Are You A Good Kisser?

How to be a good kisser

Do you know how to kiss, really kiss someone? Kissing is the most electrifying emotion that you can offer someone instantly. Kissing is an art and a skill. Kissing is special so don't freely give to anyone, chose your partner wisely when giving your kisses. The touch of two lips coming together is sensual and erotic. There should be an instant jolt of energy when lips touch for the first time. You should feel it from you lips to your stomach to your toes. Kissing is an expression of emotions so make sure you are expressing the right emotion when kissing. A kiss is a gift; enjoy the gift of feeling someone’s lips upon yours.

Kissing Styles

Kissing is an art
Kissing is an art
Lust Kiss
Lust Kiss
Feather Kiss
Feather Kiss
First Kiss
First Kiss
Peck Kiss
Peck Kiss
French Kiss
French Kiss
Sloppy Kiss (this is a no, no)
Sloppy Kiss (this is a no, no)
Smushy Kiss (this is a no, no)
Smushy Kiss (this is a no, no)
Sucking on bottom lip (very sexy)
Sucking on bottom lip (very sexy)
Small peck kiss
Small peck kiss
Slow start of kissing, breathe slowly
Slow start of kissing, breathe slowly

Johnny Depp- Kisses, Watch This!

The Art of Kissing!

So many types of kisses to offer your partner or lover or friend, but I want to review what NOT to do first;

The Don’ts of Kissing;

  • Don’t plant your mouth over your partners like a vacuum (yuk)
  • Slobbery mouths are never a winner, make your mouth moist, not wet with slobber
  • Don't kiss like your crazy, moving your head back and forth
  • Open mouth kisses are fine, but not the giant open mouth like a baby bird waiting on food, but like, holding a marble in your lips (soft open mouth)
  • Pecking like a woodpecker is NEVER allowed (on any area of the body)
  • Mushing your lips into your partners is not permitted…no squashing
  • No chapped lips (feels like your kissing an alligator)
  • When your partner is leaning in to give you a kiss goodbye, pucker up, never just let them kiss flat lips, always pucker up
  • Darting your tongue in and out of the mouth, is NOT a turn on
  • Don't kiss and lick at the same time, it should be one motion
  • Pay attention to your partner, if they aren't into it, then stop, read all the signs
  • Don't lick someone like a dog, that is just gross
  • Sores on your mouth is never good, so clean up your mouth before kissing

Great Kissing is An Art;

First Kiss– often the most memorable, anticipated kiss, so be confident, lean in (eyes open until lips touch) pucker up the lips, very slowly, gently touch your partner’s lips, softly move your lips so you can catch your partner’s bottom or top lip in yours. This first kiss is exhilarating and then slowing tug on the bottom or top lip. No tongue just moist, soft, confident lips.

Feather Kiss -lightly touching your lips to another, slowly, tenderlyand just a hint of breathe between your lips; it’s stirring and thrilling all at the same time. Feather kisses are where your bodies aren't touching but so close the heat is surging between you. Just like a feather kiss.

French Kiss – the most electrifying of all kisses is the French Kiss. Little by little as lips part and the peek of a pink tongue sneaks into your mouth, the ecstasy of one’s tongue touching your lips, teeth and tongue is so stimulating that your senses fly out the window and your body takes over with hunger. This kiss is passionate, borderline obsessive but creates longing for one another. Pure, raw, electric heat between two mouths once the tongue starts playing creates a liquid pool of lust between two mouths that it’s breathtaking.

Peck Kiss – yes, it happens the immediate unplanned peck with your partner. Or you get nervous and decide to give a quick “peak” just to show them you are interested. A peck kiss is very important actually, when departing, lean into your partner (lover or whoever) lean into them, lick your lips (no slobber) but moist lips and quickly peck them as you are walking away. Let it linger on your lip, its raw interest you are sending, the message translating through your lips.

Lust Kiss – I love a kiss that speaks lust. It’s dominant, hardcore, and compulsive, plus, it reeks of desire between two people. The craving is derived from thirst for one another. It’s real and the kiss should be long and full of greedy lust. Lust kisses should start soft but definitely progress into a crazed hardcore groping session (I mean, deep-seated kissing that reaches one’s private parts). The kissing session should be intense, delightful and tender (all at the same time). Remember, the rules above, no slobber, no full open mouth but passionate lip to lip combat that makes you quiver.

Kissing is an art and a skill. One that everyone should master because it’s a beautiful piece of art that two people create together. Kisses should be meaningful yet, lustful. Kissing is where it begins and where it ends, so be a good kisser. Practice makes perfect, ask an old partner to help you (even practice with them) if they will let you (it should be fun). Look in the mirror, study your lips, practice on a pillow, but whatever you do, be a good kisser; it could make or break your relationship. Create desire through kissing, know your mouth, your lips and know how to use them when kissing another.

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dohn121 6 years ago from Hudson Valley, New York

Practice with a pillow? No wonder I stink! Just kidding :D Thanks for a great "kissing session" Ladybird33. I think I need a cold shower or make a really important phone call...I wonder what she's doing right now?


ralwus 6 years ago

I learned kissin playing spin the bottle many years ago.


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creativeone59 6 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

Thanks for nice hub, very educational advice. thanks for sharing it. godspeed. creativeone59


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carolina muscle 6 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina

I enjoyed this post.


mtsi1098 6 years ago

Great idea...I never thought of creating a hub about kissing...when does the "kissing body parts" hub get released :)...Excuse me now while I go practice kissing my wife...thanks


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Pamela99 6 years ago from United States

Great idea for a hub and your information was right on.


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Dohn, I just love your comments! Thank you, Thank you, go take a shower now :)

Rawlus, I forgot about spin the bottle, good one...it was fun, wasn't it :) Thanks for reading!


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

creativeone59, thank you so much, I keep trying to think outside the box!


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Carolina, thank you for reading!!!

mtsi1098, yes, practice makes perfect :) Thanks for commenting!

Pamela99, thank you and I really liked writing this hub. I appreciate you reading and commenting.

healthtip, you are very sweet, thank you for the compliment. I hope you are well, you have been hiding.


logic,commonsense 6 years ago

There is only one way to find out! :)


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drej2522 6 years ago from Augusta, GA

Kissing rocks!!


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Truth From Truth 6 years ago from Michigan

Good hub, Good points and an interesting and fun subject, Thanks.


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Miss Nasreen 6 years ago

Nice hub Kisses for you


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Logic, yep, only one way to find out :) Good Luck with that.

Drej2522, I agree, Kissing does rock!

Truth, thank you so much, love the encouragement.

Miss Nasreen, thank you and kisses back to you as well :)


TattoGuy 6 years ago

You wud deff get a tongue job from the Captain for sure lol ; )


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4everfitness 6 years ago

Can't live without kissing (blush). Nice hub.

http://www.foreverfitness.info


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Mortgagestar1 6 years ago from Weirton,West Virginia

Experimentation and get the " Head Up First " conversation.

During my dating days, I always find out what she considers a good kiss. Kissing is communication from a tiny little peck on the cheek to all out eroticism. What one may deem pleasure could be a total turn off. I aways make sure I have a breath mint ready and if you know what type of candy she enjoys, take it just prior. Kissing need to be incorporated from foreplay through the afterglow. I really have no way to gage my own abilities on kissing. I have not heard of any complaints, then again maybe they were just being nice.


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sexeducationnow 6 years ago

nice :)


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Hi-Jinks 6 years ago from Wisconsin

Kisses sweeter than wine.


Audrevea 6 years ago

Oh god, I went out with a bad kisser. This brings back repressed memories!


6inchboot 6 years ago

I like it!Thank you for sharing!http://www.6inchboot.com


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emievil 6 years ago from Philippines

This hub made me remember my first kiss. Mmmmmmmmm! :)


Madame X 6 years ago

Am I a good kisser? Well, my husband thinks so :) He's the only one who will ever have my kisses :) :) :)

Wonderful hub! What a fun subject :)


graceyghae 6 years ago

Now i have knowledge,i will preserved this for my future...LOVER :).

Very Good lesson for every kisser.


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drej2522 6 years ago from Augusta, GA

I pose the question to you, Ladybird...are you a good kisser??? =)


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Tattoo Guy, well, I guess thank you. You be a good boy. Hope the Holidays are good to you.

4everfitness, thank you for commenting and I love your profile name, unique.

Mortagestar1, you got the article completely, love your comment! Kissing is truly an art and you have to seek feedback if you want know the truth :) but loved your comment on this, because you totally got what I was saying.


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

sexeducationnow, thanks for commenting and reading my hubs.

Hi-Jinks, so very true, which I would have thought of it! Great phrase, thanks again!

Andrevea, sorry for the bad memories, yep, I have had a bad kisser too! Yuck! Thanks for reading.


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

6inchboot, thanks for commenting, hopefully you will start writing here versus adversting :) But thank you for reading my hub.

emievil, I hope your first kiss was a great memory :) Thank you for reading and commenting, much appreciated that you took the time, very much!


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Madame X, thank you and I hope you are a good kisser, specially with your husband :) Thank you for commenting, so happy you liked it.

grace, do preserve for your lover or who ever, that is what it is for, to help...so my best of luck to you :)

drej2522, yes, my husband says I am a good kisser, in fact, that is how I decided to write this because we were talking about kissing...fun subject to relive and write about. Great questions, thanks for asking :)


vallabha 6 years ago

cool smooch


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

like a vacuum LOL< nice advice and you captured all the tips indeed, nice kisses isnt it? specially the lust kiss, LOL< hope you are enjoying the holidays lady, Maita


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tonymac04 6 years ago from South Africa

YEs!!!!

Love and peace

Tony


bdboys 6 years ago

its something heavenly


Poppa Blues 6 years ago

I love kissing, and, consequently your hub about it as well! Yummy!


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Vallabha, Thank you so much!!

Maita, yes, we love the same type of kisses. I hope your Holidays are wonderful and very, very good. Thank you for reading and commenting. You have a beautiful name as well.

Tony, yes, Love and Peace, I wish that for you now and always. Thanks for stopping by. Happy Holidays to you and yours.

Poppa Blues, I love kissing too. Thank you for reading, much appreciated!


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Putz Ballard 6 years ago

Thanks for such a great hub on kissing, like rawlus, first started with spin the bottle. found out early on I like smooching.


Citrus000 6 years ago

Kisses are so wonderful. Thank you for your hub. =)


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zzron 6 years ago from Houston, TX.

I didn't know there was so much to know about this, I will try it out with my wife. Thanks.


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Putz, thank you and spin the bottle, huh? Well, I learned from that game too :)

Citrus000, thanks so much for reading and commenting!

zzron, yep, check with your wife, she will tell you :) Thanks so much for stopping by!


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Cheeky Girl 6 years ago from UK and Nerujenia

There are so many kisses. Have a few I could mention but I might get arrested! Heh! Great Hub!


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dogluver1 6 years ago

Lol I like it I think its cool you used a picture from twilight! lol


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Cheecky Girl, Oh,do share :) Thanks for reading. Ladybird

doluver1, What can I say, I am creative :) Thanks for stopping by, much appreciated.


AuthorLMS 6 years ago

Another great hub ladybird! This was electrifying to read, thanks for sharing such great informative hubs. Keep up the great work!


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

AuthorLMS, thank you so much for the kind words and your encouragement, very, very much needed. Thank you so many times over!


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LChristiane 6 years ago from Florida

thank you so much....I need kissing instructions. I've only kissed one boy in my entire life. Can I ask you a question?? This boy I REALLY like came out of his way to come over to my house to watch a movie with his friend....and before he left he asked me to walk him out....he hugged me like 5 times before getting to the door, then when he got to the door, he hugged me again and looked down at me (he's really, really tall, and I'm short)...does that mean he was trying to kiss me?? 'Cause I honestly got shy and looked away but still embracing him....I'm so embarrassed for looking away; but the guy I like the most of course, I act most shy about...


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

LChristaine, I hope this article helps you and you can ask me any question. Yes, it means he is trying to kiss you but just scared, that is why he is hugging you so much. Being shy is okay but if you are nervous and he is, some times if you just step up and lean into him, he will take the leap. Sounds like he likes you a lot but just really shy as well. Let me know how it goes. Good luck!


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Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

lady,

I have always enjoyed face holders, and women that let you know where to kiss them. When starting to kiss, let it build slowly. The response will let you know how to proced.

If together for some time and waiting for the moment, just go wild!

After seeing your pics change, I feel I would know you from the thigh down. How about a little face?


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tony0724 6 years ago from san diego calif

Absolutely nothing as thrilling as the first kiss !And if I say so myself I am an excellent kisser.


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Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Lchris,

From a guys point of view. Just look him in the eyes, if he doesn't move closer you move a little closer. If he wants to kiss you, he will. You sound young and so does he. He's probably as shy as you are.


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Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Tony,

I've told you; I will NOT kiss you! Oh boy; I can't wait for a reply.


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Harvey, first, your comment to LChristaine was a good one, thank you for sharing. Second, I put this picture of me (and my family) just for you, so you can see something other than my legs :) Lastly, I don't think Tony wants to kiss you :)


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Tony, the first kiss is always the best. Excellent Kisser? Good for you :) Thanks for commenting!


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mwatkins31 6 years ago from Milwaukee, WI

I find every kiss after the first gets better. The first kiss is titillating and succulent, making you hunger for more.


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Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Lady,

You still have great legs.


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James A Watkins 6 years ago from Chicago

Since your title poses this as a question I will confess: I am a great kisser. Still, I picked up a few tidbits I ca use here. Thank you for a fun time. :D


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

mwatkins31, you got it! That is exactly what the first kiss should do! Thanks for reading.

Harvey, thank you, I work hard for my great legs!

James, thanks for reading and if you think you are a good kisser, then you are working at it and that is wonderful! However, I would image you are a good kisser. My best, my friend!


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ceciliabeltran 6 years ago from New York

I liked this hub though really if its with the right person, a lousy kisser transforms into the best. A kiss is instinctive and in truth, cannot be practiced. If you are a lousy kisser that means you really have no feelings for whoever you're kissing, preoccupied in performing or just plain clueless about what you yourself find pleasurable. If you want to be a good kisser, get real first of all with yourself. Is this bozo someone you feel for or someone to practice kissing with?


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

ceciliabeltran, I am so happy you liked the hub, it was a lot of fun to write. I agree with you comment completely and I want to thank you for sharing your thoughts. You should know if you are a lousy kisser, there are signs..


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Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Lady,

Some really likes their legs and for a good reason. The only way you can get an honest opinion of my kissing is by kissing me. I'll send you my tongue, lips are hard to put back. Please tell me if I enjoyed it.


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aziz908 6 years ago from saudi

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Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Lady,

Don't try getting between me and Tony. Wait; what am I saying!


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Harvey, you are so funny!! Love your comments and hope you are having a good day.

aziz908, thanks for stopping by and I will swing by and see you soon.

Harvey, I would NEVER get between you and Tony :)


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Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Lady,

I guess that means no three some, HA!


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Mr Nice 6 years ago from North America

Hi Ladybird33,

Wow great mini long distance course on Gooood Kissing but too bad practicum is not included..........hahaha. That is the main reason I don't like long distance education. Very nice & comprehensive hub on the topic of kissing.

Georgia is beautiful, few years ago I lived at Roswell & worked at Peach tree Atlanta. I really enjoyed your hub......a flying kiss for you.


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Harvey, thanks for the offer, but yes, I have to say no ;)

Mr. Nice, a flying kiss back to you for reading and commenting, and yes, long distance education is never really fun, but at least you are learning. My best.


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Tammy Lochmann 6 years ago

LOL...Thanks for the lesson. I enjoyed the hub and the conversation after.


Miss Take 6 years ago

well i believe i am an expert, but i will take some of these tips on board, in fact i think i will sign out now and go and practice some of these techniques, and maybe the massage also thanks for your help.


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Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Lady,

I sent my lips COD; does this mean I'll end up paying for it?


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dredog03 6 years ago

nice article. i love the peck kiss best.


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Tammy, thanks for reading and commenting.

Miss Take, hope the practicing went good, I believe practice makes perfect or purrfect :)

Oh Harvey, yes, you will be paying for it :) You are so very naughty...

dredog03, thank you so much for responding and yes, the peck kiss can be very sexy and lingering...


Miss Take 6 years ago

just coming up for air.....


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Miss Take, you are crackin' me up!! Lots of laughs, appreciate it!


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Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Lady,

You never told me if you thought I was good and if I enjoyed it. I never got the package back, so I can't kiss. I've been neutered!


Oakhill 6 years ago

I'm 17 and i'm way worried i'm a bad kisser! I had my first not long ago and it was at a party. We kissed a few times, but just a peck.


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Harvey, You enjoyed it and you are not as good as me :) Just teasing. Love your comments

Oakhill, try practicing and I feel for you becausing being a new kisser is hard, just remember the tips in this article, don't be sloppy and try to follow your partner. My best to you.


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maven101 6 years ago from Northern Arizona

My grand daughter says I'm a tuna terrific kisser....but what does she know...at 5 years old she hasn't had much experience...and to her EVERYTHING is tuna terrific...Great Hub full of good advise for those that are kissing challenged...I must say, I still love kissing my wife, especially when I'm heading for the golf course...Larry


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Larry, you are so funny, my husband loves kissing me as well when he is heading to the golf course...what is wrong with this picture :) Your granddaughter sounds beautiful! Always good to hear from you.


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My Sweet Anjolie 6 years ago

I vote for the bottom lip suck - yes very sexy. For some reason I really like kissing pics - sort of turn me on. I think I've discovered my kinda porn.


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

My sweet Anjolie, nothing is wrong with what you like...I liked all of these :) Thanks for coming by!


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Mamelody 6 years ago

I love it when a guy gently holds my face when kissing me.. well every guy I have kissed tells me am a pro at it!!

Nice hub hun xx


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Mamelody, yes, I agree with you, my husband is wonderful at doing that to me, still!!! Thanks for stopping by!


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reiseberichte 6 years ago

My girlfriend claims that I am a very good kisser :-)


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

reiseberichte, That is a GOOD thing, if she likes it that is what is important. Thanks for reading.


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robert hoagland 6 years ago

nice hub hope to see more


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Hi Robert, how are you? Thanks for reading, I appreciate it!


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Lupin Kasumi 6 years ago from Austin, Texas

I am so happy to know that I'm a good kisser.


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Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

lupin, that is great that you think you are a good kisser but do others? :) I had to ask but I am sure you are :) Thanks for reading.


asexytext 5 years ago

Very enjoyable post.


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arteazabache 5 years ago

Loved your post, very educational... Hope I can perform this with someone but for the moment I will just learn the theory of it...


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nutuba 5 years ago from North Carolina

Ladybird, I went back through and read some old hubs this morning. I had forgotten about this one. I *love* kissing and enjoyed reading your descriptive writing. Nicely done.


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Ladybird33 5 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Thank you for the comment and reading it again! Very nice!


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santos88 4 years ago from Austin, Texas

"Darting your tongue in and out of the mouth, is NOT a turn on."

I honestly hope to whatever God is out there that I never have to experience this haha. Great hub, I love the way you described the different kisses without making it sound cheesy.

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