Dreams are to the mind, what boxes are when they are stored in a closet. So many things contained for so long, but as soon as you open one of those boxes, all those memories come right back to you.
The immediate answer would be: "Because they were not good parents". However, it is usually more complicated than that..It has to do with character and genes, and sometimes even with unsolved issues.
Diverticulitis can kill you if not treated on time. Be aware of those chronic stomach aches, because it might not be only gas...
Are you being bullied by your home owners association? What they can and they cannot do will surprise you! Do your homework according to your state laws, and fight back!