How do you deal with your past decisions you aren't happy with?
Your past helps to form who you are. Bad or good, your past and everyone in it has a purpose. Besides that the judgement of good or bad is a human thing. People are more concerned about the judgement of others, which in the grand scheme of things does not matter.
If you are more aware of yourself, learned something, or can use it to help others was it really bad. You deal with it by channeling it into something better.
Thank you moms-secret, I think my problem is not being able to let go of my past decisions. I have moved forward and my life has been moving forward in many aspects but my emotions have been getting in the way. I find myself thinking about too much.
By saying, "oh well" and trying to make better decisions now. It's best not to focus on past decisions because they are just that, in the past.
Yesterday is history and tomorrow is a mystery.
Having said that I believe all you can do about the past is (learn) from it.
I find a way to accept whatever happened and learn from my mistakes that way I can work on making my future better.
The only way to deal with them is wake up and be guilty of what you did. Should make all the losses gain able and be sorry for each and every thing you did you were not supposed to.
Techap. Feeling guilty for everything I did? Not exactly helpful. The things I did weren't things I wasn't supposed to do. They were just decisions I ended up regretting.
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