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Stop These 4 Mistakes and Attract Women

Updated on September 7, 2019

Attraction is not as complicated as you think or try to tell yourself. It can be simplified into things and stuff that you know but clearly ignoring or paying attention to. Attract women by being a little keen to appearances and beliefs.

It doesn’t have to be this amazing thing that you need to achieve or reach for that girl to be attracted to you. Attraction isn’t logical; it’s not like playing chess where you move this piece to win the game.

There is a whole lot of different dynamics involved like confidence and body language. It’s for this reason that attraction isn’t complicated or rocket science. You have two people attracted to each other, no brainier.

You want her to be attracted to you but you’re your own worst enemy. You aren’t helping your course in any way. You want attraction but you are doing nothing for that to happen.

Look after yourself first, then be attracted to yourself in a non-weird way and the girls attraction to you will just be natural.

So let’s get to it then and explore them one by one.

1. Having an Unkempt Hair and Beard

Hair maintenance isn’t only limited to girls alone, if a girl has the time to make her hair shiny and beautiful, why not you. Wash that hair, use shampoo if you have to, but it has to be clean and doesn’t draw the wrong kind of attention such as lice.

The beard can’t be omitted from this conversation, if you are having a hard time maintaining it, shaves it off. Wash and make it clean, align it well; comb it if you have too.

The point of doing this is to make sure that this doesn’t make a girl turned off. Consider it like a marking system or a sports match, you want points to improve not drop.

According to the Art of Manliness, a clean-shaven man is associated more with the following traits:

  • sociability
  • health/cleanliness

If your hair and beard are making you lose points, you won’t reach the playoffs or attraction won’t happen.

According to the Independent, research conducted by which revealed that 43 per cent of women said they would refuse to date a man who wasn’t clean-shaven.

2. Having Long Dirty Fingernails.

You love long fingernails? Not anymore, go take your nail cutter now and get rid of them don’t start nail biting though. You will not attract women with nails that are scary.

According to Healthline, nail biting is the most common nervous habit. Nail biting usually doesn’t cause long-term damage. However, it raises your risk of getting sick by spreading germs to your mouth.

Keep them short. Your long fingernails tend to have more dirt on them. They are like an attraction magnet for dirt.

This isn’t only limited to your fingernails but also your toenails. It has a role to play too in the attraction arena. Keep them clean and fresh and you’ve just removed a simple hurdle to attracting that girl.

3. Having Bad Breath.

Nobody appreciates or wants to be involved or near a person who has bad smell from his or her mouth. Clean youth teeth and mouth with either mouthwash or just old school toothbrush and toothpaste. Brush everyday no excuses make it a habit.

The average person only brushes for 45 to 70 seconds a day, the recommended amount of time is 2-3 minutes according to the Children’s Dental Village.

The advantage is that there are great products you can use to make your breath pleasant. There are chewing gums and mints that will keep your breath fresh and they are basically inexpensive.

This should be a no-brainer but unfortunately a lot of men ignore this. No woman wants to smell your bad breath, they will run away from you. Your oral hygiene should be very important.

If you do not know how to take care of this basic thing then how is she going to expect you to handle a relationship.

4. The Lack of a Regular Shower.

Your body is your first weapon in making that girl totally into you. If the weapon is all oily and full of dust or mud it won’t fire and it’ll be jammed, not firing a single shot. If your body odour is a problem, you need a shower and some cologne.

According to Lifehacker, a study published by the International Journal of Cosmetic Science showed that giving men some cologne improved their confidence enough to be rated as visibly more attractive in photographs.

Use your body as your weapon to make a girl attracted, the weapon has to be shiny and beautiful for this to happen.

According to, women are more sensitive to smell than men. Therefore not taking a shower will make you smell and she will know. As a study published in the November 2014 issue of PLoS ONE found that post-mortem female brains had, on average, 43% more cells and almost 50% more neurons in their olfactory centers (the part dedicated to smelling and odours) than male brains.

From an evolutionary perspective an enhanced sense of smell may have helped women choose mates for reproductive purposes.

Therefore be clean and you will attract women.


Basic stuff that you forgot that will do much more for you than chasing some grand dream of what attraction entails. The basics will give you results that you are looking for.

Combine these simple basics with confidence and body language and you’ll have a walking attraction magnet.

But the unfortunate thing is that as simple as it might seem, a majority of people neglect it or aren’t willing to change. With these tips that are killing the girls attraction to you, you have to take action that will get you closer to the goal of either a relationship or someone to have fun with.

Do you agree that these mistakes can lead to not attract women? Do you know of any other facts that ruin the girl’s attraction that deserve a mention?

Then do share and tell in the comments section below. I would love to hear from you. Also share this with your friends and family, sharing is caring.

-Michael Kamenya


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