Coping with Anxiety: 7 Tips for Anxiety and Panic Anxiety Relief

First off, I'm not a doctor; however, I do suffer from anxiety, panic attacks, and depression. And although I can't say I'm anxiety free, I've learned to understand it and not fear it. If you're trapped within the prison of your own fear, I believe I can help you regain control of your life, so long as you are willing to listen (or in this case read). :)

So, let me begin by explaining my definition of anxiety, or more specifically, panic attack anxiety. I'm starting here because panic anxiety is usually the worst case scenario for most people. To me, anxiety is the fear of fear. I will anticipate or think something drastically horrific is about to transpire and before I know it an anxiety attack emerges. Once the panic is there, it’s extremely difficult to "snap" myself out of it, especially if somebody is with me. It's even worse if I feel like there is no escape (for example: if I'm trapped within a massive crowd). I often hide it and keep the feelings to myself. The mindset is, "if I don't think about it then it will go away." Unfortunately it makes it worse, creating a domino effect of highs and then lows. By highs, I'm referring to extreme anxiety. And by lows I mean I sink into a depression, drained of energy and sapped of emotion. This, in turn, creates more anxiety. It's a continuous cycle of anxiety and depression that can last for days or even weeks.

Do you experience some or all of this? Does your anxiety feel like a constant cycle of crap? If so, how do we prevent it? What can we do?

I think the best course of action is… action. Don’t sit back and hope it will never come. Don’t wait for it and then react or try to suppress it. By then it’s too late.

The 7 Essentials

- Reflection

- Meditation

- The Big Three: Sleeping, Exercise, and Food

- Focus

- Setting Goals and Positivity

The first two topics I will cover are reflection and meditation. They work hand in hand. I implore you to try what I like to call the 30 for 30. Meaning, reflect and meditate for at least 30 minutes a day for 30 days.

#1. Reflection

For reflection, go someplace quiet and then close your eyes. Reflect on the day or something in the recent past. Try to recall the times you were anxious, even the baby ones. Ask yourself, what you were feeling and why you felt that way. Really think about it. It’ll suck and probably cause some anxiety in the process, but it’ll be well worth it in the end.

#2. Meditation

Once you reflect on it, then it's time to meditate. Do it methodically. Analyze every part of your thinking process. Gather all the evidence that you have at your disposal, be it in research or in therapy. Then really look into yourself. Dig deep.

Ask yourself, what is it that makes you feel anxious? You may not get an answer. In fact, you probably won’t get one, at least not right away. Even if you don't, continue to do it everyday.

If anything, you'll feel better. Your mind will feel relaxed and much of your current anxiety will be diminished. I promise.

What are the benefits of meditation and reflection? How will this help your anxiety?

One: It actually relieves anxiety. If you're feeling anxious beforehand, meditation will help bring you anxiety relief. Do it. You'll feel better.

Two: It will be every single day. You’ll force yourself to engage and understand more about you. Once it’s trained, your brain will search for it automatically and you'll be one step closer to finding the answers you need.

Three: It’ll teach you to relax. You need to relearn how to be calm and be okay with how your body responds both when you’re anxious and when you are not. This way when an anxiety attack comes springing forward, you won't be overwhelmed by fear. Granted it'll still be extremely uncomfortable and it will suck royally, but at least you'll be able to cope with the anxiety.

Four: Meditation will help you understand fear. Fear is an emotion just like happiness, sadness, grumpiness, anger, etc. Ask yourself this: Do you fear grumpiness? Are you scared to be happy? You probably don't or you shouldn't. Meditation will give you better insight. You will begin to understand that fear is a tool in your arsenal and not some inner demon trying to cripple you.

Five: You’ll brain dump all that crap you’ve been holding on to all day or all night depending on when you meditate. If you meditate at night, then it will help you sleep. And if you do it early in the morning, than it'll help jumpstart your day. If you can, try to mediate both in the morning and at night. The more you do it, the better.

I feel relaxation and meditation are the pillars to the healing process not just in matters dealing with anxiety or stress but also overall health. If you skip this step, then the rest of the anxiety relief methods will only partially help.

Remember:

- Try to do the 30 for 30: 30 minutes everyday for 30 days

- Relax and Reflect. Get in a relaxed state and reflect on your troubles, most importantly, your anxieties.

- Meditate. Analyze your feelings. Really dig deep and ask yourself why? Ask questions like: What makes you feel that way? Why are you scared?

- Persistence. Even if you don't get an answer continue to reflect and meditate. It'll come in time.

And please, if you suffer from anxiety and you wish to add to my little spiel or just speak your mind, then feel free to comment below.

Now onto steps 3-5 in my follow up article: The Big Three