Stay in school and go to college. The single biggest way you can keep yourself down is to not get an education. Not having an education severely limits your choices in life.
Don't get involve with boy girl relationship until h/she finish the compulsory education. In malaysia, secondary 6 ( 18 years old) . Never get in involve with sex. Work hard for his/her own future. Be responsible for his/her own action. Don't expect parents to settle the messy problems he/she created. Value life.
Know that you can do anything you want in life, have anything you want, be anyone you want to...but YOU have to take full responsibility for everything - no excuses, no blaming others or the system, no blaming your upbringing or environment.
And remember - there is no hurry, you have years and years, you don't get older in your head or heart, there are no rules and no limitations. Do things YOUR way, and don't listen to anyone who would hold you back - they're just afraid of you proving them wrong.
You are at the beginning of a fantastic journey - your life as an independent adult...go for it!
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