if you are asked this question what will be your responds:
Have you find closure in to the most painful experience in your life?
There is an old adage , "no mood remains the same with the passing of time ", closure is probably not the better of discriptions or the best word to describe what happens , there is less 'closure" than there is acceptance or even healing , as to many of the the experiences of life......
I'm not fond of that word, really. 'Closure' suggests something that is essentially forgotten. We 'close' the door on the event's impact. So, if that's the idea, then no, not for me. The death of a parent will never lose its magnitude as a life-altering event, the abuse of some toward me in later life will not be forgotten.
But, therein lies the trick! Learning from these disasters, embracing them essentially, is the key to becoming the best I can be!
Interesting you would post this, being that I wrote a hub on the exact same thing. I'm one who must have closure on things. I don't feel settled about the matter until I have some finality about the situation. Like what I call "being in limbo" about something, not knowing where you stand, etc. It's agonizing, to me.
There's emotional closure & other kinds of closure. But I'm the type person who has always benefited from closure of some type in sticky situations. And when I don't have closure? Well, I find some kind of finality to the matter to use as my closure.
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