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How to Let Go of Someone You Love

Updated on January 30, 2023

The Power of Letting Go

The art of letting go is quite the wild ride! When you're feeling all tied up with emotions that are holding you back, it's time to break free and start fresh. Letting go is like a magic spell that heals and points you towards a life that's brighter and better. Oprah Winfrey once said, "Take a deep breath, let it go, and remember that this very moment is all you've got for sure." So let's embrace the beauty of life by letting go of the things that we just can't control.

There's a popular saying that goes, "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they're yours forever." But be warned, holding onto the hope that your loved one will return can keep you from enjoying the moment and seeing the new folks who are waiting to enter your life. Letting go is all about surrendering your desires to the universe without any strings attached. When you let go completely, you open yourself up to new possibilities and take a step closer to total release. So go ahead, surrender it all to the big guy upstairs and be ready to welcome some fresh faces into your world!

How to Let Go When You Love Someone Deeply?

Loving someone is a wild and crazy adventure! You open up your heart and let yourself be vulnerable for the sake of love. Sure, there's bound to be some hurt and pain along the way, but the feeling of being in love is just too darn great to resist! It inspires you, makes you feel whole, and can even push you out of your comfort zone.

But what happens when the person you love suddenly changes their mind? It's like getting hit by a truck! You can't imagine your future without them and every day you try to make them happy. And then, boom! They're gone, and you're left with a broken heart and insufferable pain.

It's natural to question what you did wrong and if there's anything you can do to fix it. But holding on to someone who doesn't want to be with you will only lead to more hurt and insecurity.

The key to moving on is to let go and value the essence of life. Holding onto pain and a broken heart won't get you anywhere, but letting go and finding a safe landing can bring peace and happiness.

So, let's approach this heartache with a little quirkiness and see the bright side! Instead of dwelling on the pain, let's focus on the memories we made and the new adventures waiting for us. Because, hey, if they come back, they're yours forever! But until then, let's embrace the freedom of letting go and move forward with a smile on our face.

How to Let Go Quotes

“A sad thing in life is that sometimes you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go.”

“There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind. But keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life.”

Let go. Why do you cling to pain? There is nothing you can do about the wrongs of yesterday. It is not yours to judge. Why hold on to the very thing which keeps you from hope and love?
-- Leo Buscaglia

Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over.
-- Gloria Naylor

We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us.
-- Joseph Campbell

Lovin' and lettin' go, it's a wild ride! When ya hold on tight, it can hurt real nice. But if ya open up your heart and set love free, the universe will gift you inner peace and glee!

Remember, past love ain't a failure. It's a treasure to keep, with lessons to learn and memories to sleep. Don't hold on to hate, it'll just weigh ya down, embrace the future with a smile and a twirlin' gown!

Lovin' deeply, it's a tricky affair, sometimes ya gotta let go, to show ya really care. If your love needs freedom, to find their own way, then set 'em free, with love, each and every day!

In the game of love, there's no win or lose, it's about experiencin' beauty, it's about findin' your groove. And when the time comes to hold on or let go, listen to your heart, and let love flow!

So go ahead, love deeply and let it fly, the universe is waitin' with open arms and a big, big sky! And when you love more, happiness will surely ensue, it's a quirky journey, but it's all good, me oh my!

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This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2012 Joan Coole


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