We would talk about it first and then come up with the right way to handle it. I cannot imagine a scenario where I would give them over to the police. I would maybe take them downtown and turn them over to a judge. But that would have to be a joint decision weighing the options and consequences of our available choices. I am sure we would have to get some kind of handle on any victim. I care less about the law than making things right with anyone harmed.
Sometimes I wish I could just be a black and white kind of guy. But I just can't see things that way, like others. I just counted up the years between my children. Nearly one hundred years and they have to date never made me come close to having to make such a decision. knock on wood.