposes.
The Turning Point
God eventually turns the ship around, and Joseph becomes what God had purposed him to be. Joseph may have initially embraced the dream as a way to feel good about himself or his life, but God had a higher purpose in mind, and that was the salvation of his brothers.
He came full circle. We all have to come full circle. God might use that place of weakness or stumbling to serve a more excellent plan, as Joseph discovered when he said
. . . God sent me before you to preserve you a posterity in the earth, and to save your lives by a great deliverance.
— Genesis 45:7
I believe his story's success has to do with how, in everything he suffered, he learned to put his focus on the Lord, and it was then that the deeper, more principal purpose becomes realized.
It is at this moment that Joseph discovers the real purpose of His dream. It's important to realize that our goal isn't about us. It's about God and the salvation of others.
God's plan and purpose in our lives will always be about the edification or salvation of others. That is His passion.
It's a grueling process for God to get us to that place sometimes, as seen through the life of Joseph. But Joseph clung to God through it all. During a moment of temptation, He chose to please God rather than Himself.
There is no one greater in this house than I, nor has he kept back anything from me but you, because you are his wife. How then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?”
— Genesis 39:9
Joseph now has his priorities straight. His goal in life is to please God even if it meant he would go to prison for something he didn't do and suffer a consequence that may have made the fulfillment of his dream unlikely if not impossible.
Joseph had to be broken down and put back together before his purpose and ministry could be spiritually effective.
The whole painful experience in Egypt stripped Joseph of any impure motives he had. When all was said and done, Joseph ruled over his brothers as the dream depicted. But now he ruled in love, compassion, humility, and an understanding of the real purpose of that dream. The objective was that the twelve of them would be the beginning of a nation responsible for bringing the Savior into the world.
© 2011 Tamarajo
Comments
Hi Tamarajo.
Yes God has a plan for each of us.
I am glad He is a patient God. It took Him four years to mold me into His devoted servant but I am so very happy He did.
God bless you.
When bad things happen, people always ask why. I like the story of Joseph because Joseph had his worst share of events yet he continued to trust God. Because of this, he was changed in the inside. With that purified motive, as you have said, God was able to use him in the greatest plan ever that God has in store for his life.
I pray that we would also have the same faith and trust through difficulties that we may come out of it more prepared for God to use us for His glory. Thanks for such an inspiring hub. God bless you.
Each person has their lusts. When God allows us to indulge our lusts we find they were not what we really wanted at all. I have written so many times, in comments and in articles that I do not allow myself to dream. I may even "get not because I ask not." I do not allow myself to dream because invariably it is not what I really want. I give my needs to God and when He give me my needs He so many time throws in my desires as well. I remember I needed a car and an old postal jeep was provided. As I'm driving along on the "wrong side" of the car (the steering wheel is on the passenger side) I realize that I had always wanted a Jeep and always thought it would be a hoot to drive on the opposite side of the car. I used to watch the postal workers drive with the doors slid open and said to myself wow that would be so cool. God remembered that and gave me those desires even though I never asked. When my first wife and I split up. I told God that I would seek no wife like Scripture said. He knew I needed a wife. When He gave me my wife, He remembered an old crush I had in grade school and how I thought she was so striking, her eyes and skin and braids in her hair. I had not thought of that little girl (kinda like Charlie Brown's crush in Peanuts) He not only gave me my need but gave me what He knew was my desire. This is how I am. I lack vision, I think. I do not look beyond what I have and try to utilize EVERYTHING God gives me and wait for the things supplied for my need. Andrew handed Jesus a few loaves and a few fish and got back 12 baskets full. That is how God is.
I just love the story of Joseph. And I love this series of Hubs. You wrote:
"Sometimes we begin our search for our dream in life in order to gain a sense of significance or success. We all need and want to feel that our life has purpose and meaning. And we all want to be known and seen as special, talented or gifted."
Uh oh. I stand convicted.
Wow ~ I read part 1 and couldn't wait to get to part 2. I just love your study and the way you minister to everyone who reads. This part of it really confirms what the Lord was showing me this week:
"There is so much more to lust than sensuality. Lusts are internal cravings of anykind that drive us to satisfy ourselves in ways that really don't satisfy. In fact they leave us more hungry...Many believers never enter God's rest because they seek things from Jesus rather than Jesus Himself. They seek blessings rather than the one who blesses. Jesus doesn't give us blessings; He Himself is our blessing. He is all that we could ever need, want, or hope, for in His person."
WOW. Awesome! The only way a person going through the above 'cravings' or 'hunger' can be content is to be fully satisfied in Christ. Joseph had that contentment. Paul had that contentment, in that whatsoever state they were in, they were truly 'rich' ~ filled and secure. They loved God and knew they were loved.
My daughter and I were talking this evening and we just loved on each other. She said, "Mom, I could live happily in a cardboard box, as long as I have you". We hugged and we didn't want to let go. We realized that NOTHING in this world could satisfy that deep love we can only get in Christ and with each other.
AMEN to this beautiful message of God's plans, our purpose and His love.
Tamarjo, Insightful & thought provoking! Very powerful words of wisdom: "Many believers never enter God's rest because they seek things from Jesus rather than Jesus Himself. They seek blessings rather than the one who blesses. Jesus doesn't give us blessings; He Himself is our blessing. He is all that we could ever need, want, or hope, for in His person." Amen! When you have an intimate relationship with Jesus Christ you have everything that you will ever need!
Our motives should be to encourage others to draw closer to the Lord! The story of Joseph is an excellent example. He was terribly mistreated, conspired against and… yet during his trials he persevered! We are able to see that Joseph was able to withstand what happened to Him because He trusted the Lord! Faith in action is powerful!
When we live to please the Lord above all else whatever comes our way we will be able to handle... This does not mean that we will not be disappointed or unhappy from time to time. It does mean that our inner Peace will remain intact as we keep our focus on the Lord! Keeping in mind that God knows what is best for us and in His time He will work things out in a way that is best for you… I believe that the Lord’s plan for us is to seek Him above all else, grow closer to Him each day and encourage others to do the same. This is what allows the Fruit of His Spirit to manifest in our lives…
Thank you for sharing, In HIS Love, Grace, Joy, Peace and Blessings!
This is truly an excellent hub Tamarajo. Everything is well-written, full of great thoughts, truly inspiring. I always admire Joseph for continuing to live to please the Lord amidst unfavorable circumstances. Truly a christian's ultimate purpose in life is to live for God's glory. In my earlier year I sought glory for myself only in the end I realize they are futile things. Apart from pursuing the Lord's glory everything is in vain and futile. Remain blessed always. Best regards.
EXCELLENT! Hub Tamarajo! When Betty said: "An important reminder - to seek the Giver, rather than the gift. I couldn't of said it any better! Praise God! I voted-up on this Hub! God Bless you!
An important reminder - to seek the Giver, rather than the gift. I wonder why it's so hard for us to remember that the Giver is glorious, majestic, beautiful, awesome, tender, gracious - everything we could ever hope for. And the gifts we chase after so urgently are NOTHING in comparison. An excellent hub! Thanks for the reality check.
Wonderful hub, I also read your first one and learned quite a lot from your series.
Great Hub as always, Tamarajo! When you mentioned God has plans for us, it made me think of how all our days are written in His book....all before we even existed. Amazing!
Joseph is quite a study too. What amazes me about his life is that is all the account of everything he encountered he remained faithful and there is never any record of him complaining. I'm sure there were times he would have had to struggle but to me it is significant that nothing negative do we read. That had to be God's grace! God bless.
Well put... "because they seek things from Jesus rather than Jesus Himself. They seek blessings rather than the one who blesses." I'm so grateful He's not done with me (and many others) yet (like the Potter's clay). There's so much more we can all do for Him still. May His peace always prevail in your life... Rev.Ted
Great insight. We do have to be sure we are doing His will and not our own. It's humbling when you realize that often His plans are not centered around you, but that He has a greater and broader purpose which includes affecting the lives of others.
You have chosen one of my favorite characters in the Bible, the story of Joseph. Yes, Joseph had to pass through all he went through to get to God's perfect will. It may not have happened as he probably imagined when he saw his family bowing down to him but it had to happen this way for him to become the great leader he became. When we stay in God's will, God will accomplish what He set out to do with us in the first place, but we must submit to the will of God first... and sometimes that is not the most comfortable place to be. Great hub sister and to the point.
Yes my dear all his plans for us was predestinated before the foundation of the WORLD. God is great sometimes we don't always see why he have those plans but He knows and we need to let go and let God's annointing flow :)
and all our enemies will be scattered
Excellent hub about Joseph, very well put together!!
Beautiful hub , waiting the next part.
Sister Tamarajo, you just get better and better. This hub is beautiful as usual. The story of Joseph is well-written, and truly explains how God works out His plan for His people. You are absolutely correct, it is not about us, or what we want, or even what we desire, it is about what God desires for us. Once again, Sister Tamarajo, I thank you for enriching my soul with your beautiful writing. God Bless You! I love you in the Lord.
TJ,
Nothing I can say. You said it best.
"There is so much more to lust than sensuality. Lusts are internal cravings of anykind that drive us to satisfy ourselves in ways that really don't satisfy. In fact they leave us more hungry."
"Many believers never enter God's rest because they seek things from Jesus rather than Jesus Himself."
So it is with our attempts to be satisfied through our accomplishments. When we seek the dream and what it can give us rather than Him we are lost at sea.
And I love your use of the Scriptures.
Sister Absolutely a beautiful and inspired hub of love. Your words flow by the Spirit in you. I can so relate to seeking for our own means and desires. Jesus is who we need to be seeking. Amen. Oh Thank You gracious Lord for your kindness and mercy and grace and patience.
I have been inspired and touched. You keep on sister you are to be here. I pray many are led to these pages of yours. We have work to do my friend. You are a precious gem in His sight and mine too. Thank you for all your dedication and hard work to share the truth. One day in Heaven I will see you. Oh what a day that will be. Hopeful, soon. Hugs Galore sister. I just love ya.
Love the tunes, He is not finished with me yet. It is our time when it is His time. Amen. Beautiful up awesome!!
Patience is the hardest lesson to learn for a lot of people.
I have found that sometimes when God answers our prayer it is not always what we ask for. There is a song that I sing that talks of this. It says that you pray a prayer and ask God for something and then when you don't hear right away you wonder if he heard what you said. It also says that God will always answer you, but it will something that is a better way or a greater yes. sometimes when we ask God for something it will take a long time to receive the answer. We just have to have faitha dn wait patiently. 2 very hard things to do, have patience and wait. Good hub
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