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Ladies, do you prefer dating polite men who are somewhat "old-school" or do you prefer a challenge?


I get a plethora of comments (on one of my hubs) from men who say that being a gentleman doesn't work, and that he has to "play games" and be a jerk to get women. So....is the nice guy doomed? Be honest. Guys can chime in with their experiences too.

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Best Answer Grace Marguerite Williams (gmwilliams) says

10 months ago
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    savvydating 10 months ago

    Unfortunately, some women do feel that way. I presume they are either "still growing" or they don't think much of themselves. As for Denzel, he's my man!!! A true gentleman. Thanks, Grace!


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Michaela (Michaela Osiecki) says

10 months ago
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peachy (peachpurple) says

10 months ago
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    savvydating 10 months ago

    Me too, peach purple. I like them shy or friendly, as long as they treat me respectfully.

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Kawai (Happylovejoy) says

10 months ago
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    savvydating 10 months ago

    I appreciate your honesty, Kawai. A man can be "virile" and a gentleman. It doesn't have to be one way or the other.

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John Hansen (Jodah) says

10 months ago
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    savvydating 10 months ago

    I agree, Jodah. A woman who is a lady really isn't attracted to a man who acts badly. Personally, I am immediately turned off by men like that. Dating them is not an option for me. Thanks for commenting!

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