Have you ever felt that you have to/want to look after someone even if she doesn't require/need it, or even if you were unable to do it. I feel this to the point that I actually annoy her. Is this a common feeling, and how could I get rid of it?
Unfortunately, finding someone else won't fix the problem. You seem to have a need for expectance by being overbearing. She will probably find it a huge turn off, dude. You've got to realize that she wants an equal, not a guardian. She will respect you as a person if you do the same for her.