well if you ask me, anyone who treats you like that, doesn't deserve your love or sympathy. this is probably one of the main reasons why I don't get along with most people. most people tend to not care about what i think, so i tend not to care about what they think either. my thoughts are, you should only care about the people that love you cw, and not about the folks that only want to take advantage of you. i understand they're still family, but that's still no excuse as far as im concerned.