You need spread "positive" thinking through your mind/body and engulf your essence with a unique energy....starting a powerful disease that's enough to over ride whatever you or your loved one is currently overwhelmed and stricken with. Self preservation! Any outside force you haven't welcomed or have an interest in entertaining need be dealt with accordingly! You can apply this to your loved one by embodying your life with this type of thinking so that you can spread a energetic disease via your intention. This isn't a for the hour, week or month thing just so you can get what you want. Don't believe the hype that just because you need for it to work for you for whatever selfish reason it will be readily available because you are going through the motions and vying for an oscar and award. Don't make the mistake in thinking that every and anything "Is Game".