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Sometimes some men say they prefer slim ladies to fat ones for date....is that s

  1. sir_tallest profile image64
    sir_tallestposted 7 years ago

    Sometimes some men say they prefer slim ladies to fat ones for date....is that suppose to be a...

    factor of relationship

  2. Lisa HW profile image73
    Lisa HWposted 7 years ago

    If a guy happens to find slender women attractive, rather than heavier ones, then it isn't a matter of whether it's "supposed to be that way in a relationship".  It is what it is, and people (men or women) need to be attracted to the person before they get into a romantic relationship. 

    It' a big mistake for a guy to think that's the ONLY important factor in considering getting into a relationship with someone; because there are a lot of people of all weights with rotten personalities.  Still, people are attracted to one set or traits or another; so I think that's a reasonable "prerequisite".  Might the guy miss out on dating a really, really, nice and/or smart person because she's heavy and he isn't attracted to her?  Sure.  Still, if he's not attracted to her that wouldn't make much of a romantic relationship (and if they dated they'd both probably end up unhappy).  Some men, more than others, care about one kind of build or another.  They can't help what they prefer.  (Neither can some women.)

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      msnash03posted 4 years agoin reply to this

      I think one of the reason men are attracted to slim women is because of  television. Skinny women are always being advertised.(IE) If you look at ads for dating how many say anything about a woman's personality.

  3. MickS profile image73
    MickSposted 7 years ago

    Yep, there's someone for everyone, some men prefer fat women, it's the way of the world.

  4. xixi12 profile image71
    xixi12posted 7 years ago

    Well said mick, its the way of  the world. One mans meat is another ones poison

  5. padmendra profile image48
    padmendraposted 7 years ago

    Women with slim body structure get preference in the  relationship as compared to fat ones. We have seen women spending lot of money for fat loss and making their body slim and beautiful. The trend is on the rise every where and fat ones look with envy on  the slim figures.

  6. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    Each of us gets to choose what we want and need in a partner.
    It doesn't matter what others tell you to look for.
    It's YOUR life and life is a personal journey.