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Manopause: PMS for Men

Updated on October 25, 2018
Mens' hormones get carried away sometimes too.
Mens' hormones get carried away sometimes too. | Source

Menopause For Men May Be a Real Thing

Manopause:

***Exaggerated definition follows***

"A mental condition typically found in men in their mid to late 50's brought on by the realization that old age is just around the corner. Symptoms include: frequent reminiscing about the “good ol’ days”, cranky judgmental attitude and a closed minded approach to anything new. Usually punctuated by the chronic need to play a lot of golf and vote republican. The condition is difficult to cure and almost always progresses into old-timers disease." 1

The term man-opause is often applied when a middle-aged man behaves in ways contrary to their typical natures. Some people erroneously use this and similar terms to explain mid-life crisis', divorce, and adultery to name a few, assuming that the male version is similar to the female version. In actuality, the two could not be more different.

Understand Her To Understand Him.

Real menopause is characterized by a sudden onset and rapid decrease in hormones due to a complete shutdown of the female reproductive system. The chemical reaction within the body is extreme and oftentimes responsible for erratic behavior and mood swings. While the physical side effects are numerous and well-documented, the emotional aspect can be more disruptive and much harder to chart.

During menopause a woman has many physiological changes taking place, added to those is the underlying fact that this is the loss of their gift, the reproductive ability. Many women see menopause as the hour in which the biological clock strikes it's last, and thus it becomes a de facto deadline in their lives. In the same way that pregnancy illustrates the supreme essence of womanhood to most women, the loss of this gift is likened to the stripping of a woman's purpose and can be extremely difficult to come to terms with. The silver lining comes in the form of the cessation of the menstrual cycle and a knowledge that the transition is temporary.

Don't be afraid to talk to a doctor about changes in hormone levels.
Don't be afraid to talk to a doctor about changes in hormone levels. | Source

The Science Behind Menopause For Men

Men do not have the luxury, if you will, to blame their behavior on a sudden drop in testosterone. It is a fact that male hormones are lost gradually beginning around age 30 and continuing a downward rate of 1% per year for the rest of their lives.2 The androgen, or testosterone-like hormones, of men in their 70s was shown to have decreased by as much as 50%.

Physical Effects

The changing chemistry within the body is a physical process that has a profound influence over the individual. A woman may experience any or all of these side effects within a relatively short period of time, but for men it is important to remember that these manifest themselves over time, from as early as a man's 40s and onward. The most common physical side effects of manopause are-

  • Loss of appetite
  • Impotency
  • Loss of libido
  • Insomnia
  • Fatigue
  • Hot flashes and sweating


These side effects may ebb and flow, or they may stay. It is not uncommon to experience more than one of these symptoms, and many others that are reported in lesser numbers, at the same time. Each side effect will typically call for its own treatment. A rule of thumb in the medical field is to treat the sickness and not the symptoms, but in the case of the laws of aging it is a fight that cannot be won, because lets face it, none of us are going to make it out of this alive..


Emotional & Mental Effects

This loss of testosterone can have life-changing mental and emotional effects on a man that may be considered more severe than the physical ones. For example, along with erectile dysfunction will come the embarrassing frustrations and feelings of inadequacy that are commonly associated with sexual performance issues. For a man, being unable to satisfy their spouse can be one of the most psychologically-tormenting and unpreventable side effects of the aging process. Several of the most significant and influential of these non-physical side effects of manopause include:

  • Mood swings
  • Memory impairment
  • Depression
  • Lack of focus
  • Feelings of Inadequacy
  • Insecurities
  • Irritability

Debunking The Lingo Behind Male Menopause

There are several often-used terms to describe a man's hormonal changes during aging and they include manopause, andropause, and hypogonadism . Of course, humorous and derogatory versions are numerous.

Simply put, hypogonadism describes the medical condition in which an aging man has lower levels of testosterone than he should. Typically, this term has been used to explain a significant reduction of male hormones beyond that which is considered normal even at old age. It has always been a doctor's response to the Male PMS question.

The term manopause came from the general public borrowing from the female's phenomenon to try to explain a man's crazy mid-life breakdown, moody behavior, or personality changes.

Andropause is the medical community's compromise3 on the popular insistence that men experience a physiological and chemical about-face similar to menopause. As androgen is the name for the hormones in the body responsible for the traits that make a man manly4, and the loss of these hormones has an effect similar to menopause without the rapid onset and intensity, so andropause was the logical name for the process.

There are solutions, holistic and otherwise. Just find what works for you.
There are solutions, holistic and otherwise. Just find what works for you. | Source

Coping With and Treating Male Menopause

Men experience a gradual decrease in their manly hormone testosterone over the course of their lives. These drops may be greater at some points when motivated by outside factors such as drinking excessively, smoking, stress, lack of exercise, and bad nutrition. A complete dedication to healthy living can significantly reduce the rate at which testosterone is lost in aging men.5

There are medications and supplements that have shown positive results in restoring natural testosterone levels, and everyone is familiar with the little blue pill that provides the extra umph necessary for intimacy. Many doctors treat low testosterone with injections of the hormone to temporarily provide the energy and vigor that is lost to father Time.

Overcoming Male Menopause With Dieting and Exercise

Men can combat the onset and speed at which they lose their precious testosterone by remaining healthy and active and avoiding destructive habits. There is no stopping the aging process, but awareness is the first phase in treatment. Enjoyment can be experienced throughout the term of a man's life regardless of testosterone levels, determination and will overcome any other anchors.


S.P. Kelly

© 2012 Steven P Kelly

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  • kuttingxedge profile imageAUTHOR

    Steven P Kelly 

    9 years ago from Tampa, FL

    I'm 30 but I completely understand. My grandfather used to say it wasn't your age but your miles that defined you.

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    AlexK2009 

    9 years ago from Edinburgh, Scotland

    Ah, I will have to keep a look out for the Urban Dictionary. The quote raised fears I was getting like that. But no way voting republican and while there were good old days they were outnumbered by the bad old days .

  • kuttingxedge profile imageAUTHOR

    Steven P Kelly 

    9 years ago from Tampa, FL

    @Alex - I saw that when I checked out UrbanDictionary, they usually have some pretty funny descriptions. Sorry you didn't like it. Thanks for reading.

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    AlexK2009 

    9 years ago from Edinburgh, Scotland

    I found this a good clear summary of what happens, though the humorous intro quote did not do the business for me.

  • kuttingxedge profile imageAUTHOR

    Steven P Kelly 

    9 years ago from Tampa, FL

    Thanks for the encouragement, Karre. I'm glad you liked it.

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    Karre Schaefer 

    9 years ago from Eskridge, Kansas

    Great article with truly helpful information. Keep up the good work.

  • kuttingxedge profile imageAUTHOR

    Steven P Kelly 

    9 years ago from Tampa, FL

    Thank you very much. I'm working on it now!

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    Rik Rodriguez 

    9 years ago from Hawaii

    Nicely done! Make more hubs you do a good job.

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