Making yourself happy is a choice.
What I have done is learn to live within my means. I don't use credit and I live the way I can afford and love it. Less credit stress.
I also make the most of my home life. I accept my fiance the way he is and stop dreaming of the perfect man. I chose to see all the positives and beauty in him and I fell in love with him all over again. I am still falling in love with him every day.
We talk about everything and not quarrel. We play a lot. If we spend 24 hrs together, 20 of those hrs are fun with touching, romping and teasing.
Don't know if these will work for every body but I know most of life is financial and relationship stress so I eliminate those stresses..