Robert Lee (R Pseudomen)

I've lived it, done it and seen it done to others.

If I can't answer your questions it's because there is a better answer elsewhere or the answer is all ready in front of you, you just can't see it yet.

Born in the last millenium, R has managed to create quite a niche audience with several dating advice web sites.

Life does have meaning, there are events that are beyond our direct control, the only people we need to be responsible to is ourself and the ones we love.

2022 is becoming an awesome year.

I am a fighter and refuse to back down from life's challenges. I've been thrown some curves, we all have, but I refuse to give in to heartbreak or illness.

Fight with me, we can both use the support!

I want to thank the more than 500,000 readers of my articles and the thousand + that have commented on them and asked for advice about the topic at hand.

In the Spotlight

How To Tell A Girl You Like Her

I am asked this question a couple of dozen times a week. And I do have the answer! Every guy, every single guy, has fears of being rejected by a girl he likes. You want to get closer, kiss a little, become boyfriend-girlfriend, but how do you...

In the Spotlight

Friends With Benefits Advice

Now, I'm not going to tell you that guys are "relationship adverse". There's no sense in stating the obvious. The real question is, if the guy is so into you, why does he just want to jump into bed with you instead of doing the whole dating thing?...

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Is Being "Too Nice" Ruining Your Life?

We all live in the within a certain frame of expectations of ourselves and others. Whether that frame that surrounds the incidents in our life is right or wrong generally it leads us to the conclusions or answers as to why things happen to us. But...

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The Best Online Dating Tip In The World

I'm often asked how someone can improve their online dating success. How they can get more responses to their profile. Why that, even though they've tried more than a few online services over the past couple of months, they aren't getting any...

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Trust Is Earned

Trusting someone is no small feat, just ask anyone who's trust in someone has been betrayed.

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  Relationship Problems & Advice

  Why is my girlfriend being nice to me?

  9 months ago

  5 reasons why your girlfriend is suddenly being nice to you. Some of them are good, some of them are bad but with a little work you can save your relationship.

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  Friendship

  Is Being "Too Nice" Ruining Your Life?

  10 months ago

  We all live in the within a certain frame of expectations of ourselves and others. Whether that frame that surrounds the incidents in our life is right or wrong generally it leads us to the conclusions or answers as to why things happen to us. But...

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  From Friendship to Relationship

  Friends With Benefits Advice

  9 months ago

  Now, I'm not going to tell you that guys are "relationship adverse". There's no sense in stating the obvious. The real question is, if the guy is so into you, why does he just want to jump into bed with you instead of doing the whole dating thing?...

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  Starting a New Relationship

  The Woman, The Whip and the Wimpy Man

  10 months ago

  Let's start off with the obvious, so we don't have to come back to it. Guys want three things from women to make them happy: sex, more sex and being a woman's hero, in that order. Women want companionship, comfort and love, in any order that...

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  Dating Inspiration

  You Need To Stop Texting... Now!

  10 months ago

  Guys, for the most part, want a girl to put them in their place, to challenge them, and, of course, love them. They just don't know this, so they try to be the boss of you, complete with their own misunderstandings of how a relationship should work....

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  Gender and Relationships

  Are Women Afraid of Rejection From a Man?

  10 months ago

  Let's start off with a true fact: "We are all afraid of rejection. As a species, humans, generally speaking, are social creatures that thrive on positive attention, societal approval and individual love". As a balance to understand the fears of...

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  Singles Life

  Why Can't I Get A Girlfriend?

  10 months ago

  There are only two things that a guy needs to have to get a girlfriend. Without these "keys" no guy gets a girl worth having. Ever.

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  Dating & Online Dating

  The Best Online Dating Tip In The World

  9 months ago

  I'm often asked how someone can improve their online dating success. How they can get more responses to their profile. Why that, even though they've tried more than a few online services over the past couple of months, they aren't getting any...

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  Dating & Online Dating

  Five Signs She's Going To Say Yes

  15 years ago

  Five signs that when you’re talking to her in person she will say yes when you ask her for a date.