awesome question that gives much food for thought. My plate is too full. Living for me has been an experience, which I will attempt to share here at hubpages.
I know it may seem colloquial, but living in the "now." Yet we bounced between the past and the future so much we at times misplace the now. Or, we make plans busying ourselves for the expectation while referencing our past to gain the most from experience. Then the real moment of now passes by so swiftly we didn't see the wonder of flight by the crow outside the window while typing this. I'm lost in your question - LOL.
Now, open to awareness comes into play , , , ,on and on, I guess that saying from complexity comes simplicity should step in about here , , ,remember to have fun, fun, fun , , ,