How to get the Girl
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How to get the Girl
In response to emails, comments and questions, made on my previous "how to get a girl" articles, I have decided to write this article to try and answer some of your questions.
Please feel free to email me if you have any other questions on the subject, you will find a link to my email under my profile picture.
http://hubpages.com/hub/How_to_get_a_Girlfriend http://hubpages.com/hub/How_to_ask_a_girl_to_be_your_girlfriend
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Question (1) I made out with this girl and she lead me on really bad and I want her so bad now what do I do?
The answer to this one is to talk to her, ask her how she feels, was it just a bit of fun for her or does she genuinely like you. Communication is the key to any relationship.
Question (2)
Hi. I like this girl and she likes me as who I am. but I'm not sure if she likes me.
As above communication is key, talk to her and ask her. I know it can be difficult and nerve wracking, but you will never get the chance if you don't. if she likes you as who you are, then that is a great basis to start a successful relationship is built from friendship first.
Question (3)
HEY THE GIRL AT MY SCHOOL IS SOOOOOOOOO HOT I CALLED Her AND THE NEXT DAY SHE BROKE MY HEART. I NEED HELP
If she rejected you it isn't the end of the world, as the old saying goes there are plenty more fish in the sea, find someone else who appreciates who you are.
Question (4)
Im not good looking, but I think I could get a girlfriend. One girl I like is a whore who I am pretty sure would take any guy who is good looking. We hang out sometimes and we have a good time, but Im kind of chunky around the edges... what would you do?
First of all, girls don't go for looks, they look beyond the package, it's what is inside is what matters most, they don't buy a box of chocolates because of the picture on the box but for the sweet chocolate that is inside. Secondly do you really want to go out with a girl who would take anyone who is good looking, you would soon find your way on the train to dumpsville as soon as someone caught her eye. You ask what would I do? Personally I would look else where, find a girl who likes you for who you are.
Question (5)
Hi there is this really fit girl at school I make her laugh but I think she hates me what should I do?
As in the first 2 questions communication is the key, talk to her, show her that you are not just funny and that you have a serious side too.
Question (6)
Please. I would like a girlfriend. I would really like a girlfriend before my next birthday. at the very least my first kiss ON MY BIRTHDAY. or before, either way please HELP!!!!!!!!!! ME. NOT EVERYONE ELSE THEN ME. MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Desperation will get you nowhere, calm down, take a deep breath be yourself and work on your confidence, if you cant be more confident in yourself then no girl will have confidence in you either.
Question (7)
Hi I know a girl likes me and I like her too its just I don't have the guts to ask her out.
This is the question I am asked most often, there are many ways to ask a girl out, if you can't do it face to face because of a lack of confidence, write her a letter or send a text message to her mobile, email her, call her on the phone, if you don't ask her soon someone else might snap her up first. Girls do prefer to be asked face to face though, pluck up the courage and ask her, there are many times in life where you get nervous and scared and you get through them without any scratches.
Question (8)
How do you get a girl that doesn't know you and that she wants you to go away?
Look elsewhere it is obvious that this girl doesn't like you, as in an earlier answer, there are plenty more fish In the sea.
Question (9)
There is this girl that I like @ my school but I said some pretty gross stuff about her what should I do I know she's the one but I cant get my head in the right place now can u tell me what I can do?
The first step is to apologise to her about the bad things that you said about her, then tell her that you only said those things because you had feelings for her and didn't know how to handle the situation, that you were trying to get her attention and went about it all the wrong way.
Question (10)
The girl is my best friend, but recently I have been having feelings for her and I think I am falling in love with her, I want to ask her out but I don't want to risk the friendship that we have.
The most successful relationships are based on friendship first, without actually asking her out test the water in a general conversation with her, like asking what would you say if I asked you out on a date? Or something along those lines, find out if she feels the same way talk to her and listen to what she has to say.
Communication again is the key if you are really good friends no matter what her answer is, you shouldn't let it affect the friendship that you share.
With that I wish you all good luck, in your new relationships have fun!!!!!
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Hello, I am just wondering. how can you build attraction
some how i got shot down by the one person that i felt really liked me, now she doesent talk to me and i can seem to move on because we were pretty good friends before and now i never hear from her or see her. what do i do
I'm glad I'm married and don't have to worry about this anymore
Hi theres this girl @ my school who I really like, but she is one of my friends girlfriend. I cant get her out of my mind. I make her laugh and we are friends and all, but I want to be more than friends. What should I do?
there is this girl that i like but im to nervous to tell her that i like her what should i do?
Hey I went to a lunch with this girl in my office. I knew she had the hots for me, but I am not sure if this was flirting or she was serious.Then the next weekend I asked her out to a date outside the office environment and over the weekend. She is yet to respond you think she is not interested.
Hey I am not desperate, I'm nice to girls. I get myself noticible. I'm confident in myself but not too confident. I love girls. I'm not judgmental to them. But they are judgmental to me. They hate me because I'm fat. I keep getting lots of friends that are girls that I like. (for their personality) and once i start talking to them at school they want to get away from me. Girls are jerks.... Just because they think I'm fat. i feel like I want to be bulimic but I'm not gonna do that.... What should I do? should i try to lose weight? I'm confused... shouldn't girls like m,e for who i am and not for what i look like?
HI I'M AN EMO AND MY QUESTION IS DO GIRLS LIKE EMO? LIKE EMO THAT DON'T TALK A LOT AND WEAR MAKE UP AND PAINT THEIR NAILS AND KIND OF SCARY LIKE A ROCK STAR
Hi, I'm not a cool guy but I'm not a lame guy, I know two girls I might want to ask out, but I don't know what to do or what to say, or who to pick. I am sort-a shy, and I don't know if they like me or not. Please help me.
um well ive really liked this girl for 2 whole years, and i never had the confidence to ask her out. Turns out she liked me to, but now were going to different schools, should i chase her? Or just leave her behind. Because im honestly the only guys shes ever had a crush on.
i want a girl so bad
Omg..look if u want a gf don't just do lame stuff and do immature stuff..they won't take you seriously!! Grow up and be nice to her.. It would be nice if u would have some communication on e-mail, mobile, messengers.. Don't rush it in.. Be pationate and be friends with her first.. Some guys are not even in love with a girl.. they just wanna ask her out and make out in first place.. If you like her just for her looks then its better to back off... ask yourself: do i wanna spend the rest of my life with her? Ask her to go out in movies..resturant or somewhere nice where you can talk and have fun.. And dont crap about yourself all time, show some interest for her and her life.. dont give up after rejection.. but if a girl doesnt like you and tells you to back off.. communicate with her, if she turns out to be a bitch then trust me just leave her.. there are much better girls from her.
theres this girl and for 3 years we hated each other then come 10th grade we seemed to be best friends almost. now we sit next to each other in loads of lessons and somtimes she randomly strokes me n we hug alot but she had a boyfriend. its never been anything more than close friends but i think if i wait til she breaks up with her boyfriend i may be in with a chance. until then how do i strengthen our relationship?????
For some reason evertime i like 1 girl, every girl except that girl likes me. I dont know how to deal with it. And now that i like this one girl, im not sure if she will be like the others and not like me either :/. how should i deal with this?
This is great its like Jimmy101. Keep up the good work my friend...
i like this girl shes popular but she only talks to the cool people what do i do
All my friends have girlfriends and I don't but it's mostly because I'm too shy to try. Everytime one that I like talks to me I try to turn away and walk away casually after telling a joke (cause I am the funny guy in school) and saying I have to get back to work or something. My friends also sometimes make jokes about me cause I am asian, but I know they're kidding. Sometimes I wonder though if I'm ugly cause I'm asian. I always thought I was average. Any advice?
I want to know how to meet an attractive women?
Not a lot of people at my school like emo kids
so no guys like me...and no matter what i do
i cant get a BF and Im NOT gonna change my life just to get a guy
but i dont know what to...Any help?
hi. i really like this girl, but everytime i come close to her i'm just too shy to talk to her in front of all her friends,i would text or call her but im also to afraid to ask her friends for her phone#(they might tell and this might brake my realtionship with her)i have no idea what to say or do........please help
i have this girl who likes me but she said''I want to be boyfriend and girlfriend,but im not ready yet''. how is she not ready, we hold hands, she gives me a kiss on the cheak, and we huge. so how can i make her be my girlfriend.....PLEASE HELP ME
I like this girl in school, she's very pretty, and im not sure what to say to her. And how can she be my girlfriend. im really shy. PLEASE HELP ME
i think she wants to be my girlfried, but i dont know if she wants to be my grilfriend. PELASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I went out with this girl a couple of times but she keeps breaking up with me because she says she has to sort her life out, i think she's telling the truth but she is hitting on other guys all the time. ive been out with alot of girls but i think i really love her and i cant stop thinking about her. can i get some help with this?
this girl is my best friend and i think im falling for her but her boyfriend is my other best friend i dont know wat to do pleeaasse help me
hi,i am 14 years old,handsome,5.7ft,bit cool,and she is 18years old she is shorter than me i looks at me when i am interesting and i think a bit sexuality and i play football very good.her bother is my best friend who is younger.She already have a boyfriend of age 14 he is two months than me and of same height and i am handsome than him,i think she likes me because she stares at me ,shy to me,and wants me.wat u say loveguru. email me please
ahh well i know this girl. i make her laugh. and she gave me her number i text her and she never answers the first day i texted her i said "im leaving no kiss?"i asked her bro said she said to leave her alone when i txt her she doesnt answer wat should i do??
Hi kevin I had to delete your comment because you left me your email address,
In answer to your question though, if she asked you out then she must like you, even though you said no to her, if you have found that you do like her now even though she has just broken up with your friend then take the bull by the horns and ask her out before someone else does.....jimmy
It is nice to see that as far as understanding women, I am at the same level as I was in 11th grade..it is like being in a time machine!
Hi, there is this girl i know ok and we've been very close lately and i sent her a message saying i like her but i caan't ask her out if i don't no how she feels about me but it sounds bit off because i don't want to ruin our friendship at the same time so what do you recommed i do. Thanks for your time
hey i need help when i stard with this gurl she was like wat ever n then i starded liking her n she 17 n im 15 n i told her that i like her n that i love her n 2 day later she told me that if u wana go to the park n she blow the first kiss n sense that day i took her as a gf n i ask her out n she say that to b friendss first n i been kicki it with her for a while she used to call me aylot buti guess i starded talk to her evey single day n i had felling that she changed n she got bored of me .there any way i can get her back like the love she had for me when we first met?please help!....
hi, i met a this hot girl. we were drinking alcohol with common friends. then i found out that she has a girlfriend. but then i asked her if she likes men, because i like her so much. then she smile. after that, i walk her to her, when we reached to the front door of her house, i kissed her, then she kissed me back. then exchanged phone numbers. when i called her the next day, her lesbian girlfriend was there, i think they got in to fight. now she wont answer my calls and text messages. what should i do?
i like this hot girl reallly bad, but im not sure if she likes me. i get scared if i was gonna ask her out. so how can i get ther to be my girlfriend?
wut up? i like this hot girl really bad, but im not sure if she likes me(im not good lookin but, but I think I could get a girlfriend
...she is in my class ...i saw the other question n u answered that the communication is the key..wut about if i try to talk to her on myspace ? do u think thats goin to work???
hello how can you become more mature?
there is this girl ive been crushing on at school but she has a boyfriend but ithink she likes me what do i do
hi im chirs and thiz gurl we have gone out like 3 times and everytime other people say or do sumthing dat breaks us up and we realy like each other we hang out all da tim ei like he im takin and she likes me and she iz takin and wat do we do and not make da other 2 fill bad??? and wat should i do???? :(
i need help!i mat this girl at church and i really like her.but i dnt know how 2 act around her.i am 14 and she is 16 and we kissed on the first day we met.wat do i do?go w/ the flow?or do i try 2 slow things down?
theres this girl. i like herr allllot, but sometimes i feel mshe likes me alot, i can talk to her, buit im just too shy to ask her to be my girlfirend, please help!!!
without the girl I love I don't want to live so I hope these work
I already ask out the girl to come out at black day.Should i let her brings her friends or i can bring for the first meet?I met her before at my school and began closer at MSN.
Sup guys i got a dilema just as you got sadly No gf and im already half way through high skool but i wana be nice and change from bieng a total ass i need advice on that cause im sick of how i act
after i say helloo i dont know wat else to say wat do u think i should do
dude there is a girl i like i have talked with her but her boyfriend who i don't like because he is one of the kids who try to act cool by doing stupid stuff man it is just not right
hey jimmy listen, last year all the girls liked me but lately ive tried with 3 different girls to get together and they all rejected but before that ive had 2 girlfriends. please help me what do you think happened?
there's this girl that i like but dont really know her but i would like to.How would i start talking to her i dont want to just be a random pop up?
im a complete wierdo how can i get the most beutiful girl ever in my life?
ive seen this girl i like, she knows me very vaguly but i dont think shes interested, wat shall i do, groundwork perhaps?
I'm a complete loser and have very few friends no one really talks to me i eat constantly and shit alot so im i'm kinda stinky i got this big asian friend guy hes like 6'2 and 230 pounds he wrote a comment on this site under the name eric i feel bad that he has feelings for these girls and can't talk to then what kind of friendly advice can i give him to turn him into a stud
i liked this girl really alot we all talk an stuff is just kinda hard for me to ask her out an stuff
HI,
I loved a girl and she loved me too,we were very and very good freinds and we loved each other too much then we dispart for a while. Right now also i love her but i can not say her any thing and she is also our relative.
So, what do I do? Please help me!
what do u say to a girl when u ask them out? my first time wasnt so good and i am thinking of asking out another!
i like this one girl and she tells me she likes me and she knows i like her, but when i tell her how i feel about her she says the most awkwards things like oh.. How should i react to her behavior? what should i do? Don't talk to her for a while maybe?
i like this girl that i worked with and i kept asking her to the homecoming dance thinking she was not receiving my messages when one of my friends asked for me she seemed mad and i really want to go to the dance with her. what should i do
im in high school and i like this girl shes cute and i liked her for along time we dont talk much cus everytime im around her and her friends i freez up and not say anything i even freez when she alone i see other boys hug her but not me i need your help
Lonely says:
2 years ago
I'm a guy who is still in high school (11th grade). My issue is I don't really know anybody because I missed the melting pot like formalities in Middle school-the one everyone went to but me-so they all know each other, and I'm kind of left on the sidelines. I'm good-looking in the sense that I'm not UNappealing, I'm somewhat intellectual, not egotistical, and semi confidant with myself. SO I ASK YOU THIS- when I meet a girl and we sit next to eachother in class, how will I know if she likes me- any girl in general really. I just don't want to be shot down by asking strait forward because I don't have too many supportive friends to help shrug it off. REALLY- HOW TO I ASK A GIRL THAT I LIKE OUT WHO DOESNT KNOW I EXIST.