I am extremely hard on myself. That is how I have been able to rise to the top of what ever challenges I face. I don't need to punish myself for when ever I am in a situation where I feel I have been inadequate my body will react making me feel embarrassed, hot and an uncomfortable heavy feeling. I hate this feeling so I strive always to avoid it or better myself.
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