Well you can't fall in love and have a happy relationship if you aren't happy alone and love yourself completely. People end up desperate for a significant other, but in my opinion, this ruins relationships. Both parties involved need to be able to love themselves before they can love another and truly enjoy and feel the benefits of a loving rleationship
Love is a very personal thing. We don't all have the same definition of what love is. It doesn't mean the same thing to everybody and it's not expressed the same way by everyone. To some people love means raging passion, to others it is shared comfortable quiet moments. I absolutely believe habee when she says she has fallen in love often and too easily. I do it all the time myself.
of course...I love my life and my-self. I need a man who love me and love my life...me too. There are many colors in love..it is very broken-heart if you let your lover go...but it is more terrible if you make every effort to preserve him...haiizaaa!
Sweetheart its okay to be alone for as long as you need to, You do not need anyone if you want to feel blue allow it to flow to happen.
People try to put on us a TIME frame in which to be ready for things, Life does not work that way not at all, Allow yourself to feel whatever the heck you need to right now.
Men can come and go but we have ourselves GUARANTEED for life, and who says being blue is a SIN? No its a part of YOU as much as happiness is when that comes, That is the thing we fall for this IDEAL happiness deal from the media etc and it is NOT relativity all all but an illusion.
We are a mixture of emotions and being happy is NOT the only acceptable one to have no matter who says otherwise!
Stop 'trying' to fall in love or be in a relationship. And if you really would rather be at home feeling blue, there is no one that can better decide that than you. And I know because of this life I have gone through tells me that my lessons of experience ring true.
Our story is very similar to yours--I was 29, we married two months after we met, had a son 9 months after that(I already had two other children)...and are going on 23 wonderful years together this year!
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