Do you believe that every mother who is physically able to should breastfeed?

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   Stina Caxeposted 11 years ago

   Do you believe that every mother who is physically able to should breastfeed?

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   peeplesposted 11 years ago

   Yes! There are far too many benefits to both child and mother not to unless there is a medical reason. Here in the USA we have free lactation consultants in every city for the people who can't afford them so that if they struggle they can get help. The benefits are just too much to miss out on.

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      Stina Caxeposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      The lactation consultants definitely did everything they could to help me, unfortunately I couldn't do it.  I gave it a month each time and then I gave up even though the lactation consultants insisted I keep trying.

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   MickSposted 11 years ago

   Yes.......................................................................

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      Stina Caxeposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I think all mothers should at least consider it, but if they can't or choose not to they shouldn't be looked down on.  I wasn't physically able to do it and the father of my kids was so angry with me for it.

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   duffsmomposted 11 years ago

   I think it is a personal choice. It is certainly best for the child. I had one daughter who was breast fed for a very long time.  My second child had some minor problems at birth, remaining in the hospital when I went home so she was not able to breast feed.  Both girls are grown and healthy.
   
   I think we have reached an age when formulas contain the necessary nutrients for the child's physical health.  Personally I am really glad to have had that experience with my oldest daughter, but I wouldn't judge one who chooses not to breastfeed.

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      Stina Caxeposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I agree.  I wasn't able to with either of my children but I did try for over a month each time.  The lactation consultants in the hospital tried everything to help me but it never worked.  I wish I had been able to experience that.

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   peachpurpleposted 11 years ago

   depending on the size of the breast! My breast is equally the size of my small rice bowl. So you could just imagine how small are my breast! When i was pregnant, the breasts were fuller and i was thankful that i could breastfeed my 1st child for a day. She was happy sucking. Unfortunately, i could press any milk out on the 2nd day and had to depend on powder milk to feed her. If you have a pair of breast that 3x bigger than mine, of course you should breastfeed your baby.

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      Stina Caxeposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I didn't realize size had anything to do with it.  Interesting.

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   DanaMarie411posted 11 years ago

   I dont' think so. I think breastfeeding is a choice. I personally breastfed but I don't think it's necessary. I understand the importance of breastfeeding, I did it. However, I don't think it's a bad thing if a mother chooses not to.

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      Stina Caxeposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Good point.  It really is best but I don't think there is a reason to look down on a woman who cant or wont.  Formula is also full of nutrients.  My kids both got formula and they are fine.

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   Justsilvieposted 11 years ago

   I don't think any woman should be forced to do something she is not comfortable with, but I do think breast feeding gives you baby and excellent and healthy start in life and I would encourage any expecting mother to educate herself completely on the subject. There are so many pluses for both mom and baby.

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      Stina Caxeposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Good point.  I never wanted to do it but once I had my babies I wanted to at least try give them the best nutrition that I could.  It didn't work for me unfortunately.

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   Moon Daisyposted 11 years ago

   A woman should try to breastfeed if they believe that it's best for their baby (I do), but also if they believe it is best for them. 
   
   There's little point doing it and resenting it or being unhappy about it.  If you do you probably won't be doing it for very long, as you won't give it your best and your baby might also pick up on your resentment and negativity.  (Although even doing it for a short time is better for baby than not trying at all.  The initial colostrum is great for a newborn, and the longer you can happily feed, the better).

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      Stina Caxeposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      My first baby had to stay at the hospital for 6 months.  I had to go home and try pump every 2 hours.  After a month of not getting anything I gave up deciding I needed my sleep and less stress so I could be strong for my daughter.

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   LoisRyan13903posted 11 years ago

   It is a matter choice and some may not be able to.  There are some women who are uncomfortable doing it.  But they use a breast pump to put their milk in a bottle

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    mitowriteposted 11 years ago

    It's a personal choice. They don't have to if they don't want to or are unable to. As long as they don't let their child starve or suffer from lack of nutrients, do whatever.

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    TheDatingMomposted 11 years ago

    No, absolutely not.  It's a personal decision each woman must make for herself.  No matter what a mother chooses, the important thing is that her choice is respected by others.

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