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Is surrogacy a good idea?

  1. Vicki Alaya profile image59
    Vicki Alayaposted 3 years ago

    Is surrogacy a good idea?

    Is surrogacy a good idea? I've already had one child, but I miss being pregnant. And due to the nature and expectancy of my first pregnancy, I didn't really get a chance to enjoy it like most pregnant women because it was unplanned and unwanted by my family. My daughter is 5 now and I really want to carry another baby. Should I become a surrogate instead?

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    little-red85posted 3 years ago

    Hmm..well, surrogacy is truly a beautiful gift you could bless hopeful parents with.  It truly all depends on the individual woman. However, I might nudge you to very heavily weigh the pros and cons of surrogacy for your situation. I have a 5 year old and a 4 year old and i have also been missing being pregnant and wishing i could have another chance to fully enjoy it. However, my son(the 5 year old) has been asking me repeatedly for "a little brother" for a few months now...probably  why i began missing the pregnancy stuff so much cause he keeps asking general questions about it.. :-P ...anyway, my point is that due to the young ages of my children, it might mess with their minds a bit for them to see me carry a pregnancy, but give the baby to someone else. Then there is the issue of the attachment you may grow to the unborn child and the difficulty of sending baby off with his parents upon birth.  Consider the best interest of your daughter in this decision.

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    Maggie Bradleyposted 3 years ago

    I've considered this question myself. I really loved being pregnant the first time. The second time changed my mind. I think that you should ask yourself how will this impact my life, my daughter's life, my family members? Will you become attached to the baby? How will you feel when you see the baby for the first time and have to walk out of the hospital empty handed? Do you think that your will to see a family completed is strong enough to overcome your attachment to the baby? Are you doing this because you want to be pregnant again or because you would like to help others?

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    Jessicajessi1posted 6 months ago

    Hi vicki alaya ........... Sure surrogacy is a good option for those couples who are suffering from infertility issues . As it is like a new hope for hopeless couples and also for those who want to conceive second time but they can't due to some medical problems and if you want to adopt this treatment than go ahead but first discuss with your family especially with your daughter as she is very small and in this age children's are very crucios  and want to know each and every single thing . they generally ask questions for a very small activities happened around us and you have to tackle her very politely and smartly......... All the best !!!! smile

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    pronatali2003posted 2 months ago

    Well that you are considering this problem on the forum. Many people are barren and do not know the cause of the problem. Many gynecologists argue that a single negative test result does not confirm cervical infertility.

    The final conclusion can be made only after three tests. They need to be carried out in different cycles with an interval of 2-3 months. Of course, this is very long. If to compare, then many couples wait for pregnancy years. From the experience of my friend I can say. She did them several times. So far this is still the answer. She will hope that everything will be fine. I always support it.
    t can be negative when the test is not performed during the period of ovulation. On other days of the cycle, cervical mucus always has a bad effect on spermatozoa. From the moment of the sexual certificate or act has passed or has taken place less than 4 hours or more days. Spermatozoa could not yet penetrate the cervical canal. The most mobile of them could already leave. In cervical mucus there are antibodies that kill sperm. Examine the presence of inflammatory processes in the sexual organs of a woman. To examine the hormonal failure in the body of a woman - a decrease in the level of estrogen in cervical mucus on the days of ovulation
    Check for infections. The use of barrier contraceptives plays a role: foaming solutions, oxidants of the vaginal environment.
    If all these factors are absent, then the treatment is performed. My friend was advised to undergo treatment in the Ukrainian clinic BioTexCom - Center for Reproductive Medicine. I read about this clinic, and I liked it. There are doctors, translators and psychologists. Therefore, in communication there are no problems. I liked that the arrival and accommodation are included in the payment. In any case, do not get upset. Only positive thoughts will give a positive result. Modern medicine now knows a lot.

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    Sofia994posted 8 days ago

    I'm Sofia.
    I had no luck of having a baby as i had many complications regarding pregnancy.
    I conceived for 3 times from my first marriage but every time miscarriage happened at different stages.
    Tired of all the complications i had gone through during pregnancy i gave up upon the hope of having a baby.
    Now i am married again and me and my husband are thinking of having of having a baby.
    I know that at this age and keeping in mind all the aspects regarding mt previous pregnancy complications getting pregnant again will be not a good idea.
    So i have convinced my husband for having a baby via surrogacy.
    For that purpose we have consulted a number of clinics and have positive reviews about surrogacy.
    Now as i and my husband are ready for surrogacy option,
    We are looking for a good clinic to support us and guide us through the whole process.
    I'm looking for a good woman who can carry our child in her womb for 9 months with care.
    I met many women who are offering their services to many clinics regarding surrogacy.
    But still i am looking for a perfect lady who can help us.
    I guess keeping in aspects like me a woman should probably go for surrogacy method to have a baby.
    Please share your experience if you have any regarding surrogacy.
    Thanks in advance.