How to get the Girl

How to get the Girl

In response to emails, comments and questions, made on my previous "how to get a girl" articles, I have decided to write this article to try to answer some of your questions.

Please feel free to email me if you have any other questions on the subject, you will find a link to my email under my profile picture.

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Question (1) I made out with this girl and she lead me on really bad and I want her so bad now what do I do?

The answer to this one is to talk to her, ask her how she feels, was it just a bit of fun for her or does she genuinely like you. Communication is the key to any relationship.

Question (2)

Hi. I like this girl and she likes me as who I am. but I'm not sure if she likes me.

As above communication is key, talk to her and ask her. I know it can be difficult and nerve wracking, but you will never get the chance if you don't. if she likes you as who you are, then that is a great basis to start a successful relationship is built from friendship first.

Question (3)

HEY THE GIRL AT MY SCHOOL IS SOOOOOOOOO HOT I CALLED Her AND THE NEXT DAY SHE BROKE MY HEART. I NEED HELP

If she rejected you it isn't the end of the world, as the old saying goes there are plenty more fish in the sea, find someone else who appreciates who you are.

Question (4)

Im not good looking, but I think I could get a girlfriend. One girl I like is a whore who I am pretty sure would take any guy who is good looking. We hang out sometimes and we have a good time, but Im kind of chunky around the edges... what would you do?

First of all, girls don't go for looks, they look beyond the package, it's what is inside is what matters most, they don't buy a box of chocolates because of the picture on the box but for the sweet chocolate that is inside. Secondly do you really want to go out with a girl who would take anyone who is good looking, you would soon find your way on the train to dumpsville as soon as someone caught her eye. You ask what would I do? Personally I would look else where, find a girl who likes you for who you are.

Question (5)

Hi there is this really fit girl at school I make her laugh but I think she hates me what should I do?

As in the first 2 questions communication is the key, talk to her, show her that you are not just funny and that you have a serious side too.

Question (6)

Please. I would like a girlfriend. I would really like a girlfriend before my next birthday. at the very least my first kiss ON MY BIRTHDAY. or before, either way please HELP!!!!!!!!!! ME. NOT EVERYONE ELSE THEN ME. MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Desperation will get you nowhere, calm down, take a deep breath be yourself and work on your confidence, if you cant be more confident in yourself then no girl will have confidence in you either.

Question (7)

Hi I know a girl likes me and I like her too its just I don't have the guts to ask her out.

This is the question I am asked most often, there are many ways to ask a girl out, if you can't do it face to face because of a lack of confidence, write her a letter or send a text message to her mobile, email her, call her on the phone, if you don't ask her soon someone else might snap her up first. Girls do prefer to be asked face to face though, pluck up the courage and ask her, there are many times in life where you get nervous and scared and you get through them without any scratches.

Question (8)

How do you get a girl that doesn't know you and that she wants you to go away?

Look elsewhere it is obvious that this girl doesn't like you, as in an earlier answer, there are plenty more fish In the sea.

Question (9)

There is this girl that I like @ my school but I said some pretty gross stuff about her what should I do I know she's the one but I cant get my head in the right place now can u tell me what I can do?

The first step is to apologise to her about the bad things that you said about her, then tell her that you only said those things because you had feelings for her and didn't know how to handle the situation, that you were trying to get her attention and went about it all the wrong way.

Question (10)

The girl is my best friend, but recently I have been having feelings for her and I think I am falling in love with her, I want to ask her out but I don't want to risk the friendship that we have.

The most successful relationships are based on friendship first, without actually asking her out test the water in a general conversation with her, like asking what would you say if I asked you out on a date? Or something along those lines, find out if she feels the same way talk to her and listen to what she has to say.

Communication again is the key if you are really good friends no matter what her answer is, you shouldn't let it affect the friendship that you share.

With that I wish you all good luck, in your new relationships have fun!!!!!

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Lonely 9 years ago

I'm a guy who is still in high school (11th grade). My issue is I don't really know anybody because I missed the melting pot like formalities in Middle school-the one everyone went to but me-so they all know each other, and I'm kind of left on the sidelines. I'm good-looking in the sense that I'm not UNappealing, I'm somewhat intellectual, not egotistical, and semi confidant with myself. SO I ASK YOU THIS- when I meet a girl and we sit next to eachother in class, how will I know if she likes me- any girl in general really. I just don't want to be shot down by asking strait forward because I don't have too many supportive friends to help shrug it off. REALLY- HOW TO I ASK A GIRL THAT I LIKE OUT WHO DOESN'T KNOW I EXIST.


Josh 9 years ago

Hello, I am just wondering. how can you build attraction


mooney 8 years ago


out of ideas 8 years ago

some how i got shot down by the one person that i felt really liked me, now she doesent talk to me and i can seem to move on because we were pretty good friends before and now i never hear from her or see her. what do i do


burn-fat 8 years ago

I'm glad I'm married and don't have to worry about this anymore


Tommy 8 years ago

Hi theres this girl @ my school who I really like, but she is one of my friends girlfriend. I cant get her out of my mind. I make her laugh and we are friends and all, but I want to be more than friends. What should I do?


jason 8 years ago

there is this girl that i like but im to nervous to tell her that i like her what should i do?


Ashish 8 years ago

Hey I went to a lunch with this girl in my office. I knew she had the hots for me, but I am not sure if this was flirting or she was serious.Then the next weekend I asked her out to a date outside the office environment and over the weekend. She is yet to respond you think she is not interested.


Lenny 8 years ago

Hey I am not desperate, I'm nice to girls. I get myself noticible. I'm confident in myself but not too confident. I love girls. I'm not judgmental to them. But they are judgmental to me. They hate me because I'm fat. I keep getting lots of friends that are girls that I like. (for their personality) and once i start talking to them at school they want to get away from me. Girls are jerks.... Just because they think I'm fat. i feel like I want to be bulimic but I'm not gonna do that.... What should I do? should i try to lose weight? I'm confused... shouldn't girls like m,e for who i am and not for what i look like?


alexander 8 years ago

HI I'M AN EMO AND MY QUESTION IS DO GIRLS LIKE EMO? LIKE EMO THAT DON'T TALK A LOT AND WEAR MAKE UP AND PAINT THEIR NAILS AND KIND OF SCARY LIKE A ROCK STAR


Mark 8 years ago

Hi, I'm not a cool guy but I'm not a lame guy, I know two girls I might want to ask out, but I don't know what to do or what to say, or who to pick. I am sort-a shy, and I don't know if they like me or not. Please help me.


alex 8 years ago

um well ive really liked this girl for 2 whole years, and i never had the confidence to ask her out. Turns out she liked me to, but now were going to different schools, should i chase her? Or just leave her behind. Because im honestly the only guys shes ever had a crush on.


teamhorror93 8 years ago

i want a girl so bad


Doomed 8 years ago

Omg..look if u want a gf don't just do lame stuff and do immature stuff..they won't take you seriously!! Grow up and be nice to her.. It would be nice if u would have some communication on e-mail, mobile, messengers.. Don't rush it in.. Be pationate and be friends with her first.. Some guys are not even in love with a girl.. they just wanna ask her out and make out in first place.. If you like her just for her looks then its better to back off... ask yourself: do i wanna spend the rest of my life with her? Ask her to go out in movies..resturant or somewhere nice where you can talk and have fun.. And don't crap about yourself all time, show some interest for her and her life.. don't give up after rejection.. but if a girl doesn't like you and tells you to back off.. communicate with her, if she turns out to be a bitch then trust me just leave her.. there are much better girls from her.


jam 8 years ago

theres this girl and for 3 years we hated each other then come 10th grade we seemed to be best friends almost. now we sit next to each other in loads of lessons and sometimes she randomly strokes me n we hug a lot but she had a boyfriend. its never been anything more than close friends but i think if i wait til she breaks up with her boyfriend i may be in with a chance. until then how do i strengthen our relationship?????


Draith 8 years ago

For some reason evertime i like 1 girl, every girl except that girl likes me. I don't know how to deal with it. And now that i like this one girl, im not sure if she will be like the others and not like me either :/. how should i deal with this?


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Panic 39 8 years ago

This is great its like Jimmy101. Keep up the good work my friend...


Andrew 8 years ago

i like this girl shes popular but she only talks to the cool people what do i do


Eric 8 years ago

All my friends have girlfriends and I don't but it's mostly because I'm too shy to try. Everytime one that I like talks to me I try to turn away and walk away casually after telling a joke (cause I am the funny guy in school) and saying I have to get back to work or something. My friends also sometimes make jokes about me cause I am asian, but I know they're kidding. Sometimes I wonder though if I'm ugly cause I'm asian. I always thought I was average. Any advice?


sheick kanneh 8 years ago

I want to know how to meet an attractive women?


Darian_Disaster 8 years ago

Not a lot of people at my school like emo kids

so no guys like me...and no matter what i do

i cant get a BF and Im NOT gonna change my life just to get a guy

but i don't know what to...Any help?


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Aleksandr 8 years ago

hi. i really like this girl, but everytime i come close to her i'm just too shy to talk to her in front of all her friends,i would text or call her but im also to afraid to ask her friends for her phone#(they might tell and this might brake my realtionship with her)i have no idea what to say or do........please help


beau 8 years ago

i have this girl who likes me but she said''I want to be boyfriend and girlfriend,but im not ready yet''. how is she not ready, we hold hands, she gives me a kiss on the cheak, and we huge. so how can i make her be my girlfriend.....PLEASE HELP ME


brandon 8 years ago

I like this girl in school, she's very pretty, and im not sure what to say to her. And how can she be my girlfriend. im really shy. PLEASE HELP ME


beau  8 years ago

i think she wants to be my girlfried, but i don't know if she wants to be my grilfriend. PELASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE


Dustin 8 years ago

I went out with this girl a couple of times but she keeps breaking up with me because she says she has to sort her life out, i think she's telling the truth but she is hitting on other guys all the time. ive been out with a lot of girls but i think i really love her and i cant stop thinking about her. can i get some help with this?


grant 8 years ago

this girl is my best friend and i think im falling for her but her boyfriend is my other best friend i don't know wat to do pleeaasse help me


n.tenzin14@hotmail.com 8 years ago

hi,i am 14 years old,handsome,5.7ft,bit cool,and she is 18years old she is shorter than me i looks at me when i am interesting and i think a bit sexuality and i play football very good.her bother is my best friend who is younger.She already have a boyfriend of age 14 he is two months than me and of same height and i am handsome than him,i think she likes me because she stares at me ,shy to me,and wants me.wat u say loveguru. email me please


Randy 8 years ago

ahh well i know this girl. i make her laugh. and she gave me her number i text her and she never answers the first day i texted her i said "im leaving no kiss?"i asked her bro said she said to leave her alone when i txt her she doesn't answer wat should i do??


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jimmythejock 8 years ago from Scotland Author

Hi kevin I had to delete your comment because you left me your email address,

In answer to your question though, if she asked you out then she must like you, even though you said no to her, if you have found that you do like her now even though she has just broken up with your friend then take the bull by the horns and ask her out before someone else does.....jimmy


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funnebone 8 years ago from Philadelphia Pa

It is nice to see that as far as understanding women, I am at the same level as I was in 11th grade..it is like being in a time machine!


youngboy08 8 years ago

Hi, there is this girl i know ok and we've been very close lately and i sent her a message saying i like her but i caan't ask her out if i don't no how she feels about me but it sounds bit off because i don't want to ruin our friendship at the same time so what do you recommed i do. Thanks for your time


trancer 7 years ago

hey i need help when i stard with this gurl she was like wat ever n then i starded liking her n she 17 n im 15 n i told her that i like her n that i love her n 2 day later she told me that if u wana go to the park n she blow the first kiss n sense that day i took her as a gf n i ask her out n she say that to b friendss first n i been kicki it with her for a while she used to call me aylot buti guess i starded talk to her evey single day n i had felling that she changed n she got bored of me .there any way i can get her back like the love she had for me when we first met?please help!....


renzo 7 years ago

hi, i met a this hot girl. we were drinking alcohol with common friends. then i found out that she has a girlfriend. but then i asked her if she likes men, because i like her so much. then she smile. after that, i walk her to her, when we reached to the front door of her house, i kissed her, then she kissed me back. then exchanged phone numbers. when i called her the next day, her lesbian girlfriend was there, i think they got in to fight. now she wont answer my calls and text messages. what should i do?


DANNY DAHDAL!  7 years ago

i like this hot girl reallly bad, but im not sure if she likes me. i get scared if i was gonna ask her out. so how can i get ther to be my girlfriend?


me 7 years ago

wut up? i like this hot girl really bad, but im not sure if she likes me(im not good lookin but, but I think I could get a girlfriend

...she is in my class ...i saw the other question n u answered that the communication is the key..wut about if i try to talk to her on myspace ? do u think that's goin to work???


lance 7 years ago

hello how can you become more mature?


jacob 7 years ago

there is this girl ive been crushing on at school but she has a boyfriend but ithink she likes me what do i do


chris 7 years ago

hi im chirs and thiz gurl we have gone out like 3 times and everytime other people say or do sumthing dat breaks us up and we realy like each other we hang out all da tim ei like he im takin and she likes me and she iz takin and wat do we do and not make da other 2 fill bad??? and wat should i do???? :(


kenneth 7 years ago

i need help!i mat this girl at church and i really like her.but i dnt know how 2 act around her.i am 14 and she is 16 and we kissed on the first day we met.wat do i do?go w/ the flow?or do i try 2 slow things down?


daniel 7 years ago

theres this girl. i like herr allllot, but sometimes i feel mshe likes me a lot, i can talk to her, buit im just too shy to ask her to be my girlfirend, please help!!!


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Zakk Wylde 7 years ago from UK

without the girl I love I don't want to live so I hope these work


RD Jade 7 years ago

I already ask out the girl to come out at black day.Should i let her brings her friends or i can bring for the first meet?I met her before at my school and began closer at MSN.


Mark angel 7 years ago

Sup guys i got a dilema just as you got sadly No gf and im already half way through high skool but i wana be nice and change from bieng a total ass i need advice on that cause im sick of how i act


DMAJDMX 7 years ago

after i say helloo i don't know wat else to say wat do u think i should do


flames 7 years ago

dude there is a girl i like i have talked with her but her boyfriend who i don't like because he is one of the kids who try to act cool by doing stupid stuff man it is just not right


karim 7 years ago

hey jimmy listen, last year all the girls liked me but lately ive tried with 3 different girls to get together and they all rejected but before that ive had 2 girlfriends. please help me what do you think happened?


lost 7 years ago

there's this girl that i like but don't really know her but i would like to.How would i start talking to her i don't want to just be a random pop up?


Kyle  7 years ago

im a complete wierdo how can i get the most beautiful girl ever in my life?


darren 7 years ago

ive seen this girl i like, she knows me very vaguly but i don't think shes interested, wat shall i do, groundwork perhaps?


Devon Flores 7 years ago

I'm a complete loser and have very few friends no one really talks to me i eat constantly and shit a lot so im i'm kinda stinky i got this big asian friend guy hes like 6'2 and 230 pounds he wrote a comment on this site under the name eric i feel bad that he has feelings for these girls and can't talk to then what kind of friendly advice can i give him to turn him into a stud


travis ponstingl 7 years ago

i liked this girl really a lot we all talk an stuff is just kinda hard for me to ask her out an stuff


SOhail 7 years ago

HI,

I loved a girl and she loved me too,we were very and very good friends and we loved each other too much then we dispart for a while. Right now also i love her but i can not say her any thing and she is also our relative.

So, what do I do? Please help me!


Danny 7 years ago

what do u say to a girl when u ask them out? my first time wasn't so good and i am thinking of asking out another!


joey 7 years ago

i like this one girl and she tells me she likes me and she knows i like her, but when i tell her how i feel about her she says the most awkwards things like oh.. How should i react to her behavior? what should i do? Don't talk to her for a while maybe?


brandon g 7 years ago

i like this girl that i worked with and i kept asking her to the homecoming dance thinking she was not receiving my messages when one of my friends asked for me she seemed mad and i really want to go to the dance with her. what should i do


Mr.IDK 6 years ago

im in high school and i like this girl shes cute and i liked her for along time we don't talk much cus everytime im around her and her friends i freez up and not say anything i even freez when she alone i see other boys hug her but not me i need your help


need a gf 6 years ago

im a funny guy and i wnt a girlfrend.The problem is that im scared of her turning me down.Plus she is popular.so im also her friend kinda but she might also think im to funny and need to be serious sometimes


Robin 6 years ago

I need a gf there are so many girls that I like they r all my friends... Wat should I do...


king 6 years ago

hi there is this girl that i went out with 1 year ago but she dumped me the next day but i still a feeling for her but im afiad she will lurfe at me what do i do


??name?? 6 years ago

there is this girl i like but i think she likes someone else and if i ask her out and she says yes my friend will probably hate me. WHAT DO I DO????


carlos 6 years ago

i am always too shy


Andy 6 years ago

Hey I'm new to this school and I moved across the country and idk wut the problem is but I. Cant get any girls to like me and some of them just don't seem like my type where I came from I never had problems getting a girlfriend but now it's just so hard plz help


Thanks 6 years ago

Hi, I am a little chunky and there is a girl at school who really hates me and she is trying to make everyone hate me. So there is a girl I really like but she doesn't like me and she is starting to dislike me a little bit because of that other girl and I was wondering how I reverse that? Please help!


tyshaan 6 years ago

im fat and like these girls and have like five exes how do i get another girl


aceraptor 6 years ago

I like this girl but she doesent know me but she knows i like her what do i do and all my friends think im a stalker because the girl thinks i am


cool guy 6 years ago

hi, i like this girl but see she is dating my friend whell sorta but they always make fun of me and where friends but she doesn't now i like her wat do i do?


madhu 6 years ago

i sometime feel jelouse when my friends smooch their girlfriend in front of me so help me pls


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rebu 6 years ago from Coorg,India

Thnx for sharing:))


connor 6 years ago

ive liked this girl for sooooo long and she likes me but she dosent want to go out because we don't hang with the same crowd i feel like im chasing her and getting no were what do i do ?


james 6 years ago

hi im trying to get this girl at my school to like me i no she likes me as a friend but most of the time she barley notices i exist what should i do


bob 6 years ago

thanks for ever thing dude


andy b. 6 years ago

hey im 14 and just started highschool im not bad looking, fit,i play sports, and i make jokes a lot but i can be serious too NO girls like me i thought it might be different in highschool but its just more of the same what can i do to make some girls like me?


emmanuel 6 years ago

I like a girl but I asked her out and she said yes


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deancortez044 5 years ago from Las Vegas

Guys, what do you think is the number one study course out there for learning how to approach women? There are a lot of different seduction gurus offering products about approaching women and I want to find the best one. I don't just want to learn to approach women in bars and nightclubs, I also want to learn how to approach girls in the daytime. Does anyone have a suggestion for a really good book or program that explains this stuff, and gives you actual lines to say when you approach women?


edwin 5 years ago

i like a girl shes hispanic and i am to i say im medium good looking i have no classes with her but i am same grade

i tried telling her something but im to shy i had have rumors that she might like me to but i don't think there true tell me some tips please?


Jacob 5 years ago

all my friends have girlfreinds i don't and i was wondering how does a southern boy get a gf in Colorodo who has a whole different mind set on things


broseph 5 years ago

a couple years ago i used to be a ladies man, and now im having a tough time getting a gf. is it because my confidence is down? help me.


Scaredy-guy 5 years ago

There's this really hot brunnette in my social studies class and I really want to ask her out but I'm super nervous but I think I think I've fallen in love with her lately I've been blanking out, in weird dazes, and for the first time in my life I've been tired! I just can't stop thinking about her! she likes some other guy but he pays absolutely no attention to her. I'm really not too good looking and she has almost the same personality as me. She will talk to me every once in a while and I think she knows I like her. I don't know if she likes me and all of my friends have a girlfreind and I've been rejected three times before and I don't wanna go through the dissapointment again. All of my friends say she's a slut but I don't listen to them and I like her just the same. She is kinda hyper like me and she has problems concentrating. Please help asap!


Scardey-guy 5 years ago

Oh yeah and I just wanted to add I have ADHD so that's where the hyper problems come from


Soccerdude 5 years ago

Hey there is this girl at school that I really like but every time we have a conversation it turns out to be a bad one I need help please


dean 5 years ago

theres a girl who says she dnt want a bf how can i persuade her


Nikmo 5 years ago

Err I have a crush on a girl and she likes me two I know that beacause one of her friends asked are we together i said were just friends. Because she has a boyfriend.And she say i talk to her more than her boyfriend so, Is it ok to like her or not? because I liked two girls but the other wasn't worth it she was with the 'cool people' and the only way your cool is if you know enogh friends and act like your cool.


alpha 5 years ago

hi l'm guy of 23years old l need a girl friend of 18 years old


Ollie Rowe  5 years ago

What do you think I should do ask he out face to face or by email help


CC's GER 5 years ago

I have this classmate which I use to hate, I tease her an awful lot, but after a while, I fell for her, but I never stopped teasing her because I don't have any other way of talking with her, so please tell me, What's my next move supposed to be?


jean-luc 5 years ago

wow thanks man let me try to do this at school see what happens i know shes going to say no for good ness sacke i can never get a girl friend just because am brown and i only came to that school 3 years ago i don't know what to do


nani 5 years ago

hey im a guy who has never kissed a girl but i have had girlfriends. and im thinking of asking a girl out. but i don't know if she likes me. i had a friend ask her to see what she thought of me my friend said that she said i was a sweetheart what do i do


blake 5 years ago

I have not many friends (4) and haven't went out with anyone yet but the is one girl who i like but when ever i talk to her she walks off like all the other people i know ... i don't care if we don't go out i just really want to be friends with her what can i do? I REALLY NEED THIS please help me


michael 5 years ago

there is this girl that i like and im pretty sure she likes me too (considering i overheard her saying im cute) and ive tried asking her out through texting but she doesn't seem to like it and i dnt really have the guts to do it in person any suggestions


asoutosh 5 years ago

i like the girl but i did nt no she love me


MrTing 5 years ago

Im in the last year of highschool, I consider myself as above average looking and model built body, in the cOllege basketball team, Im definitely doing well on my academic side, have a lots of friends, a popular guy, had a couple of gf's before. I haven't have a relationship since, I don't particalurly like any girls and somehow I think I lost all my mojo to attract girls, maybe cause the modern society don't like Asian guys?? Need help...


Steve 5 years ago

I really really really like this girl at mi skool and every 1 likes but I like her 10 times mor. We are in yr 6 and I'm failing mi work and I can't stop thinking of her. We were ok friends till I told her how I feel and now she hasn't sed like 1 thing to me for the past six mOnths. I really like her I just want things to work out. I would love to be with her and it would basically sum up mi life. Even if someone could help me be good friends again with her that would help me a lot and I could take it from there. Some one plz help


TheAwesome 5 years ago

i want to ask this girl out but i don't know if she likes me too. she laughs at my jokes. is that it? yes it is. how do i get her?


Julian 4 years ago

I.am a good guy that is good looking with pretty eyes and a guy is heart is broken is there a girl that is single


Lonely Heart 4 years ago

I like a girl in my class and I don know what to do to get her is there another way to get a girl like impress here With cool stunts or singing?


sad clown24 4 years ago

There is this SMOKING hot girl at my school and Im really like her but I don't have any guts to ask her out,I don't think she likes me,but I want to find out,what should I do?


The Lonly 4 years ago

I need help... Theres a girl that i cant get my mind off. The only thing that's stopping me is the fact that every time i try to do something, i screw it up. Also i don't know if shes single or not and im scared that i might ask and find that shes taken, it could ruin my life. Someone please answer me.


Andy 4 years ago

There's this extremely pretty girl at my school that is pretty nice to me. However, I think she is into athletes, and I'm a little bit of a geek. I am intellectual, about average in attractiveness, somewhat funny, and nice to everyone, but I don't have much confidence. How should I ask her out?

By the way, I'm an artist...do girls find that attractive?


MJOMANI 4 years ago

HI GUY I HAVE NEVER HAVE A GIRL IN MY LIFE WHAT CAN I DO TO FIND A GIRL FRIEND


Asucon 4 years ago

I was friends with this girl and I asked her out and she said no,and we were really good friends. But then here sister and her friends started teasing me about it. It's fine but how can I get her to at least be my friend.

BTW she even erased all the emails we sent back and forth so there is this weird fell when she emails me back now

PLZ HELP


wesley hopper 4 years ago

i like this girl and i think she might like me too, but whenever i build up the courage to ask her out, i always look at those beautiful eyes and i'm not good looking and she one of the most populr girls at my school. wat should i do?


lonely 4 years ago

I have liked a girl for while now and she seems to like me but im not sure. we watched a movie and i was going to hold her hand but i didn't get the chance. when i bring up the topic about dating it gets awkward plz help!


Idk 4 years ago

Well there's a girl she Brock up with her boy friend about a month ago and when any boy talkes to her he freaks. The day after they broak up she was hitting on me and I like her a lot but were real good friends. I try to win her over by learning poetry and I wrote one and she loved it but forgot who wrote it btw Could you PPPPPPPPPPPPPPPLLLLLLLPLLSSSSSSSSSS RELPY IN NEED SOME ADVISE!


Snipez 4 years ago

im 12 and there is this girl that i like, but all my friends always make fun of e, but not in a way to make me feel bad' and she always thinks i take it serious, so she thinks im also a wimp. What can i do?


Roman Guzman 4 years ago

Hear is my problem i can talk to girls Farley well because i always have that awkward moment now how do i avoid that happening?


Master_nobody 4 years ago

Hey im freaking shy there is this girl in my class dat i really like but i cant get my head around asking her out. And i talk to her sometimes but im too nervous all the time... -_-


william 4 years ago

i know a fit girl called rachel johnson whos in year 7 im in year 6 she thinks im good looking if i go for a 50s afit white top and a leather jackit would se love me


billy 4 years ago

who ever gives a crap help me get my first kiss


Allison 4 years ago

Hi. My name's Allison and I'm commenting bc I think boys need to learn what to do FROM A GIRL. Girls love it when u half smile at them. But it only works if ur hott. Otherwise it just looks stupid. girls also get tired of waiting for a boy to ask them out and if it takes to long then they will start to lose interest. And if u only talk to a girls over fb or twitter or whatever, they get annoyed to. Don't think about aaking them out not face tp face. Girls hate it when they're bf didn't ask them out to they're face. I have one friend that started dating this one boy and she has been datimg him for a month a.nd they never even day hi. Stupid. Nand it just gives u a bad reputation. U want to be confident but not to confident. Also ngirls look past the looks and try to find out the kind of person u really are. So if ur a bitch andvhot u actually have less of a chance then somebody who is halfway decent looking and really nice. U would not beloeve how many times I jave talked to my friend and she had been stucck between a really hot xguy thays a bitch and a dorky kinda guy that is noce to everyone. She picked the nice guy. Andvif u have always been a bitch to one girl and then u think about asking her out...well think again. Girls hate it when boys are bitchea.s and girls have more sensitive feelings then sboys to. My lasy bf dumped me and I realized he had always been a biych. Alsome more advice:DO NOT MAKE THE GIRL ASK U OUT. and if u can't figure out if a girl likes u or not here are some signs. Her cheeks turn bright red doesn't count if ur in gym. And girlzs giggle wierdly. If the u catch abgirl staring at ubsmiling, then u should know she. Has a crush on u. One last OBVIUOS jway to know if a girl likes u is if she is treatong u diffwrenntly then other boys. And if u make the girl ask u out...well that's not good. Don't make ir friend ask her out for u either. Ig u do...I have one word for u....CHICKEN! al I'm sayingbis take a chance and ask her out to her face. If she has a bf though....STAY AWAY! It just geys awkward fot everybody. I thpt u mote want some advice on girls from a girl! :)p good luck boyys


Jake 4 years ago

Hi,Im 11 years old and I really need help.I liked a girl for 6 years!I really DO NOT have the guts to ask her out.Plus,Im going to 7th grade and she is too.I will be at another school and im going to get a phone soon so I might have a chance to contact her. But I think if i don't ask her face to face she will think im a wimp.Im in deep love here so I really need help!


sam 4 years ago

hi. im 12 and ther is this girl i like and i think she figured out i like her,a lot of other boys like her too, and shes a year older than me, i don't know her that well and mainly contact her over facebook,i asked my brother and he gave me tips on how to figure out if a girl likes u, using these tips i sumtimes get the idea that she mite like me and other times i don't, things like sumtimes wen i talk to her shes really active and wants to talk and is happy talkin to me, then other times she sounds bored and gives one word answers and stuff,im not sure if i shud be around her that much either, cuz the guys are older than me and don't like me at all, i wonder if i shud try and hang out with her more with my friends, but the other guys mite try and make a show of me in front of her, i feel locked down as if i cant do anthing about it, and im pretty sure shes the one,i know that sounds weird cus im 12 but i think she is the one, i duno what to do, its hard too be confident talkin to her in case i say sumtin i shouldn't of said, i duno what to do


Gabriel 4 years ago

hi my name is gabe im 16 theres this girl I like at my boxing gym and she said on my way out by hottie to me but now I don't know what to say to het I wanna talk to her cuz shes cute what do I do


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nara masry 4 years ago

hi, i asked a girl at my school to go out with because she realy looked like my previous girlfriend who traveled and stopped talking to me, so she said yes...but i was asking her for a month if she wants to go out with me,and she alwayes says yes then sayes she cant!!!!! the thing i hate that she is veryyyyy shie, i asked why she is shie but she answers by' i dont know' what to do?


timmy 4 years ago

im 9 years old and on monday at school im going to ask a girl to be my girlfriend what should i do with her because that stuff i read is probaly for teenagers


sam 4 years ago

im 11 and in class there that girl and she has been my girl friend forr 1 month then she broke up with me and i want he back really badly she knows i still love her but she doesn't wat should i do pleas help me


Tash 4 years ago

This girl once asked me if she is cute or beautiful or if she would like her but I don't know if she likes me


Dan 4 years ago

Ok i like this girl a ton,more than ive liked any girl or anyone/thing before. I got her number and im alright friends with her and her friends but she wont go out with me. I don't want to sound desperate but i love her so much. I texted her to ask her if she'd want to go somewhere after school or on a weekend and i told her that i'd pay for her and she could choose where we go. But then she texted me back flipping put on me because i had interupted her trying to do homework with my several texts. Now she hates me because i'm annoying. Maybe you could wright an article for redemption and for guys who screwed up already. If you do, Email me: d.freitas@live.com. Please i love this girl so much. I need anyones help so if someone else reads this, too, then please email me advice. I cant give up on her, she's too perfect.


walter jacob newsome age,9 4 years ago

see there is this girl at school and i think she is so HOT but im so shy cause when i asked a girl in first grade i had to suck it for the rest of the year how do i get up the guts to ask her if she likes me?


lewis 4 years ago

Hey, can someone help me. This girl I like knows that I have a crush on her and now she's avoiding me. What do I do?


Jordan 4 years ago

Hi, I am twelve years old and there is this girl that I like and we are really good friends. I can flirt with her in a way that dosnt make her feel uncomfortable. She has told me that I am her best "guy" Friend and she once even said I'm cute she shows signs that she likes me. Things like looking at me while playing her hair she laughs at almost all of the jokes I tell her and some I tell I don't even think ate funny but she stil laughs at them and she teases me in a humorus way. But every time I ask her if she would go out with me she says " I think it will ruin my Friend ship" now it's true I am only twelve but I really like this girl and I would do anything to be with her. I would really appreciate advice thanks.


rahul_bhavsar3@yahoo.com 4 years ago

Im 22 year old guy, i like a girl in my class, i had sent her friend request on facebook she accepted it. for few day we usaully liked to chat on general topic, because she is a igoistic girl, on a certain topic i got mess with her on chat. Then i've removed her from my FB account. But i like her i want her back , she is so igoistic therefore i don't know what should i do? Help me.

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