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Speaking The Language Of Unconditional Love
The Quest For Unconditional Love
The quest for unconditional love surpasses even the quest for the Holy Grail, From the beginning of time, from the first breath taken, this is what all of mankind seeks. Infants and toddlers give it without realizing, but soon, very early on the quest to have their own love to be fulfilled begins.
The quest for acceptance, for praise, for worthiness, for unconditional love. We are all now seeking the one thing more seemingly elusive than all myths and legends combined together. We seek from parents, siblings, teachers, classmates, co-workers, friends, associates and companions, still seemingly elusive. For many along the way the quest is ended as a determination it is only a myth, there is no reality to unconditional love. Settling begins, compromises, false finds, we sometimes believe we have found it in places no love exists at all.
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It shines brightly, new love, new success, it seems to be the end of the quest. Like this wide variety of light bulbs, it burns out, has to be replaced. The light stops working when we seem to need it the most. We keep a supply on hand, but is it the right one? This is not unconditional, what if the power goes out? So many variables, how can we be sure?
The face of the myths are very familiar to all of us. Why do you love me? What do you love about me? What does love look like to you? The rules, the different forms, the things to learn. What if the reason for love goes out, like the power. What if the reason for love burns out like the light bulb. Is unconditional love just an unlimited supply of light bulbs with a unique design, shape and size for each of us?
Love Is An Unconditional Link
The Elusive Quest Ends Here
Can it be real? It does really exist? What would we really do with the Holy Grail if we were to find it? What do we do, how do we act, who are we with unconditional love? If you are really ready to find unconditional love, if you know what you would do with your Holy Grail, keep reading.
Love is Unconditional For All
Unconditional love lies within, just one choice away from arriving...yes, it is a choice. Like the sun, it is always there, it shines on everyone unconditionally. Yes, we may say that sometimes the sun is obscured by clouds and unseen during nightfall. The sun is never gone however, it is always waiting for the next moment to share its light, energy and warmth with all who are willing to embrace it. Sitting in a darkened room does not make it go away, Lack of acknowledgement does not lessen its energy, the love still exists with the same consistent intensity, for everyone equally and unconditionally. Flowers bloom for all equally and unconditionally, their beauty, fragrance is there we need only embrace it. Yes, the blooms do not last forever, but they return and reseed and grow more of its own kind. Seen or unseen, in bloom or dormant the flower is unconditionally available for all..
Make the choice, remove the false limitations, look inside, let it bloom, let it shine, it has always been there and will always remain, it is constant and unconditional, it is real. Choose To Love Unconditionally. Start with yourself, giving is receiving, give to yourself, receive from yourself, give to others, receive from yourself......and maybe even others as they learn they have a choice. Share the choice, the only contingents are the ones we create, erase them, remove them, raise the blinds and let the sunshine in.
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Speaking The Language Of Unconditional Love
How do we talk the talk, How do we walk the walk? Now that the choice has been made and the realization that the quest has been found and the excitement dies down, we have to figure out what to do with our Holy Grail. We have shown it to everyone, they know it is found, but now it is just a thing. The shine isn't as bright as we had hoped, it isn't as exciting as the quest. Now we have to care for our Holy Grail, maintain it, cultivate it, grow it and share it.
Remove the labels, remove the explanations and justifications. Love Just Is! We can continue to dislike avoid and correct certain behaviors associated with ourselves and others. Love is separate, it just is. Love is an emotion that flows true and uninhibited, it's source always known, complete and dependable. Love not only endures all things, it supersedes all things. A cloud cover may pass, but the sun is still there.
In the language of unconditional love, the only why is because we choose it. There are no ifs or buts, no maybes or contingents. Mo matter what we choose to love. Love is not condoning, it is not behavioral based, once again, it just is. Love is love; everything else is everything else. To speak the language of unconditional love, we must divide the land from the waters. They are not the same thing, they are two separate elements and must be distinguished one from another. Speak the language of unconditional love, let it flow like the waters. The land is a different subject, although water and land touch, intermingle and are connected, they are not the same thing. in the language of unconditional love the waters care not what the land does, it flows irregardless of anything and goes where it may. Unleash the waters of your unconditional love. Choose it, let it flow, speak a new language of energy, give to yourself first, then share.
My Own Unconditional Love Statement
I choose to love indiscriminately and completely. I choose to love myself because I choose it. I am loved because I accept it. I am love by choice. No matter where I go or what I do, love is my constant companion, clouds may obscure it from me, but I know it is still there. I love the being, the doing is separate. I love all beings, their actions are not connected to my love, they are separate. My love can flow through the actions and create new possibilities. My love is constant like the energy from the sun, the warmth, the light is always present. I give my love freely as it cannot be contained, it is unlimited and unconditional.
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