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How to get the Girl

Updated on September 8, 2011

How to get the Girl

In response to emails, comments and questions, made on my previous "how to get a girl" articles, I have decided to write this article to try to answer some of your questions.

Please feel free to email me if you have any other questions on the subject, you will find a link to my email under my profile picture.

http://hubpages.com/hub/How_to_get_a_Girlfriend http://hubpages.com/hub/How_to_ask_a_girl_to_be_your_girlfriend

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http://hubpages.com/hub/How_to_ask_a_girl_out

Question (1) I made out with this girl and she lead me on really bad and I want her so bad now what do I do?

The answer to this one is to talk to her, ask her how she feels, was it just a bit of fun for her or does she genuinely like you. Communication is the key to any relationship.

Question (2)

Hi. I like this girl and she likes me as who I am. but I'm not sure if she likes me.

As above communication is key, talk to her and ask her. I know it can be difficult and nerve wracking, but you will never get the chance if you don't. if she likes you as who you are, then that is a great basis to start a successful relationship is built from friendship first.

Question (3)

HEY THE GIRL AT MY SCHOOL IS SOOOOOOOOO HOT I CALLED Her AND THE NEXT DAY SHE BROKE MY HEART. I NEED HELP

If she rejected you it isn't the end of the world, as the old saying goes there are plenty more fish in the sea, find someone else who appreciates who you are.

Question (4)

Im not good looking, but I think I could get a girlfriend. One girl I like is a whore who I am pretty sure would take any guy who is good looking. We hang out sometimes and we have a good time, but Im kind of chunky around the edges... what would you do?

First of all, girls don't go for looks, they look beyond the package, it's what is inside is what matters most, they don't buy a box of chocolates because of the picture on the box but for the sweet chocolate that is inside. Secondly do you really want to go out with a girl who would take anyone who is good looking, you would soon find your way on the train to dumpsville as soon as someone caught her eye. You ask what would I do? Personally I would look else where, find a girl who likes you for who you are.

Question (5)

Hi there is this really fit girl at school I make her laugh but I think she hates me what should I do?

As in the first 2 questions communication is the key, talk to her, show her that you are not just funny and that you have a serious side too.

Question (6)

Please. I would like a girlfriend. I would really like a girlfriend before my next birthday. at the very least my first kiss ON MY BIRTHDAY. or before, either way please HELP!!!!!!!!!! ME. NOT EVERYONE ELSE THEN ME. MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Desperation will get you nowhere, calm down, take a deep breath be yourself and work on your confidence, if you cant be more confident in yourself then no girl will have confidence in you either.

Question (7)

Hi I know a girl likes me and I like her too its just I don't have the guts to ask her out.

This is the question I am asked most often, there are many ways to ask a girl out, if you can't do it face to face because of a lack of confidence, write her a letter or send a text message to her mobile, email her, call her on the phone, if you don't ask her soon someone else might snap her up first. Girls do prefer to be asked face to face though, pluck up the courage and ask her, there are many times in life where you get nervous and scared and you get through them without any scratches.

Question (8)

How do you get a girl that doesn't know you and that she wants you to go away?

Look elsewhere it is obvious that this girl doesn't like you, as in an earlier answer, there are plenty more fish In the sea.

Question (9)

There is this girl that I like @ my school but I said some pretty gross stuff about her what should I do I know she's the one but I cant get my head in the right place now can u tell me what I can do?

The first step is to apologise to her about the bad things that you said about her, then tell her that you only said those things because you had feelings for her and didn't know how to handle the situation, that you were trying to get her attention and went about it all the wrong way.

Question (10)

The girl is my best friend, but recently I have been having feelings for her and I think I am falling in love with her, I want to ask her out but I don't want to risk the friendship that we have.

The most successful relationships are based on friendship first, without actually asking her out test the water in a general conversation with her, like asking what would you say if I asked you out on a date? Or something along those lines, find out if she feels the same way talk to her and listen to what she has to say.

Communication again is the key if you are really good friends no matter what her answer is, you shouldn't let it affect the friendship that you share.

With that I wish you all good luck, in your new relationships have fun!!!!!

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