How to Love Your Lover

Love is a wonderful feeling; it floats through you like wine. A smooth cocktail that is warm and melting all at the same time. Being in love is beautiful and delicious but how to love your lover is very different from being in love. Being in love is a feeling of bliss and your heart is pumping blood so fast through your body that you can’t keep your body still, let alone your brain. Being in love makes your blood boil, your brain gushy and your legs wobbly. However, that is a completely different feeling then knowing how to love your lover; the feelings are two very diverse emotions.

So if you have a lover and want to make sure you keep you lover, here are the steps to know how to love your lover;

Compliments; sincere, deep felt compliments are perfect to give to any lover. Own your lover through your heartfelt compliments that pour out of your body for theirs.

Touching; rub them, light rubbing underneath the arm, top of thigh, erotic rubbing that sends thrills through their bodies is perfect to love your lover.

Kissing; know how to kiss, very important. Because kissing is the most sensual emotion to trigger the liquids of lust. Kiss softly behind the earlobe, kiss slowly around the mouth, kiss often to make them want you.

Listen; listen to what they are saying, hear what they want. They will tell you what the need and want if you just listen to them.

Learn; learn their behaviors, if they like a certain position, enhance that position. If they are not morning people, leave and give your lover that time to wake up. Simple learning of your lover’s behaviors will do wonders for your time together.

Give; give them what they want. Yes, after you listened to them, give them what they want, a foot massage, a back rub, a large bubble bath, with a full body wash. Give and then give more.

Sexy; be sexy, make it real but be sexy. Wear the sexy clothing, walk the sexy walk. Talk the sexy talk. Whisper and purr at your lover, make them want you.

Games; yes, play games, act like other people, dress like another person, play a game, the cat and mouse game, it’s fun and erotic, make your lover want you like no other.

Be fresh; try new positions, be open to new ideas, energizing the sex is better when you are open minded and willing to try new things, so be fresh.

Confident; be confident, you want your lover to want you, then always be in control and be confident, you may not feel confident but if you portray that emotion because it will come across. Being confident is sexy.

Talk; talk to your lover, understand their interests, what motivates them and then talk about those interests, hobbies or thoughts. Chat with your lover, communication is critical to appreciate your lover.

Play; play with your lover, send a racy picture of yourself, send a dirty flirty text to your lover, play the flirty, sweet, nasty lover that you can be. Keep it real but keep it entertaining, so play.

Love your lover from the inside to the outside. Understand their needs and know their wants. These steps above will help you to love your lover like no other. Enhance your skills, improve your appearance and most of all, be open minded to change. Be the sexy kitten that has the bad boy side; keep it fresh, different and playful. Revitalizing your relationship is a good thing and it needs to be done to keep it original. Don’t worry about what your friends say or family; do want feels right to you. It’s your lover, treat them the best you can, learn to give in many different ways. Once you start learning to love your lover, you will be the best lover. So keep it airy, fresh, sexy, and naughty however, only way to do that is to know your lover so you can love your lover.