Premarital Sex in Relationships?
I've been with my boyfriend for nine months. We've been long-distance (2 hours apart because of school) for our entire relationship. Four months ago we decided to become intimate. I love him more than I thought I could love and I feel no regret about being with him, but after getting a prescription for birth control and dealing with the stress of keeping the secret from my parents, I'm questioning the consequences of it on my relationship. If you've had premarital sex in a long-term relationship how did it effect your relationship and what is your opinion on it?
personally i wouldn't stay with a woman if she wanted to wait till we were married to have sex. depending on your age, what you look for in a partner and how experienced you are, sex is awesome and it can bring closeness into a relationship.
I had sex with 3 of my long-term boyfriends. Two of those relationships failed (obviously, or there wouldn't be 3). The first was in high school, I was 17, young, and still very naive and did not know then what I know now.
The second was my first boyfriend in college. We were together a year. But we had sex after the first month. Then after a few months, the sex suddenly stopped because he felt guilty (religion had a major effect on this). After that, our relationship slowly went downhill until it finally crashed and he and I are no longer in contact and have nothing nice to say about each other.
I am currently with the third, and we too started having sex after the first month. It has been a year and three months since we've been together and we are expecting a baby this summer. We have been having some difficulties lately, but we are in the process of working them out and working through them so that we can be a family.
My opinion on the matter is, in the long run, it is better to wait until after you're married. But, these days, there really is no stopping it, so I cannot judge anyone for choosing not to wait, especially since I chose not to wait, too. That being said, I also believe that sex CAN be beneficial in a relationship. It is just a level of intimacy that a couple has to judge for themselves and decide what is right for them.
by daug chibuye 4 years ago
Why is it forbidden to have sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend??
by vwealth 7 years ago
Is sex a necessity in premarital relationship? If yes or no, please let me know why.
by ucuzoma 7 years ago
I am 20 year old, shy and afraid of getting into relationship with any girl especially because...of premarital sex. I need your suggestions
by kgoergen 3 years ago
Is premarital sex okay? Why does the bible say otherwise?
by Chiradeep Patra 3 years ago
Pre-marital sex or waiting till marriage?How important it is to stay untouched till marriage? Is pre-marital sex safe, in regards to physical, mental & spiritual health of any human being? Your opinions and expertise value a lot
by BrittanyFaye92 7 years ago
Should a mother punish her 17 year old daughter for having sex with her boyfriend?The teens have been on and off for two years and now they are really serious about their relationship
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