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What A Woman Wants

Updated on January 4, 2012

Written For A Man To Understand

“Some men just don't understand that a woman's heart is like a deep ocean of secrets.”.....Tori Amos

Ultimately we will never discover the complete makeup of a man nor will man ever fully understand the female species but a man, if prepared, can learn and discover some of the mysteries of a woman's mind,her heart, and her desires.


Understanding Woman The Differences Between The Two Sexes:

  • Tackling problems: Women tend to be intuitive global thinkers.They take lots of information from many sources and tend to think of many problems at once.Whereas many times a man will tackle one problem at a time.

  • Emotional: Women are much more emotional than men. They live, eat, sleep, love and work all around their emotional side.Their hormonal makeup is completely different from a man. When women makes important decisions their emotions tend to become involved where a man tends to use a more levelheaded logical straight down the line approach.

  • Handling pain and sad emotions: When a woman is upset she generally has a strong desire to call family, friends, sharing her pain with others while a man tends to retreat to his den and withdraw. Men be aware that;

'Some times all a woman needs is for a shoulder to cry on while she pours out her heart'.

Women when upset often feel much better by just talking through their pain. As she cries upon your shoulder while confiding in you realise that sometimes a woman just needs you to listen and not offer solutions. A woman feels better from simply her man comforting her while giving her his full attention with few words.Often if a woman wants advice she will reach out and ask for it.

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  • Need to feel number one: A woman needs to feel number one in her man's eyes. A woman is aware that man by nature has a 'wandering eye', especially when a beautiful woman walks by, therefore it is important for her to know that in your eyes she is the most beautiful woman of all. Sometimes with so many beautiful women in the world, some women become insecure, feeling the need to compete constantly, unsatisfied with her body and shape if it doesn't meet the ideal form. The media constantly throws images of thinness and unrealistic visions at women which we tend to absorb. While a man is not responsible for a woman's esteem a man we love can 'break' our 'build' our esteem even further.

  • Sex : Women need lots of attention, closeness, touching at times with no sex involved. If you only approach your woman and touch her when you want sex, she will become resentful and sometimes even feel like a prostitute, especially if an argument has not been resolved.

  • Talking: We all have heard the expression that men are "headliners", and women are "fine print". Women are said to talk on the average 25,000 words a day, and men 5,000 words. Women were born to express themselves, and with an added emotional makeup, it explains why we talk problems over with friends and family. We have that extra need to discuss the aspects of out life, important issues with others.There is a need at times to get things off our chest seeking other's opinions, offloading our fears and hurts.

If you only approach your woman and touch her when you want sex,she will become resentful and sometimes even feel like a prostitute.
If you only approach your woman and touch her when you want sex,she will become resentful and sometimes even feel like a prostitute.


'I like women. I don't understand them, but I like them'

Sean Connery


How to approach a woman:

1. Walk with her,don't try to rule her.

2. Offer your support, be a haven she can come to when she is in need, without fear of lectures or disinterest on your side.

3. Don't ridicule her behind her back. I never understand men who do this.

4. Listen, listen, when she is hurting. Resist the urge to offer advice unless she asks.

5. Give her compliments, make her feel good about herself, and mean it.

6. Walk with her, not ahead of her.

7. Never take her for granted, don't let familiarity seep in.

8. Show your joy in spending time with her. A woman needs to feel appreciated.

9. Be honest with her. A woman never forgets.

10. Be her greatest supporter. Be someone she knows that she can always count on.

11. If you have done something to hurt her, even if you didn't mean to, tell her you are sorry.

12. If anger gets the better of you walk away and take time to cool down, or you might say something you will regret, and she will remember.

13. You don't have to try to "fix" everything. Men are 'fixers', but women don't want you to fix everything.

14. Kiss her goodbye and be happy to see her.

15. Understand her need to share herself with her friends. It's not that you aren't enough.

16. Show her she can count on you to get things done when you say you will.

.17. Back her up 100 percent!

18. Don't ignore her to gain her attention.That just infuriates her.

19. Include her in your dreams tell her about them. A woman feels part of you when you share your life even more with her.

20. If you treat her the way she deserves to be treated, she in turn will give back to you 100 fold. A happy caring guy makes a happy caring woman.

21. Don't compare her to other women. She is unique.


Despite all the female liberation movement, you may be surprised to learn that women actually still enjoy to be treated like women, and they still appreciate the gentlemanly things men do sometimes.


WOMEN DONT JUST GO FOR LOOKS..

Women look for humour, they love confidence in a guy.

A guy with average looks, if he has a fantastic personality, can be incredibly sexy to her.

A great looking guy with massive ego problems we would rather forget. Not for a long term relationship anyway. Some girls go for guys like this, but normally the more shallow type of girls.

Physical looks can get a lady’s initial interest, but it isn’t what builds attraction.


SO YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT A WOMAN WANTS?

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Simply ask her what she wants and she will most likely tell you. No two women are the same, thank god, and what may work for one woman may not necessarily be an other's cup of tea. Communication is simply the best way to learn. Keep the channels between the two of you open. Be kind, loving and understanding. Then you will truly discover 'What A Woman Wants'

© Deb Murray 2009

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      Johnd560 3 years ago

      You really make it seem so easy with your presentation but I find this topic to be really something which I think I would never understand. It seems too complicated and extremely broad for me. I'm looking forward for your next post, I'll try to get the hang of it! dcddbcfdgeaa

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      blondepoet 5 years ago from australia

      Thanks million loanyi cheers

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      loanyi 5 years ago

      Great details.=D

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Thanks heaps assassin xo

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      Assassin Fred 6 years ago

      excellent. :)

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Hi there Life wow glad to meet you. What a spunk. xx

      Woo hoo acatnna I am back. Did you have a great Xmas. What did you get up to my sweet petunia pie. Love ya heaps xox

      Hi there Assassin anyone with a name like that has to be my friend xo

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      Assassin Fred 6 years ago

      a great read, thanks for sharing. Sometimes we (men) need to go back to the basics, and remind ourselves to take time to consider things like this.

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      acaetnna 6 years ago from Guildford

      I am back again to ask 'Where have you been'? Life is not the same on Hubpages without you! Here is wishing you a wonderful, magical Christmas. Take care special lady.

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      lifewellspoken 6 years ago from Vancouver BC

      I really enjoyed this hub, I'm now your follower, be gentle :)

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Thanx heaps youshouldknow nice to meet you :)

      Hi johnorton loved your comments I really appreciated you dropping by, you sound like a man who knows a little about women. :)

      LMAO ffs, oh your comments gave me a hearty laugh I nearly split my sides. Wow I appreciate your honesty, and I can see where you are coming from. There are a lot of frustrated males out there. Remember once you get on the band wagon it will all fall into place from there. :)

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      ffs 6 years ago

      This is just typical. You women want the moon on a stick! Why is it that you want men to talk to you, support you, treat you like princesses, lavish attention on you, tell you we love you, etc but all you do in return is ignore us? You reckon you're born communicators, but you're a one way channel that's always on Transmit and never receive. As for men with great looks and big egos - you girls always go for those egotistical big headed pricks every time. Women are in fact more shallow than men - you only have to listen to what most young women talk about these days (Twilight, the latest "hunk" on Lost, Sex in the City, etc etc). So get over yourselves girls - I don't need to, nor want to, understand any more about you.

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      yyoushouldknow 6 years ago from INDIA

      sooooooo much research. nice.

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Hahaha Peter oh sure I would be happy to oblige. Oh boy I am laughing my guts out here. It is all in the facial expression did you know? Watch a good looking chicks face, if the nostrils turn upwards and the rest of the face is quite blank I would take that as a big no or "what the heck". I will eleborate further. :) :)

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      Peter@BP 6 years ago

      Could you also include "and if she dont want ya she will"

      in your next one please bp...

      Im speaking as someone who is too picky for he's own good

      and i spend an eterinity in the first stages, im sure there is a lot of people much the same, [ blame my first girl ] I got an enzo ferrari for my 18th, wrote it off and cant find another one, and i cant have a skoda, no disrespct to skodas but there are skoda drivers and enzo ferrari drivers.

      In short bp i wana walk up to the best looking girls i can find and know if its on or not immediately.

      Your help is needed bigtime,

      THANKYOU.. guys will love this

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Sure Peter I can do that. As soon as my inspiration hits me I will roll one out. Thanx so much for coming by. :)

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      peter 6 years ago

      Brilliant.....some interesting points, so if a woman knows who she wants like a saylor knows the sea what signs will she give us, men dont see any of it, a girls gota be clinging to us before we go "i think she fancies me"

      Could you do a hub on "if a girl wants you she will"

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Tks heaps Jinny I tried my best. Glad you liked it.

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      JinnyMarte 6 years ago

      Wow woman!! Impressive and so full of wonderful wisdom...Awesome work!!

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Oh amorea flattery will get you everywhere. I tell you what not only will I give you the book I will seal the cover with my fushcia lipstick LMAO. Love having you as my fan.

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      amorea13 6 years ago

      Right I'm voting this up as 'awesome' BP - it really is a terrific piece of writing because it's so full of advice . . . . for me!

      So - when's the book version coming out please and can I have an advance copy signed by you?!!! Please - if you sign it you see I'll learn quicker!

      Great hub BP and I'm looking out for another from you.

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      And I love you coming by acaetnna. You are the bees knees. xo

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      acaetnna 6 years ago from Guildford

      Hugging and cuddles - awesome. A special kiss is what I need and the reassurance that I am loved - completely. Thank you blondepoet I love reading your hubs.

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Hi Contrice yes totally it is all so simple, yet so many men overlook the simplicity and basic needs a woman has. Thanks so much for popping by.

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      Contrice 6 years ago

      I totally agree with you sex notion. There is nothing wrong with some good (physical) lovin, but sometimes a simple kiss and hug is nice.

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Hi there sligobay oh I am so glad to teach a few tricks. I bet you are the perfect gentleman too. Have a great day. :)

      Hi there gradyp so happy to meet you. I am thrilled you popped by to read my modest hub.

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      gradyp 6 years ago

      I recently discovered the truth about the appreciation. My wife and I recently had an argument where appreciation was front and center. Since then, I have tried to show appreciation, though I realize that I have not done as much as I can.

      Another great hub!

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      sligobay 6 years ago from east of the equator

      You can still teach an old dog a few new tricks. Give her what she wants has always been the "first Principle" of getting along with women in any relationship. Thanks for your efforts to help my helpless gender. Cheers.

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      blondepoet 6 years ago from australia

      Oh bring them on Brian. You know I adore jelly beans. What a good memory you have.

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      Brian 6 years ago

      Jelly Beans

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Why thanks heaps VivekSri I promise I will. :)

      Hey there zzron wow thanks for linking me. Have a great day. :)

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      zzron 7 years ago from Houston, TX.

      Great hub I linked to it on my newest hub. Thanks great advice.

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      VivekSri 7 years ago

      what a good showing! your hub just couldn't get better. work on that. keep doing more perceptive hubs.

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Hi Auf great to hear someone on this planet has worked them out. :)

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      aufderkartbahn 7 years ago

      Women are not mistery. In fact, they are readable like a book.

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Hi thehands yes good point LMAO.

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      Jorge Vamos 7 years ago

      Still, I feel like women are a mystery to a huge degree.

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Hiya Blake hell I have never heard of arizonbooks. Oh I think I shall just mail you. It is a blonde you are dealing with here LMAO. :)

      Thanks a million adrienne I appreciate your warm feedback. :)

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      Adrienne F Manson 7 years ago from Atlanta

      Great hub BP! Really enjoyed reading it!

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      Blake Ford Hall 7 years ago from Now Rising Out of Phoenix Arizona Earthlings

      Sorry BP thats arizonabooks etc etc.

      Blake4d

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      Blake Ford Hall 7 years ago from Now Rising Out of Phoenix Arizona Earthlings

      I have msn arizonabook at hot mail dot com. Where can I reach you darling? Blake4d

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Aww Blake that is so sweet. You need to get msn or yahoo and we can chat for real. Heaps of fun. :) :)

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      Blake Ford Hall 7 years ago from Now Rising Out of Phoenix Arizona Earthlings

      I would never give you the silent treatment BP. In fact, I usually find it hard to stop chatting with you once I know you are online. =) Blake4d

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Oh hi Trish thank-you so much for coming back a second time that means a lot. Oh yes men that give the silent treatment, oh it strikes at the inner chord. It is great to hear from another woman who can relate to some of these messages aimed for men to take note. It applies in my own life so much, personality, trust, humour, generosity,beautiful spirit are what will draw me in much more than a pretty boy face. Thanks again Trish. :)

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      trish1048 7 years ago

      Ok. Hi there Blondepoet,

      This makes the second time I've read this, and I enjoyed it as much as the first time.

      Things going on in my life currently drew me to the title. This in particular struck a chord: 18. Don't ignore her to gain her attention.That just infuriates her.

      How true! And then there's this: A guy with average looks, if he has a fantastic personality, can be incredibly sexy to her. And this: Physical looks can get a lady’s initial interest, but it isn’t what builds attraction.

      I agree whole-heartedly!

      Some of the quotes, for me, were perfect, such as “Women are repeatedly accused of taking things personally. I cannot see any other honest way of taking them.”

      Seriously! that is so true.

      Enjoyed again!

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Aww thanks Devlin and you made some great points too. Nurse Poet always has something to say LMAO do not fear. :) :)

      Hey there Sweet Choc I am so glad you called by and I receive your praise with a huge smile on my dial. Thank-you very much. :)

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      Sweet Chococarrie 7 years ago from My Heart To Yours

      Awesome !!! thought i will not get to the comment box of much comments you received and i just love this blondepoet you are so so so direct to the point. LOVE ALL THE DETAILS IN HERE. Hooray !!!!

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      DevLin 7 years ago from Phoenix, Arizona

      Excellent points, and honest. I'm not used to that. Another aspect, if children are involved, both should be as well. Don't let the kids grow up, then not remember who you're with. They may leave as well, if you become strangers during the rearing. It's all about being open and respectful. What you pointed out. Counsel all you want, Nurse Poet.

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Thanks heaps rebu. :)

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      rebu 7 years ago from Coorg,India

      Nice hub...Thnx for sharing..

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Hey there Ross thanks again for stopping by, great to see you. What a nice guy coming by to see what your lady wants. :)

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      Chibuzo Melvin Mobis 7 years ago from Biafra

      Again and Again,you got me going...Tips 12.(I will practice from now but i just hope she don't misunderstand my walking away from her),perhaps more explanations and that is just communications.

      Great hub!!!

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Haha Blake I am a little of everything I think. Counselor in sex and love affairs. Nurse, eye-brow waxer, blond representative, hair cutter, tiddly streaker LMAO. I like to be versatile. :)

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      Blake Ford Hall 7 years ago from Now Rising Out of Phoenix Arizona Earthlings

      I bet you are secretly some sort of therapist or counselor in disguise as a nurse / poet aspiring to be an online writer, all the while using us a guinea pigs to observe our deviant behavior. I am right huh?

      LOL

      Did you take any of the pictures in this essay? I like the change to the monochromatic color (violet) giving the whole article that feel of black and white - it somehow gives an air of credibility when pages use select colors. Like how a movie is more dramatic in black and white...

      What's your counseling fee, really...

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Oh thanks Chaotic you sure you won't go for three LMAO?

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      Chaotic Chica 7 years ago

      Two thumbs up, as usual!

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Thanks for coming by Superior will check out yours for sure :)

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      Superior321 7 years ago

      nice hub.

      I also wrote something related to women and their men.

      Please check.

      https://hubpages.com/relationships/Make-Your-Man-C

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      I wish so too Bhawna, sigh maybe some day.

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      Bhawna Sharma 7 years ago from Mumbai, India

      A well written hub. I wish men can understand us better.

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Hiya sexeducationnow oh that is bonza for another woman to agree. Cheers to us gals. :)

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      sexeducationnow 7 years ago

      Excellent Job...Superb ! being a girl i relate to each n every point !!

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Hahaha Tinyteddy love the attitude. Wish there were more teddys in the word

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      tinyteddy 7 years ago from INDIA

      HEY BLONDE POET!

      great hub

      i followed it and i became a teddy bear to my girl-just there,dumb and deaf for her to lean on.

      ever since i pretend to be a teddy bear she likes me a lot.

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      LMAO knell63 oh hell yes chocolate helps :)

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      knell63 7 years ago from Umbria, Italy

      What, you mean its not about chocolate?

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Hi Steve thanks a million

      Hey Lisa LMAO thanks so much for expressing your opinions greatly appreciated

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      Lisa Hess 7 years ago from gsh393@yahoo.com

      So that thing about "I like women - I don't understand them but I like them" I would like to say that about men. It needs to be said. I know they can be thoughtless pigs but still, Men - I like them. I think women need to accept men as very flawed and men all the same.

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      StevenCavendish 7 years ago

      Excellent article. Thanks very much for sharing this information.

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Thanks 50 Caliber for your imput here lol. Yes if men and women could just relate their needs to each other in a simple loving way what wonders it would do :)

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      50 Caliber 7 years ago from Arizona

      Quite Interesting not to omit informative.

      Single due to tragedy, it was a great loss. We "got" one another, probably an irreplaceable loss.

      She was wise enough to speak to me in simple terms and tell me what she wanted or needed at the moment what it was arose.

      I think women should simplify the process because men are not very good at guessing or reading between the lines. That would be true for me at any rate.

      So here's what guys want, Titties and Beer,

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ylRplLnU84&fea...

      FLMAO.....

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      blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

      Hi rdfrank67 thankyou so much for coming by. Have a great day :)

      Thanks heaps chance wilson wow your wife liked it too. Lol shows us women think alike :)

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      chance wilson 7 years ago

      Good job,my wife was even proud to see me read this one to her.

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      rdfrank67 7 years ago from Seattle

      great read...thanks for all the advice, I really like number 6.

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Thanks heaps Stephen have a great day :) :)

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      Stephen Brno 8 years ago

      Good to know, this is a very informative hub.

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Hiya Earthscribe thanks so much for coming by. Lol, women can certainly appear to be mysterious, we are pretty simple creatures deep down, just need good ole TLC :)

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      Earthscribe 8 years ago from Tampa, Florida

      A Beautiful glance into your comprehension. Thanks for the teasing-lift of the veil of mystery!

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Yes sure Logic that would be hunky dory. Bring it on I say should be very interesting. I know it would not be what women expect to hear. We women are a funny bunch very akin to a bunch of grapes. Some of us are sour and some are very sweet, some are simple and some are complicated. Thanks so much for coming by. xox

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      logic,commonsense 8 years ago

      It is great to get to see what women want through your eyes. Many of the things I was already aware of, at least partially, but to have them verified is very rewarding. Thank you for your insight!

      If you would like I could give you some personal insight into what a man wants. You might be surprised. :)

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Thanks so much Gilbert :) :)

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      Gilbert 8 years ago

      Good hubbbbb.

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      You are most welcome marco it is so very true (hugs)

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      marcofratelli 8 years ago from Australia

      Aw thanks BP :)

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Awww Marco you are too nice to be alone, however your limmericks are number one. Gee that is something we both share as I do not have a woman also ROFL. I bet you would ake a great catch. (hugs)

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      marcofratelli 8 years ago from Australia

      Believe it or not, I do do a lot of these things. But see, my problem is - I currently don't have a woman. It's probably a confidence thing like you've mentioned. (And I'm ok with that for now cause I don't have a lot of time - it's all being spent here and writing limericks! lol)

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Oh Wesley what a beautiful comment, your wife is extremely lucky to have a guy like you. (hugs)

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      wesleycox 8 years ago from Back in Texas, at least until August 2012

      well, as I am in Iraq there is not much I can do. I hold on to the belief that it can be saved though. In my opinion I am going to give it everything I have because if I didn't what kinda guy would I be? Besides my wife is a wonderful person who deserves only the very best from me.

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Hiya Barry I bet you will not have to try hard, you seem to be the type of guy who has it pretty much down pat.!!!! :) :)

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      Barry Rutherford 8 years ago from Queensland Australia

      I enjoyed reading this hub and hopefully will endeavour to practices the tips...

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Thanks so much Wesley for your great comments, oh did you save your marriage or did it end?

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      wesleycox 8 years ago from Back in Texas, at least until August 2012

      As I read through your very thorough list of what a woman wants I looked back on the terrible mistakes I have made. Only recently did I start to learn what was going wrong in my marriage. Come to find out it was me. From that day to this I have striven to be more of the man my woman wants me to be, yet at the same time still being me. Great tips for every man to listen to.

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Oh hi my-success-guru you are looking mighty fine this morning. So where are you taking me on the weekend?? xo

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      my-success-guru 8 years ago from Upstate NY

      Hey blondepoet!

      Great advice on what a woman wants!

      Take Care!

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Thanks christian will check out those links. Cheers!!

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      christianesk 8 years ago from The Global Hamlet

      Excellent post! Condensing and downloading into brain..........

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Aww thanks Roobee you know the way to make me go all cooey ROFL. A flattering tongue I have always said, "will get you everywhere lol. Yes men really need to learn that one, simply to listen, as half the time after a woman is crying and letting it all out on his shoulder, she will simply feel better that he has taken the time to listen and to hold her. (hugs) So true hey Roobee?

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      RooBee 8 years ago from Here

      Well, as usual - ten billion people (okay maybe a little fewer than that) have already been here singing your praises. Don't blame them and I second most of their notions! You're awesome BP! Thanks for the funny, true, and informative guide. My other half is still learning that a woman doesn't always want a logical solution - she often just wants a willing ear. :)

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      So very true GL, if we are treated right by a man we thrive, it really is so simple. Thanks a million for leaving a wonderful comment :)

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      Gypsy Lyric 8 years ago from California

      Hello blondepoet, I appreciate this writing for all my varied, diversified experiences of my own. #4 in "how to please" as well as #4 & #10 in "how to approach" especially jumped at me. If a woman feels promoted by her man, she will feel special, loved.

      peace to you

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      blondepoet 8 years ago from australia

      Hi there Hope thanks for brightnening up my page in these early hours on a Sunday morning. Thanks heaps for the good wishes too. :)