What Can Siblings’ Enmities And Hate Lead To? How Can It Be Solved When They Can

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   ngurecoposted 15 years ago

   What Can Siblings’ Enmities And Hate Lead To? How Can It Be Solved When They Can't See Eye to Eye?

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   ahorsebackposted 15 years ago

   I have watched , in life , siblings devide  into incredibly selfesh ways . Always wondering  why. Especially after parents pass on .Greed  and narrsisistic behaviour rules many a family .

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   sir_tallestposted 15 years ago

   Sibling enmity has become a very common thing and though some build it on greed, I've seen fight over the silliest of reason. like a sis angry with her bro for not making her son's wedding and the bro had his son too sick and close to death.....Such enmity is hard to end but can be...here an elderly person that they both respect calls for a meeting and tries to end it without choosing sides......though it is difficult but with old age comes great wisdom

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   TransScribblerposted 14 years ago

   The problems between siblings in our family were caused by parents.
   I do not talk to any of my three brothers.
   One was aware that I was being sexually abused by our father as a child, and never said or did anything to help end it. For the last 20 years he has denied ever telling me that he knew about it.
   My youngest brother and I do not talk because 20 years ago I reported he and my second brother being sexually abused by our father to the authorities. They both said I was making it up and that nothing had happened to them.
   Since then, they have both come out and said that they were abused after all.
   Now my second brother will not talk to me because I tried to do the right thing all those years ago.
   
   I do miss them, well, one of them. Mind you, it makes Xmas a darn sight cheaper, though!

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   LillyGrillzitposted 14 years ago

   I think it is the same thing that happens when kind and gifted people are harmed and rallied upon by others. There is a beastly spirit walking the earth, driving loved ones apart. Sibling relationships are the strongest on Earth, and suddenly it is separation instead of joining...it is a heartache...

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   drbillfanninposted 14 years ago

   It ruins families, and you can't fix it most of the time. Someone has to be the submissive peace maker. Then someone has to get them to a counselor or minister.

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   CharleneSFposted 14 years ago

   this topic makes me so sad.  I can relate....
   
   i appreciate reading what others have written

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