Help me. Im in a deep hole and I can't get out. My mom and I have grown very muc

  1. profile image51
    Bunnybonanzaposted 7 years ago

    Help me. Im in a deep hole and I can't get out. My mom and I have grown very much apart......

    she doesn't understand me at all, and I try to do exactly what she asks me but she just gets mad and yells at me. This has been going on for a while, I mean all we do is fight. I want it to stop because I hate feeling depressed but I just don't know what to do.

  2. dianne143 profile image40
    dianne143posted 7 years ago

    its hard to trace how and why you and your mother end up like that way it could be the ff:

    -how old is your mom? when she is older  she may have menopausal stage because of her mood swings and you have to understand it.

    -is she a working mom? she may be tired and we all know when people are so tired it can lead to 2 ways either they rest and sleep or they are so very sensitive and gets easily mad.

    - is she having problem that she only kept from herself? or maybe when she feels something wrong she easily get mad so she can let out her inner feelings.

    - do you follow your mom's rules? sometimes mother's gets angry when we do things which is different according to what they want.

    - you are are hard she gets mad

    a lot of factors can affect in what way your mom don't understand  you?

    ** the best thing that you will do is that as a son/ daughter you obey her. And when she gets mad and yells at you try not to answer her back because that will lead to fight all you have to do is to shut up and let her talk don't let your self go to the flow of angry emotions if you get what I mean. No matter what  your mom tells you, you have no right to answer her back you have to respect her, if you want to  explain your side then make it to the point that your voice in a low  and calm manner.

    just listen to what she said and let it out to your ears when you think the silence is in both of you talk to her in heart to heart explain your side and listen to her by that you will both know what you will do next time it happens. and if you think its your fault and not your fault but you fight and answer her back always say SORRY and hug her if you are used to it and I know your mom will be fine to it.

    every problems are easy to solve if you lead it into calm and good talk. it is better to talk the problem nicely than to yell, fight and gets mad.

    and please don't hate your mom to it, you know mothers knows best and we should love them the way they love us. being a mother is a very hard task its a lifetime task and they give us unconditional love. when you feel and tell your self that your mom doesn't love you no don't think all mothers loves their kids. if your mom is like that, she only mean that she wants what is the best for you. hope you and your mom will be ok. God bless


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)