Determining Whether Kids Can Attend Funerals

  1. talfonso profile image82
    talfonsoposted 5 years ago

    I attended my first funeral at age 12. it was my grandfather's, and it took place in the funeral home. I behaved like an angel, but age didn't play a role in it. My then 6-year-old also behaved as well, maybe because her parents told her what was expected. We were both prepared for such an emotionally stressful event.

    I was prepared for that even before my grandfather got stricken with colon cancer and died of it. I was a weird kid - reading books on death and dying before 10. It drove my bus aides and teachers batty because they think I was reading somber material on bright sunny days. But it provided me a huge benefit - it conditioned me well for funeral attendance.

    That's one of the reasons why age doesn't matter in terms of kids attending funerals. It's how well they are prepared.

    What do you think of this?