Please define The PERFECT relationship???

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   LifeNannyposted 14 years ago

   Please define The PERFECT relationship???

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   OhKathrynposted 14 years ago

   Well there is the cliché version of what a "perfect" relationship should be, where you both want the same thing, there is no fighting, no arguing, you agree on everything, it's pretty much cookie cutter, this is not reality. People say there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, however I agree to disagree. I think a relationship can be perfect on your own terms, like what your looking for, your wants and needs, if your satisfied and you think it's perfect, than it is for you. For example, my boyfriend and I fight almost every other day over the silliest things but makeup within an hour, he's sweet but yet can be the biggest a-hole, but I love everything about him and I couldn't be any happier, to me it's perfect and I wouldn't want to change it.

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   Kathy Tposted 14 years ago

   A perfect relationship, would be two people who respected each other for who they truly are, not for what they want them to become.

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   Jeffrey Nealposted 14 years ago

   The "perfect" relationship gives to both and takes from neither.

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   reeltaulkposted 14 years ago

   Understanding, patience, consideration and Respect coming from both parties!!!  Everything that happens once that exist is unimaginable1  ciao
   
   Vonda G. Nelson

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   duffsmomposted 13 years ago

   The perfect relationship would be when both people feel fulfilled and loved--and heard.  We want our partners to hear us and respect our wants and needs.  And, of course, that has to move both ways.

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   Justsilvieposted 13 years ago

   The combination of love, trust and communication.

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   Erin LeFeyposted 13 years ago

   Both people in the relationship feeling truly fulfilled, happy and loved. Knowing that they can't fulfill every need the other has, but knowing that they fulfill the most important one - to be loved without question, under any circumstance that life my throw at the two of you and resting safely in the surety of one another's love. Being each other's cheerleader and biggest fan. Never making your partner feel less than who they are.
   
   I think the mistake people sometimes make is forgetting that in the complexity of the most important relationship of your life, with so many things pushing and pulling at you from so many different directions - never ever forget that you aren't machines - you are people with wants and needs and this includes keeping things interesting, growing constantly and most of all FUN! No one likes to feel they have stopped growing or are forced into a box. Life is a miracle at any age, and love that survives and continues to bloom is a blessing. The perfect relationship is one that acknowledges the gift of another soul who chooses to spend life with you every single day - and that goes for each side. Life happens...and we go along with it. Live consciously. Kubiando and Namaste! Erin
   
   Your relationship doesn't have to be perfect in anyone else's eyes - you don't need approval from anyone - there are only two people involved. you and your mate. If we are happy and think we have the perfect relationship - its perfect, for us.

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